What is your ideal romantic partner?

[Aksun]

(Going to borrow your template OP I hope you don't mind)

Preferences: Female only

Asethetic traits

1) Caucasian
2) Skinny, but not bones (~135 is about normal for the average 5'6" female in the U.S. (correct me if I am wrong))
3) Light skinned (no tan or a little bit of a tan)
4) Long hair

Apparel

I really don't care as long as it is constructive (no booty shorts, revealing wear, etc). When men and women wear clothing like that (men wearing the male equivalent) it is usually used to attract the opposite sex.

Personality/other

1) INFJ - Would balance out my INTJ.
2) Loves to draw or paint. Is really "artsy."
3) Some type of college degree (not required, but preferred). Education is important and I believe that an educated person would understand the dynamics of a relationship.
4) Is into video games or at least shows an interest in them. I game a lot during my free time and that may change, but for now that is the only way that I know of to bond with someone.
5) Is willing to share emotions and/or help someone understand them.

Now I am assuming by the OP's first post that this is identifying the "perfect partner." In reality nobody is perfect, but at least I can understand where they are coming from. It is nice to dream and have confidence in meeting them one day eh?

whats INFJ and INTJ

They are personality traits... Let me find a link for you. --> http://www.16personalities.com/personality-types click on types.

[Flaxxony]

False. All it does is allow someone to say "oh, no wonder he believes that way, hes a christian white male protestant etc. Should have known." And then write off their argument as invalid

And what exactly is wrong about writing off some arguments when these are clearly born out of outdated or erroneous perceptions?

Would you listen to a teenager who argues that beating their spouse is ok? Would you listen to a senior citizen argue the same? Or would you write them off as having fucked up views?

No its because holding a higher standard for white/protestand etc

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

By assuming this, you are caricaturizing right now.

Stop it with the strawman.

No I am making a valid conclusion and you are just trying to pretend that wasnt what you were doing.

Now lets get on topic. I will of course let you have the last word because that is the disciplined thing to do

And you're wrong again. I get that such questions are irrelevant to you but by no means are they ageist or racist.

[T Roosevelt]

GET ON TOPIC before the mods shut this down

Would your ideal romantic partner ever argue with you?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

(Going to borrow your template OP I hope you don't mind)

Preferences: Female only

Asethetic traits

1) Caucasian
2) Skinny, but not bones (~135 is about normal for the average 5'6" female in the U.S. (correct me if I am wrong))
3) Light skinned (no tan or a little bit of a tan)
4) Long hair

Apparel

I really don't care as long as it is constructive (no booty shorts, revealing wear, etc). When men and women wear clothing like that (men wearing the male equivalent) it is usually used to attract the opposite sex.

Personality/other

1) INFJ - Would balance out my INTJ.
2) Loves to draw or paint. Is really "artsy."
3) Some type of college degree (not required, but preferred). Education is important and I believe that an educated person would understand the dynamics of a relationship.
4) Is into video games or at least shows an interest in them. I game a lot during my free time and that may change, but for now that is the only way that I know of to bond with someone.
5) Is willing to share emotions and/or help someone understand them.

Now I am assuming by the OP's first post that this is identifying the "perfect partner." In reality nobody is perfect, but at least I can understand where they are coming from. It is nice to dream and have confidence in meeting them one day eh?

whats INFJ and INTJ

Personality profiles.

INTJ is a more rational person (I am an INTJ) whereas an INFJ is more of a feeler (based on profile).

Generally both work out of intuition, but one is more concerned about people's feelings and taking care of them whereas the other is more rational and more calculating, trying to make things work and find permanent solutions to problems. Yadda Yadda.

It's a bad barometer of dating to say the least.

[Myrobia]

Minecraft love, are you 20 or over, if so I'd say keep it low until shes 20

No, I rp that with other people

No, I mean like.... You know... That love between a 12 year old and a 15 year old :3

Oh, well then disregard my advice as I didn't get into dating until I was like 17 and in high school

[Soviet Haaregrad]

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're talking out of your ass and can't prove that?

It's called logic. Banning something does not increase incidence of the activity, it decreases it. That's why we have laws. A statistic that says otherwise is either fabricated or erroneous.

With some exceptions, like alcohol prohibition. Which is presumably a reverse psychology type of thing, which would certainly not occur with abortions, because that makes absolutely no sense.

So what you're saying is you have absolutely no proof whatsoever but we should just believe that you're correct?

[Spoder]

By assuming this, you are caricaturizing right now.

Stop it with the strawman.

No I am making a valid conclusion and you are just trying to pretend that wasnt what you were doing.

Now lets get on topic. I will of course let you have the last word because that is the disciplined thing to do

You're strawmanning.

I have no quarrel with fools.


The ideal partner for me is just somebody who is an amazing person. It does not facilitate specific characteristics, but rather a mixture of many different characteristics that ends up creating an amazing person. For me, there is no "one size fits all" interpretation of love. I've only fallen in love once, and not being loved back is horrible.

My issue with Teddy's interpretation stems from my fear of hurting people close to me/that I love. I will never act possessive or try to fervently pursue somebody I am attracted to, because what I want more than anything else is for them to be happy.

[Myrobia]

whats INFJ and INTJ

Personality profiles.

INTJ is a more rational person (I am an INTJ) whereas an INFJ is more of a feeler (based on profile).

Generally both work out of intuition, but one is more concerned about people's feelings and taking care of them whereas the other is more rational and more calculating, trying to make things work and find permanent solutions to problems. Yadda Yadda.

It's a bad barometer of dating to say the least.

Ahhh. thank you

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

And what exactly is wrong about writing off some arguments when these are clearly born out of outdated or erroneous perceptions?

Would you listen to a teenager who argues that beating their spouse is ok? Would you listen to a senior citizen argue the same? Or would you write them off as having fucked up views?

No its because holding a higher standard for white/protestand etc

Yeah, you're reading too much into this, and wrong. Not to mention that the conclusions reached sound insane.

[Firsthome]

You know what would probably help me find a girl?

Talking to a girl, and trying reeealllly hard not to insult views by accident

I think I found a girl, but she's 3 years younger than me and lives across the continent

I know what she looks like because we have skyped

I met her on minecraft, don't judge me

Sounds awesome. Why would anyone judge you?

Because my parents do, and my therapist things I'm going to hop a train from Philly to Arizona

I don't live in philly, it's the closest train station unless thorn dale has one :3

[Anglo-California]

You know what would probably help me find a girl?

Talking to a girl, and trying reeealllly hard not to insult views by accident

I think I found a girl, but she's 3 years younger than me and lives across the continent

I know what she looks like because we have skyped

I met her on minecraft, don't judge me

If you're a freshman, you're 13 or 14. If she's three years younger than you, she's 10 or 11.

What the hell man?

[Myrobia]

GET ON TOPIC before the mods shut this down

Would your ideal romantic partner ever argue with you?

'Yes often, just because I make bad decisions and I'm not that bright, I need someone who can correct me. (I'd prefer she'd gently suggest that I go with her idea but that may not always be possible)

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're talking out of your ass and can't prove that?

It's called logic. Banning something does not increase incidence of the activity, it decreases it. That's why we have laws. A statistic that says otherwise is either fabricated or erroneous.

With some exceptions, like alcohol prohibition. Which is presumably a reverse psychology type of thing, which would certainly not occur with abortions, because that makes absolutely no sense.

Banning and not solving the predonimant issues = Keeping up frequency, except you just created a black market.

Restrictions and solving the predominant issues = lowers frequency, but you still have movements that will oppose you, but overall will agree with you on how you're dealing with the specifics to protect the people you are not allowing to take a certain action.

Non-restrictions and solving the predominant issues = keeps everyone happy and lowers frequency to almost zero, which are the significant cases and the reason why no restrictions are good

You are on the first path and not thinking of the other two nor of any contingent solutions to your problems nor have you even considered the realities of the situation in your answer and instead are hellbent on making your point without addressing your realities.

I'd hardly call that logic.

[Firsthome]

No, I rp that with other people

No, I mean like.... You know... That love between a 12 year old and a 15 year old :3

Oh, well then disregard my advice as I didn't get into dating until I was like 17 and in high school

I am in high school

[Firsthome]

You know what would probably help me find a girl?

Talking to a girl, and trying reeealllly hard not to insult views by accident

I think I found a girl, but she's 3 years younger than me and lives across the continent

I know what she looks like because we have skyped

I met her on minecraft, don't judge me

If you're a freshman, you're 13 or 14. If she's three years younger than you, she's 10 or 11.

What the hell man?

I'm 15

[Myrobia]

Sounds awesome. Why would anyone judge you?

Because my parents do, and my therapist things I'm going to hop a train from Philly to Arizona

I don't live in philly, it's the closest train station unless thorn dale has one :3

Print out a train ticket and leave it laying about, freak your parents out. (plz don't do what I just said)

[Firsthome]

Because my parents do, and my therapist things I'm going to hop a train from Philly to Arizona

I don't live in philly, it's the closest train station unless thorn dale has one :3

Print out a train ticket and leave it laying about, freak your parents out. (plz don't do what I just said)

I have a train ticket

To Newport :3

[Firsthome]

You know what would probably help me find a girl?

Talking to a girl, and trying reeealllly hard not to insult views by accident

I think I found a girl, but she's 3 years younger than me and lives across the continent

I know what she looks like because we have skyped

I met her on minecraft, don't judge me

If you're a freshman, you're 13 or 14. If she's three years younger than you, she's 10 or 11.

What the hell man?

I didn't say I liked her because of her bod.

Geez

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

If you're a freshman, you're 13 or 14. If she's three years younger than you, she's 10 or 11.

What the hell man?

I'm 15

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

[T Roosevelt]

whats INFJ and INTJ

Personality profiles.

INTJ is a more rational person (I am an INTJ) whereas an INFJ is more of a feeler (based on profile).

Generally both work out of intuition, but one is more concerned about people's feelings and taking care of them whereas the other is more rational and more calculating, trying to make things work and find permanent solutions to problems. Yadda Yadda.

It's a bad barometer of dating to say the least.

Two rationals in a relationship sounds like constant argument, sometimes you've got to shut up. It's fine to live a rational life but arguing with my wife isn't marriage.

[Myrobia]

Oh, well then disregard my advice as I didn't get into dating until I was like 17 and in high school

I am in high school

Freshman Fridays , (I didn't mean you weren't in high school, was just saying)

[Aksun]

Hey guys could we get back on topic please? For those who are actually interested in this topic you all are making it impossible to have a discussion. I mean who cares about how old person x is. I would prefer to have a proper discussion or something worth talking about.

[Firsthome]

I'm 15

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

She's 12, and she lives across the us from me

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I'm 15

If she's 10 or 11 yo, you're entering a realm where problems with law enforcement are quite real and plausible. As in, wrong.

Indeed. Mind, dating is not illegal, but if I was his age I'd stay away from that situation.