It's called rubberneckin', baby.

[Imperializt Russia]

In the UK, my party (The labour party) uses gender quotas.

what purpose does it serve them?

I'd assume it's something to do with generally having few women in politics. Which is an issue for a variety of reasons, and the allegations of parliamentary sexual harassment probably doesn't help.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual.

Fuck, there's a tear in my right eye.

I'm sure if gender was an arbitrary personal psychological construct, I wouldn't heavily empathize with what you feel.

[Arglorand]

I agree entirely.

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual. Have fun~!

Did I mention that I have a shitton of respect for you locked away in my closet? Here, have it.

[Ostroeuropa]

It's the absurdity of gender that is the very reason why I reject transgender people's genders, as I do with all genders.

People with a lack of gender and an absence of gender identity besides said lack generally suffer from gender dysphoria.

I'd know since I feel far more misgendered by being interpreted as man instead of neutral/agender.

How does your theory explain gender dysphoria? Gender isn't an option, it isn't an arbitrary assessment, it is part of the integrity and essence of the person you are. You would probably understand what I mean if suddenly you started to get your body slowly get the physical characteristics associated with the opposite set of binary people.

If it wasn't uncomfortable, suffocating and very real like that, people wouldn't be transgender, because nobody's cray-cray enough to choose such a thing!

It's real man / real womaning.
If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.
I'm not saying they choose it. I'd explicitly deny that.
(Though in my opinion, someone can carefully DECONSTRUCT their gender identity to become genderless, it isn't really possible to choose a gender.)
I'd say they simply identify with another gender because of cultural and social factors. It's a symptom of granfalloons.

If I declare myself a fuzzylumpkin, and say you are a didgeradon, and we convince society to divide itself between those camps and start insisting that it isn't arbitrary bullshit, eventually, someone will start identifying as both. Or neither. Or cross the floor.

[Aurora Novus]

People with a lack of gender and an absence of gender identity besides said lack generally suffer from gender dysphoria.

I'd know since I feel far more misgendered by being interpreted as man instead of neutral/agender.

How does your theory explain gender dysphoria? Gender isn't an option, it isn't an arbitrary assessment, it is part of the integrity and essence of the person you are. You would probably understand what I mean if suddenly you started to get your body slowly get the physical characteristics associated with the opposite set of binary people.

If it wasn't uncomfortable, suffocating and very real like that, people wouldn't be transgender, because nobody's cray-cray enough to choose such a thing!

Gender dysphoria is the product of a social environment where gender is pandered to as a real and relevant thing, obviously. That's not that hard to explain away. Remove the social environment where gender is reocgnized as a real thing, and gender dysphoria would cease to be a thing. People would no longer experience the sensation of being misclassified or that certain labels don't fit them, because there would be no such classifications to list them by.

[Ostroeuropa]

I agree entirely.

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual. Have fun~!

Heres the thing. I don't identify as genderlerss. I just am.
That's what you don't get. I don't think i'm a special snowflake or anything. I just think the rest of you are acting ridiculous. It isn't about me. It's about the rest of you.
It's like "Believing" in atheism.
No. That isn't what it's like.

[Dumb Ideologies]

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual. Have fun~!

Did I mention that I have a shitton of respect for you locked away in my closet? Here, have it.

I'm a bit skeptical of closets having spent most of my teens stuck alone in one apart from occasional moments where I'm sure I saw Tom Cruise.

[Aurora Novus]

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual. Have fun~!

I see that you have no actual counter-argument.

It should be noted that false beliefs and meaningless concepts bring people solace all the time. Look at religion.
It does not make them any less of a false and meaningless concept however, and ultimately, society would be far better off without such conceptualizations and groupings.

[Ostroeuropa]

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual.

Fuck, there's a tear in my right eye.

I'm sure if gender was an arbitrary personal psychological construct, I wouldn't heavily empathize with what you feel.

Just like how if Jeebus wasn't real you wouldn't empathize with what people say when they declare they feel his touch.
People act delusional because they feel things all the time.
Oh you empathize with someone because they identify as X?
Did it occur to you that that feeling you share with that person should be shared with all persons and that you're just unnecessarily partitioning humanity?

[Arglorand]

People with a lack of gender and an absence of gender identity besides said lack generally suffer from gender dysphoria.

I'd know since I feel far more misgendered by being interpreted as man instead of neutral/agender.

How does your theory explain gender dysphoria? Gender isn't an option, it isn't an arbitrary assessment, it is part of the integrity and essence of the person you are. You would probably understand what I mean if suddenly you started to get your body slowly get the physical characteristics associated with the opposite set of binary people.

If it wasn't uncomfortable, suffocating and very real like that, people wouldn't be transgender, because nobody's cray-cray enough to choose such a thing!

It's real man / real womaning.
If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.
I'm not saying they choose it. I'd explicitly deny that.
(Though in my opinion, someone can carefully DECONSTRUCT their gender identity to become genderless, it isn't really possible to choose a gender.)
I'd say they simply identify with another gender because of cultural and social factors. It's a symptom of granfalloons.

If I declare myself a fuzzylumpkin, and say you are a didgeradon, and we convince society to divide itself between those camps and start insisting that it isn't arbitrary bullshit, eventually, someone will start identifying as both. Or neither. Or cross the floor.

And the problem is... where?

Why is it a fundamentally bad thing to declare yourself a fuzzylumpkin?

Let's take this to another sphere, that of ethnicity, which is not at all different from gender in this case. Fundamentally, there's no difference between me and a Russian. I'm an atheist. Lots of Russians are atheist. My native language is Lithuanian, but I'm sure there are Russians, especially in Lithuania, whose native language is also Lithuanian. I'm sure my blood type is the same as many Russians'. And I personally know Russians who enjoy high fantasy as much as me. So fundamentally, there's no physical difference between two different ethnicities.

But I am a Lithuanian. Not a Russian. And I would find it immensely offensive if someone called me Russian. And I know your rants about how "it's offensive" is not an argument, which are completely safe for you to post on the internet, because in real life people stop talking, storm off or downright punch you in the face when they hear something offensive coming from your lips. But I have this identity and it's mine and no matter how much anyone tries to abolish it I will have it because this arbitrary group is my group. It might be arbitrary, but it's mine.

And same goes for gender. My gender identity might be arbitrary, but it's fucking mine. And the only reason you don't understand this, forgive me for this implication, is because I think you just might not be able to empathise with me because you are agender and don't understand that some people can't be you.

[Dumb Ideologies]

And that helps reaffirm your identity as two very special and unique snowflakes I'm sure. Just as my gender identity continues to help me negotiate social structures and existence. Luckily you cannot force compliance with your ideas of "freedom" and instead can only frustratedly assert that it must go away on the internet while everyone else goes on with their lives as usual. Have fun~!

Heres the thing. I don't identify as genderlerss. I just am.
That's what you don't get. I don't think i'm a special snowflake or anything. I just think the rest of you are acting ridiculous. It isn't about me. It's about the rest of you.
It's like "Believing" in atheism.
No. That isn't what it's like.

"Everyone apart from me is nuts - I'm the only one who can see clearly through the fog of sheeple and ideology". Let's be honest, without warning you find yourself falling from the sky sometimes on cold winters days, dontcha?

Advice offered honestly, the "special snowflake" thing in your sig really needs to go - why would you append to each of your posts something that subtracts credibility?

[Ostroeuropa]

It's real man / real womaning.
If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.
I'm not saying they choose it. I'd explicitly deny that.
(Though in my opinion, someone can carefully DECONSTRUCT their gender identity to become genderless, it isn't really possible to choose a gender.)
I'd say they simply identify with another gender because of cultural and social factors. It's a symptom of granfalloons.

If I declare myself a fuzzylumpkin, and say you are a didgeradon, and we convince society to divide itself between those camps and start insisting that it isn't arbitrary bullshit, eventually, someone will start identifying as both. Or neither. Or cross the floor.

And the problem is... where?

Why is it a fundamentally bad thing to declare yourself a fuzzylumpkin?

Let's take this to another sphere, that of ethnicity, which is not at all different from gender in this case. Fundamentally, there's no difference between me and a Russian. I'm an atheist. Lots of Russians are atheist. My native language is Lithuanian, but I'm sure there are Russians, especially in Lithuania, whose native language is also Lithuanian. I'm sure my blood type is the same as many Russians'. And I personally know Russians who enjoy high fantasy as much as me. So fundamentally, there's no physical difference between two different ethnicities.

But I am a Lithuanian. Not a Russian. And I would find it immensely offensive if someone called me Russian. And I know your rants about how "it's offensive" is not an argument, which are completely safe for you to post on the internet, because in real life people stop talking, storm off or downright punch you in the face when they hear something offensive coming from your lips. But I have this identity and it's mine and no matter how much anyone tries to abolish it I will have it because this arbitrary group is my group. It might be arbitrary, but it's mine.

And same goes for gender. My gender identity might be arbitrary, but it's fucking mine. And the only reason you don't understand this, forgive me for this implication, is because I think you just might not be able to empathise with me because you are agender and don't understand that some people can't be you.

If your best argument is that it's only as arbitrary as Nationality, you wont convince someone who is a EUnificationist now will you.

[Ostroeuropa]

Heres the thing. I don't identify as genderlerss. I just am.
That's what you don't get. I don't think i'm a special snowflake or anything. I just think the rest of you are acting ridiculous. It isn't about me. It's about the rest of you.
It's like "Believing" in atheism.
No. That isn't what it's like.

"Everyone apart from me is nuts - I'm the only one who can see clearly through the fog of sheeple and ideology". Let's be honest, without warning you find yourself falling from the sky sometimes on cold winters days, dontcha?

Advice offered honestly, the "special snowflake" thing in your sig really needs to go - why would you append to each of your posts something that subtracts credibility?

Can you show me where I act entitled or anything? No?
Then it doesn't apply to me. It does however apply to a lot of other people.

[Dumb Ideologies]

It's real man / real womaning.
If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.
I'm not saying they choose it. I'd explicitly deny that.
(Though in my opinion, someone can carefully DECONSTRUCT their gender identity to become genderless, it isn't really possible to choose a gender.)
I'd say they simply identify with another gender because of cultural and social factors. It's a symptom of granfalloons.

If I declare myself a fuzzylumpkin, and say you are a didgeradon, and we convince society to divide itself between those camps and start insisting that it isn't arbitrary bullshit, eventually, someone will start identifying as both. Or neither. Or cross the floor.

And the problem is... where?

Why is it a fundamentally bad thing to declare yourself a fuzzylumpkin?

Let's take this to another sphere, that of ethnicity, which is not at all different from gender in this case. Fundamentally, there's no difference between me and a Russian. I'm an atheist. Lots of Russians are atheist. My native language is Lithuanian, but I'm sure there are Russians, especially in Lithuania, whose native language is also Lithuanian. I'm sure my blood type is the same as many Russians'. And I personally know Russians who enjoy high fantasy as much as me. So fundamentally, there's no physical difference between two different ethnicities.

But I am a Lithuanian. Not a Russian. And I would find it immensely offensive if someone called me Russian. And I know your rants about how "it's offensive" is not an argument, which are completely safe for you to post on the internet, because in real life people stop talking, storm off or downright punch you in the face when they hear something offensive coming from your lips. But I have this identity and it's mine and no matter how much anyone tries to abolish it I will have it because this arbitrary group is my group. It might be arbitrary, but it's mine.

And same goes for gender. My gender identity might be arbitrary, but it's fucking mine. And the only reason you don't understand this, forgive me for this implication, is because I think you just might not be able to empathise with me because you are agender and don't understand that some people can't be you.

Fuckin' nailed.

[Ostroeuropa]

And the problem is... where?

Why is it a fundamentally bad thing to declare yourself a fuzzylumpkin?

Let's take this to another sphere, that of ethnicity, which is not at all different from gender in this case. Fundamentally, there's no difference between me and a Russian. I'm an atheist. Lots of Russians are atheist. My native language is Lithuanian, but I'm sure there are Russians, especially in Lithuania, whose native language is also Lithuanian. I'm sure my blood type is the same as many Russians'. And I personally know Russians who enjoy high fantasy as much as me. So fundamentally, there's no physical difference between two different ethnicities.

But I am a Lithuanian. Not a Russian. And I would find it immensely offensive if someone called me Russian. And I know your rants about how "it's offensive" is not an argument, which are completely safe for you to post on the internet, because in real life people stop talking, storm off or downright punch you in the face when they hear something offensive coming from your lips. But I have this identity and it's mine and no matter how much anyone tries to abolish it I will have it because this arbitrary group is my group. It might be arbitrary, but it's mine.

And same goes for gender. My gender identity might be arbitrary, but it's fucking mine. And the only reason you don't understand this, forgive me for this implication, is because I think you just might not be able to empathise with me because you are agender and don't understand that some people can't be you.

Fuckin' nailed.

Oh I see. So it really is as stupid as nationality. Then I don't need to even pretend to take you seriously anymore.
"Fuckin' Nailed." indeed.

Partitionists one and all.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.

I don't feel the kind of dysphoria that motivates me to mutilate myself, but I still feel dysphoria, and I personally never really suffered transphobia in real life.

Sure, it was hard to understand myself. Sure, growing up felt like mutilating me by the insides on various occasions in various manners. Sure, nobody ever really had a bigger understand of trans* folk I have now to mention very basic things about it, or to research more before they speak up strengthening inaccurate academic pathologization of our reality and furthering confusion and doubts about yourself. Sure, the misogynistic and transmisogynistic values we are instilled while growing up repealed me from such curiosity, and when I was no longer idiotic because I came out the first time very naturally, I problematized our existence as a "serious social and inner unsatisfaction I shouldn't belittle by associating with what I feel".

But that alone wouldn't make some of the stuff I've been through and the way I am physically forms of aggression, as this whole necessity and issue came from the inside to start with. From the outside, mostly because 'boy' and 'man' are really different value judgments in terms of gender, just like 'girl' and 'woman'. I never felt out of my place being a boy, because boys can be various things that are prohibitive from men, and I was always half afraid, half curious of what impression I'd grow about myself when the time to call myself a 'man' would come, but now I just feel half 'this is a wrong assignment', half 'lol fuck this is disturbing and suffocating just as my body'.

But I was always very neutral and never understood the reasons for me to bother with arbitrary systems of behavior based on stuff like "sex" (I mean gender assigned at birth). I know my demigenderness comes from a very, very young age. And the fact that my gender fluidity also comes from such is its strongest indicator, because I was felt different toward girls and boys in a way that was similarly close and distant.

[Dumb Ideologies]

Fuckin' nailed.

Oh I see. So it really is as stupid as nationality. Then I don't need to even pretend to take you seriously anymore.
"Fuckin' Nailed." indeed.

Partitionists one and all.

Ostro's secret identity exposed

[Aurora Novus]

And the problem is... where?

Why is it a fundamentally bad thing to declare yourself a fuzzylumpkin?

1. It's not based on anything relevant. It's an arbitrary label, the existence of which is solely to seperate and group up people, when there is no real reason to. This is fine, say, if you're doing so for fun. But as a method of social organization, it makes no sense. It's simply ridiculous and inane.

2. It can, consequently, be extremenly harmful, as it causes individuals to heavily stake their identities upon something which is, ultimately, absolutely meaningless. It causes unecessary divisions between groups, and leads to all sorts of conundrums (such as people freaking out and demanding people recognize these identities, despite the identities being intrinsically absurd). It leads to people who would, under other cirumstances, associate with one another and see one another as brethren, to instead view each one another as "others", part of the different groups.

When groupism is based upon something significant, that's one thing, and generally it's alright. When it's based upon nonsense gibberish though, it's bad.

And same goes for gender. My gender identity might be arbitrary, but it's fucking mine. And the only reason you don't understand this, forgive me for this implication, is because I think you just might not be able to empathise with me because you are agender and don't understand that some people can't be you.

There's no reason you can't remove your gender identity. It is, ultimately, just a label. And a meaningless label at that. And this is a principle example of the harm I was talking about. You've become so attatched to this label, you're identity is so ingrained in this false belief, this meaningless concept, that the very notion of no longer having it causes you deep distress.

That people are so addicted to a meaningless form of social division is insane.

[Ostroeuropa]

Oh I see. So it really is as stupid as nationality. Then I don't need to even pretend to take you seriously anymore.
"Fuckin' Nailed." indeed.

Partitionists one and all.

Ostro's secret identity exposed

Pretty funny. But it betrays the fact you don't actually understand my position. I'm not interested in people all identifying as the same type of ape.
I'm interested in people realizing that a human is a thing that uses an ape as a mobile platform in order to survive.
You are not your body.

[Imperializt Russia]

People with a lack of gender and an absence of gender identity besides said lack generally suffer from gender dysphoria.

I'd know since I feel far more misgendered by being interpreted as man instead of neutral/agender.

How does your theory explain gender dysphoria? Gender isn't an option, it isn't an arbitrary assessment, it is part of the integrity and essence of the person you are. You would probably understand what I mean if suddenly you started to get your body slowly get the physical characteristics associated with the opposite set of binary people.

If it wasn't uncomfortable, suffocating and very real like that, people wouldn't be transgender, because nobody's cray-cray enough to choose such a thing!

It's real man / real womaning.
If people just shut the fuck up and stopped telling a person born male who identifies as a woman
"You're a male" and "That is what a female looks like."
If they just stopped doing that shit, then when/if the person identifies as a female, they wouldn't be so distraught by it.
I'm not saying they choose it. I'd explicitly deny that.
(Though in my opinion, someone can carefully DECONSTRUCT their gender identity to become genderless, it isn't really possible to choose a gender.)
I'd say they simply identify with another gender because of cultural and social factors. It's a symptom of granfalloons.

If I declare myself a fuzzylumpkin, and say you are a didgeradon, and we convince society to divide itself between those camps and start insisting that it isn't arbitrary bullshit, eventually, someone will start identifying as both. Or neither. Or cross the floor.

Acceptance of the non-binary gender spectrum is supposed to end "real man/real womaning". We only have that because only the binary genders are widely accepted. I don't think the 2011 UK Census featured an "other" option for Gender (strictly, only for Sex, which was a binary choice).

I never became particularly aware of the difference between sex and gender.
Besides, how difficult to grasp are the terms "assigned male at birth" and "assigned female at birth"?

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Fuckin' nailed.

I don't really think they are on the agender spectrum.

They're more like cisgender people who don't understand how gender works because their natally assigned gender caused them and people around them apparently more trouble than nothing.

I see a lot of radfems do that. They totally erase transgender experiences as bullshit and misogynistic conspiracies. At the end of the day they're ridiculous.

[Imperializt Russia]

Fuckin' nailed.

I don't really think they are on the agender spectrum.

They're more like cisgender people who don't understand how gender works because their natally assigned gender caused them and people around them apparently more trouble than nothing.

I see a lot of radfems do that. They totally erase transgender experiences as bullshit and misogynistic conspiracies. At the end of the day they're ridiculous.

Radfems cannot be legitimised.

[Ostroeuropa]

Fuckin' nailed.

I don't really think they are on the agender spectrum.

They're more like cisgender people who don't understand how gender works because their natally assigned gender caused them and people around them apparently more trouble than nothing.

I see a lot of radfems do that. They totally erase transgender experiences as bullshit and misogynistic conspiracies. At the end of the day they're ridiculous.

So because of our politics you've decided we can't be telling the truth about our gender.
The only real transpersons are ones who agree with you, and yet you accuse the radfems of conspiracy theorizing?
Pretty funny. Sad, but funny.

For the record, I'm well aware of the trans experience. I know how much it can infuriate and distress someone to be constantly misgendered. I know what it's like to see people file off into seperate gender groups and then feel distraught that you can't join the one you identify with (or lack thereof. For me the distress comes from having to lie and just choose one, usually male to avoid complaints.)
Every time someone calls me he, or she for that matter, I have to bite my tongue and smile at them to prevent me shouting them down.
So when someone like you, who is supposedly on the same wavelength, decides I'm not really agendered because I despise gender identities, you are trying to tell me I must secretly be a male.
The same shit i've had to put up with people doing to me my entire life. Fuck off.
This entire shit about people of a certain politics having their gender identity or lack thereof questioned is extremely fucking bigotted frankly.
And for the record, I advocate a voluntary deconstruction or reorganization of society to produce agendered persons. I'm fine with people carrying on to be gendered if they want to be. I think they are choosing poorly, but it's their damn choice. To have you decide that because of that i'm secretly a male is infuriating.

[Dumb Ideologies]

I don't really think they are on the agender spectrum.

They're more like cisgender people who don't understand how gender works because their natally assigned gender caused them and people around them apparently more trouble than nothing.

I see a lot of radfems do that. They totally erase transgender experiences as bullshit and misogynistic conspiracies. At the end of the day they're ridiculous.

So because of our politics you've decided we can't be telling the truth about our gender.
The only real transpersons are ones who agree with you, and yet you accuse the radfems of conspiracy theorizing?
Pretty funny. Sad, but funny.

For the record, I'm well aware of the trans experience. I know how much it can infuriate and distress someone to be constantly misgendered. I know what it's like to see people file off into seperate gender groups and then feel distraught that you can't join the one you identify with (or lack thereof. For me the distress comes from having to lie and just choose one, usually male to avoid complaints.)
Every time someone calls me he, or she for that matter, I have to bite my tongue and smile at them to prevent me shouting them down.
So when someone like you, who is supposedly on the same wavelength, decides I'm not really agendered because I despise gender identities, you are trying to tell me I must secretly be a male.
The same shit i've had to put up with people doing to me my entire life. Fuck off.

It isn't very nice when the legitimacy of your identity is questioned, is it?

Physician, heal thyself.

[Ostroeuropa]

So because of our politics you've decided we can't be telling the truth about our gender.
The only real transpersons are ones who agree with you, and yet you accuse the radfems of conspiracy theorizing?
Pretty funny. Sad, but funny.

For the record, I'm well aware of the trans experience. I know how much it can infuriate and distress someone to be constantly misgendered. I know what it's like to see people file off into seperate gender groups and then feel distraught that you can't join the one you identify with (or lack thereof. For me the distress comes from having to lie and just choose one, usually male to avoid complaints.)
Every time someone calls me he, or she for that matter, I have to bite my tongue and smile at them to prevent me shouting them down.
So when someone like you, who is supposedly on the same wavelength, decides I'm not really agendered because I despise gender identities, you are trying to tell me I must secretly be a male.
The same shit i've had to put up with people doing to me my entire life. Fuck off.

It isn't very nice when the legitimacy of your identity is questioned, is it?

Physician, heal thyself.

I never deny that people identify the way they do. Comparing my advocacy for voluntary restructuring of society and deconstruction of gender identity to just flat out denying peoples identities is misleading at best, and intellectually dishonest at worst.