What is your ideal romantic partner?

[Post War America]

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

12 is still pretty damn young... that would be pushing it at best...

[Myrobia]

Personality profiles.

INTJ is a more rational person (I am an INTJ) whereas an INFJ is more of a feeler (based on profile).

Generally both work out of intuition, but one is more concerned about people's feelings and taking care of them whereas the other is more rational and more calculating, trying to make things work and find permanent solutions to problems. Yadda Yadda.

It's a bad barometer of dating to say the least.

Two rationals in a relationship sounds like constant argument, sometimes you've got to shut up. It's fine to live a rational life but arguing with my wife isn't marriage.

But you won't always agree on everything an arguing gets the problems out in the open.

[Firsthome]

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

Indeed. Mind, dating is not illegal, but if I was his age I'd stay away from that situation.

She's not 10 or 11

She's almost 13 -.-

[T Roosevelt]

Would your ideal romantic partner ever argue with you?

'Yes often, just because I make bad decisions and I'm not that bright, I need someone who can correct me. (I'd prefer she'd gently suggest that I go with her idea but that may not always be possible)

I'm too confident in myself to encourage arguments but a gentle suggestion might not be terrible. My problem is with the suggestion from my wife being a command.

[Soviet Haaregrad]

I'm 15

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

He already said she's 12.
Additionally many areas have 'romeo and jullet' clauses in their laws regarding statutory rape, here's it's 4 years so a 15 year old and 11 year old could carry on a relationship without any potential legal ramifications.

[Inyourfaceistan]

Hey guys!
Laxus here with another question-based thread all about you! This time we will be discussing your ideal romantic partner. We will also be discussing what types of males or females we dislike. Im guessing a lot of us aren't into talking about romance and relationships on NS. I am this way only ,because I'm interested in many other topics and subjects discussed on NS. Here is a chance for you to share your romantic preferences. Lets get started!

Personality/other (most important)
-Preferably Introverted personality, but because I'm less likely to pursue an extroverted girl unless makes her attraction known to me
-She doesn't have to be a genius, so long as she isn't ignorant and is a good listener
-Sweet, kind-hearted, loving and innocent
-Believer in Christ
-High tolerance of my goofballism
-Doesn't mind being romantic

Asethetic traits
-No official racial ethnic preference, but I find myself mostly attracted to young women of Hispanic/Latina heritage (however, I do find pretty much any girl with center-spectrum skin attractive, including "olive-skinned" Caucasian girls and "light skinned" African girls)
-Tan/Mocha/Caramel skin
-Dark brown or black hair, sometimes lighter brown highlights can do favors, always long and wavy
-Dark brown eyes, sometimes Hazel or dark green eyes
-Body shape doesn't really matter so long as she isn't a pumpkin nor a twig...

Apparel (least important)
- I would prefer a feminine and stylish woman who dresses in pretty skirts and ballet flats, and can rock a pair of 3 - 4inch heels under the right conditions; but this category is almost null considering most of my crushes have been the athletic sweatpants and tank top, or jeans and a sweater types.

[Anglo-California]

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

You're still going to be in some trouble. Is she even developed?

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

Still, you can get into trouble. You being interested in a prepubescent girl sounds pretty skeezy.

[Firsthome]

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

12 is still pretty damn young... that would be pushing it at best...

It's a 3 year difference.

I live across the US from her.

What ami gonna do?

[Myrobia]

Indeed. Mind, dating is not illegal, but if I was his age I'd stay away from that situation.

She's not 10 or 11

She's almost 13 -.-

(Its not you Its just funny to me to hear about dating at that age)

EDIT: not insult to you bro.

[The Flood]

It's called logic. Banning something does not increase incidence of the activity, it decreases it. That's why we have laws. A statistic that says otherwise is either fabricated or erroneous.
With some exceptions, like alcohol prohibition. Which is presumably a reverse psychology type of thing, which would certainly not occur with abortions, because that makes absolutely no sense.

So what you're saying is you have absolutely no proof whatsoever but we should just believe that you're correct?

I don't care what you believe, I am correct.

And on the minuscule chance that I'm not, that doesn't mean abortion should be legal, it means that a different approach to preventing it needs to be taken.

Anyway, on topic, this is basically the reason I can't date a pro-choicer. I couldn't be with someone who I'd argue with about an issue that I deem to be of the utmost importance, an issue where I have absolutely nothing but contempt for the opposing stance. If she was pro-choice, I'd be enraged every time it came up. I can feel my blood pressure rise every time I even see the word 'abortion'.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Personality profiles.

INTJ is a more rational person (I am an INTJ) whereas an INFJ is more of a feeler (based on profile).

Generally both work out of intuition, but one is more concerned about people's feelings and taking care of them whereas the other is more rational and more calculating, trying to make things work and find permanent solutions to problems. Yadda Yadda.

It's a bad barometer of dating to say the least.

Two rationals in a relationship sounds like constant argument, sometimes you've got to shut up. It's fine to live a rational life but arguing with my wife isn't marriage.

Like I said, bad barometer. Two people who are types INTJs can make their relationship work. As well as two INFJs.

It's a bad barometer in general period, because most people look at one dimension and don't make a complete personality analysis. Just because your dominant actions are to think things through doesn't mean that you can't feel your way out of a situation either.

[Spoder]

'Yes often, just because I make bad decisions and I'm not that bright, I need someone who can correct me. (I'd prefer she'd gently suggest that I go with her idea but that may not always be possible)

I'm too confident in myself to encourage arguments but a gentle suggestion might not be terrible. My problem is with the suggestion from my wife being a command.

You preach misogyny like a baby poops their diaper.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Indeed. Mind, dating is not illegal, but if I was his age I'd stay away from that situation.

She's not 10 or 11

She's almost 13 -.-

I'd still stay away from it if I were you though, or at least hold off until you both are at a more acceptable age range.

Mostly because while dating is not illegal, like I said before, shit happens.

[Inyourfaceistan]

12 is still pretty damn young... that would be pushing it at best...

It's a 3 year difference.

I live across the US from her.

What ami gonna do?

Wait until college. Then its normal apparently (even though I still think its weird to be creeping on Freshmen girls as a Junior)...

[Firsthome]

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

Still, you can get into trouble. You being interested in a prepubescent girl sounds pretty skeezy.

I'm not interested in her in that way

I like her personality

[Soviet Haaregrad]

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

Still, you can get into trouble. You being interested in a prepubescent girl sounds pretty skeezy.

A prepubescent 12 year old girl is likely malnourished.

[Sun Wukong]

Half of your own age + 7, or within one year of yourself, is the youngest you should go.

[T Roosevelt]

I'm too confident in myself to encourage arguments but a gentle suggestion might not be terrible. My problem is with the suggestion from my wife being a command.

You preach misogyny like a baby poops their diaper.

The difference is that I can clean myself up, and that's the reason that I won't let anyone command me.

[Myrobia]

'Yes often, just because I make bad decisions and I'm not that bright, I need someone who can correct me. (I'd prefer she'd gently suggest that I go with her idea but that may not always be possible)

I'm too confident in myself to encourage arguments but a gentle suggestion might not be terrible. My problem is with the suggestion from my wife being a command.

I'll gladly let my wife manipulate me, I'd perfer to be the head of the household but I know the old saying.

Behind every successful man, there is a strong, wise and hardworking woman.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

It's a 3 year difference.

I live across the US from her.

What ami gonna do?

Wait until college. Then its normal apparently (even though I still think its weird to be creeping on Freshmen girls as a Junior)...

Not really, a 13 and a 15 year old (borderline 16) seems more acceptable to society.

However, I'd be careful with her and her parents if I were him.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

He already said she's 12.
Additionally many areas have 'romeo and jullet' clauses in their laws regarding statutory rape, here's it's 4 years so a 15 year old and 11 year old could carry on a relationship without any potential legal ramifications.

I'm aware it depends on state. Skeezy however, and if her family had a mind to it, they could definitely try to get him in trouble.

[Firsthome]

Im not dating her

Yet

Maybe in a couple of years, like 5, :3

I can always hope :3

[Zaldakki]

You know what would probably help me find a girl?

Talking to a girl, and trying reeealllly hard not to insult views by accident

I think I found a girl, but she's 3 years younger than me and lives across the continent

I know what she looks like because we have skyped

I met her on minecraft, don't judge me

If you're a freshman, you're 13 or 14. If she's three years younger than you, she's 10 or 11.

What the hell man?

[Spoder]

You preach misogyny like a baby poops their diaper.

The difference is that I can clean myself up, and that's the reason that I won't let anyone command me.

The difference is that shitting yourself as a baby is perfectly fine and not immoral and not disgusting.