If you choose to work as a walking, talking set of tits, that's your problem. I'm sure there were plenty of other places offering similar wages to Hooters.
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by Zottistan » Thu Jun 19, 2014 3:58 am

by Constantinopolis » Thu Jun 19, 2014 3:58 am
Camelza wrote:Where is it said that they are forced into this particular job? You presumed so, because to your utter-conservative mindset it is degrading for any human to have sex, dance etc for money even if she/he wishes to do so. Really, I myself argue about the payment gap between men and women, or the negative impact of gender roles, but what you support doesn't have to do with sexism, but more with a conservative moralistic societal tendency that considers sex to be a taboo.

by Dakini » Thu Jun 19, 2014 3:59 am

by Ardoki » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:02 am
Constantinopolis wrote:Camelza wrote:Where is it said that they are forced into this particular job? You presumed so, because to your utter-conservative mindset it is degrading for any human to have sex, dance etc for money even if she/he wishes to do so. Really, I myself argue about the payment gap between men and women, or the negative impact of gender roles, but what you support doesn't have to do with sexism, but more with a conservative moralistic societal tendency that considers sex to be a taboo.
*ahem* Maybe it's time for someone with an actual "conservative mindset" to step in. Although I wouldn't actually use that label for myself on any set of issues (since I am, after all, a communist), I am vehemently opposed to liberalism in all its forms.
Yes, of course Hooters is degrading to women. To even suggest otherwise smacks of denialism on the part of horny men who want to be able to enjoy the degradation of women without feeling guilty (note: in case you're wondering, I am a man, so I'm speaking of my own gender here). The question of whether the waitresses at Hooters are doing it voluntarily or whether they are forced into it because they need money and lack other options, is frankly irrelevant. Hooters remains just as degrading either way. Hooters could have a staff composed entirely of rich girls doing it for fun, and it would still be degrading.
"Degrading" does not mean "involuntary." Some things are objectively degrading, no matter what the people involved in them think, no matter if these people are coerced into doing those things by poverty or if they're just doing them for fun. Prostitution, for example, is degrading to women. Always. End of story.
Something that is degrading to women is something that promotes cultural attitudes of seeing women as existing for the pleasure and enjoyment of men. Whether something is degrading or not depends entirely on the kind of attitudes it promotes among the customers (restaurant-goers, men who hire prostitutes, etc.), not on the financial situation of the employees/performers/"service providers".
Treating someone as "eye candy", as an object to be appreciated for its ability to sexually arouse you, is degrading, insulting, and vile. It does not matter if the person is willing. Some people are willing to physically hurt themselves, too (for example by cutting themselves). Would it be ok to pay them for it and then sit back and watch? Of course not.
And if you'll allow me a little rant, I am sick and tired of all this "blah blah blah let's embrace sexuality, everything goes between consenting adults, voluntary sexualization is ok" bullshit. Don't pretend you don't know what our hyper-sexualized culture and media is doing to young girls. Don't pretend that putting pictures of scantly-clad women everywhere is just harmless fun as long as the women in the pictures are willing. And don't pretend that a place like Hooters is perfectly okay as long as its employees are volunteering for the job. All these things - together with porn, prostitution, and many others - are sending a poisonous message to women and girls in our culture: "You must be sexual and sexy in order to be valued. You must look and act pleasing to men. Your body is a piece of meat to be bought and sold, and empowerment consists of making sure that you are the one doing the selling, as opposed to having someone else sell you."
Sex is a private and intimate act. It should be kept private and intimate, not plastered all over the media, not exploited for profit, not blatantly alluded to in public spaces. And women should not be culturally pressured into looking or acting a certain way.

by Dakini » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:05 am
Nazi Flower Power wrote:Stagnant Axon Terminal wrote:And I was sexually assaulted by a coworker while working at a normal restaurant.
Ban all restaurants!
Someone was saying in another thread that it's endemic in the restaurant industry in general. Probably because they know there are a lot of people working in restaurants that are desperate to keep their job, don't have a lot of other options, and don't have the money for legal fees.

by Master Shake » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:06 am
Constantinopolis wrote:Camelza wrote:Where is it said that they are forced into this particular job? You presumed so, because to your utter-conservative mindset it is degrading for any human to have sex, dance etc for money even if she/he wishes to do so. Really, I myself argue about the payment gap between men and women, or the negative impact of gender roles, but what you support doesn't have to do with sexism, but more with a conservative moralistic societal tendency that considers sex to be a taboo.
And if you'll allow me a little rant, I am sick and tired of all this "blah blah blah let's embrace sexuality, everything goes between consenting adults, voluntary sexualization is ok" bullshit. Don't pretend you don't know what our hyper-sexualized culture and media is doing to young girls. Don't pretend that putting pictures of scantly-clad women everywhere is just harmless fun as long as the women in the pictures are willing..

by GraySoap » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:08 am

by Veceria » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:09 am
Zeth Rekia wrote:You making Zeno horny.
DesAnges wrote:People don't deserve respect, they earn it.
FoxTropica wrote:And then Hurdegaryp kissed Thafoo, Meanwhile Fox-Mary-"Sue"-Tropica saved TET from destruction and everyone happily forever.
Then suddenly fights broke out because hey, it's the internet.

by Master Shake » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:10 am
Veceria wrote:Boobs are degrading to women, so let's cut them off.
Right?

by Veceria » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:10 am
Zeth Rekia wrote:You making Zeno horny.
DesAnges wrote:People don't deserve respect, they earn it.
FoxTropica wrote:And then Hurdegaryp kissed Thafoo, Meanwhile Fox-Mary-"Sue"-Tropica saved TET from destruction and everyone happily forever.
Then suddenly fights broke out because hey, it's the internet.

by GraySoap » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:10 am
Veceria wrote:Boobs are degrading to women, so let's cut them off.
Right?

by Veceria » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:11 am
GraySoap wrote:Veceria wrote:Boobs are degrading to women, so let's cut them off.
Right?
It is unequal. We should introduce handicap so that some women are not more equal than other women. And we should cut off the hand of any lech who dares look at woman, no less pay to eat in an establishment filled with busty company. These men are pigs and should be taught lesson in humanity.
Zeth Rekia wrote:You making Zeno horny.
DesAnges wrote:People don't deserve respect, they earn it.
FoxTropica wrote:And then Hurdegaryp kissed Thafoo, Meanwhile Fox-Mary-"Sue"-Tropica saved TET from destruction and everyone happily forever.
Then suddenly fights broke out because hey, it's the internet.

by Master Shake » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:12 am

by Veceria » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:14 am
Zeth Rekia wrote:You making Zeno horny.
DesAnges wrote:People don't deserve respect, they earn it.
FoxTropica wrote:And then Hurdegaryp kissed Thafoo, Meanwhile Fox-Mary-"Sue"-Tropica saved TET from destruction and everyone happily forever.
Then suddenly fights broke out because hey, it's the internet.

by Pope Joan » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:14 am

by Camelza » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:25 am
Constantinopolis wrote:Camelza wrote:Where is it said that they are forced into this particular job? You presumed so, because to your utter-conservative mindset it is degrading for any human to have sex, dance etc for money even if she/he wishes to do so. Really, I myself argue about the payment gap between men and women, or the negative impact of gender roles, but what you support doesn't have to do with sexism, but more with a conservative moralistic societal tendency that considers sex to be a taboo.
*ahem* Maybe it's time for someone with an actual "conservative mindset" to step in. Although I wouldn't actually use that label for myself on any set of issues (since I am, after all, a communist), I am vehemently opposed to liberalism in all its forms.
Yes, of course Hooters is degrading to women. To even suggest otherwise smacks of denialism on the part of horny men who want to be able to enjoy the degradation of women without feeling guilty (note: in case you're wondering, I am a man, so I'm speaking of my own gender here). The question of whether the waitresses at Hooters are doing it voluntarily or whether they are forced into it because they need money and lack other options, is frankly irrelevant. Hooters remains just as degrading either way. Hooters could have a staff composed entirely of rich girls doing it for fun, and it would still be degrading.
"Degrading" does not mean "involuntary." Some things are objectively degrading, no matter what the people involved in them think, no matter if these people are coerced into doing those things by poverty or if they're just doing them for fun. Prostitution, for example, is degrading to women. Always. End of story.
Something that is degrading to women is something that promotes cultural attitudes of seeing women as existing for the pleasure and enjoyment of men. Whether something is degrading or not depends entirely on the kind of attitudes it promotes among the customers (restaurant-goers, men who hire prostitutes, etc.), not on the financial situation of the employees/performers/"service providers".
Treating someone as "eye candy", as an object to be appreciated for its ability to sexually arouse you, is degrading, insulting, and vile. It does not matter if the person is willing. Some people are willing to physically hurt themselves, too (for example by cutting themselves). Would it be ok to pay them for it and then sit back and watch? Of course not.
And if you'll allow me a little rant, I am sick and tired of all this "blah blah blah let's embrace sexuality, everything goes between consenting adults, voluntary sexualization is ok" bullshit. Don't pretend you don't know what our hyper-sexualized culture and media is doing to young girls. Don't pretend that putting pictures of scantly-clad women everywhere is just harmless fun as long as the women in the pictures are willing. And don't pretend that a place like Hooters is perfectly okay as long as its employees are volunteering for the job. All these things - together with porn, prostitution, and many others - are sending a poisonous message to women and girls in our culture: "You must be sexual and sexy in order to be valued. You must look and act pleasing to men. Your body is a piece of meat to be bought and sold, and empowerment consists of making sure that you are the one doing the selling, as opposed to having someone else sell you."
Sex is a private and intimate act. It should be kept private and intimate, not plastered all over the media, not exploited for profit, not blatantly alluded to in public spaces.
And women should not be culturally pressured into looking or acting a certain way.

by Nazi Flower Power » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:33 am
Pope Joan wrote:I also know a fine person, an artisan, who had her breasts removed because she hated to have people staring at them.

by Master Shake » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:41 am

by GraySoap » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:42 am
but then men will fetishize what they feel. If we remove their hands they will fetishize what they can hear. If we remove their hearing, then they will fetishize what they taste. And if we remove their tongue, then, and only then, will society be safe from their lecherous ways.Veceria wrote:GraySoap wrote:It is unequal. We should introduce handicap so that some women are not more equal than other women. And we should cut off the hand of any lech who dares look at woman, no less pay to eat in an establishment filled with busty company. These men are pigs and should be taught lesson in humanity.
We should just make all humans blind, then we don't have such problems.

by Ostroeuropa » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:44 am
Camelza wrote:Constantinopolis wrote:*ahem* Maybe it's time for someone with an actual "conservative mindset" to step in. Although I wouldn't actually use that label for myself on any set of issues (since I am, after all, a communist), I am vehemently opposed to liberalism in all its forms.
Ok, let's hear it...Yes, of course Hooters is degrading to women. To even suggest otherwise smacks of denialism on the part of horny men who want to be able to enjoy the degradation of women without feeling guilty (note: in case you're wondering, I am a man, so I'm speaking of my own gender here). The question of whether the waitresses at Hooters are doing it voluntarily or whether they are forced into it because they need money and lack other options, is frankly irrelevant. Hooters remains just as degrading either way. Hooters could have a staff composed entirely of rich girls doing it for fun, and it would still be degrading.
See, I don't have a problem with sexualisation of humans in general, not just with women ...I don't consider degrading for a man to be buttered up wearing a tonga while poledancing for some girls that want to have their night out, it's his choice and I respect it."Degrading" does not mean "involuntary." Some things are objectively degrading, no matter what the people involved in them think, no matter if these people are coerced into doing those things by poverty or if they're just doing them for fun. Prostitution, for example, is degrading to women. Always. End of story.
Prostitution is not degrading, it's degrading according to you. I can understand your point, that materialiasing sex is pretty bad and destroys romance, love etc... but, you have no right to say what other people shall choose as their employment, you can though support their worker rights.Something that is degrading to women is something that promotes cultural attitudes of seeing women as existing for the pleasure and enjoyment of men. Whether something is degrading or not depends entirely on the kind of attitudes it promotes among the customers (restaurant-goers, men who hire prostitutes, etc.), not on the financial situation of the employees/performers/"service providers".
Gender roles will be eliminated through education, not by banning strip-clubs.Treating someone as "eye candy", as an object to be appreciated for its ability to sexually arouse you, is degrading, insulting, and vile. It does not matter if the person is willing. Some people are willing to physically hurt themselves, too (for example by cutting themselves). Would it be ok to pay them for it and then sit back and watch? Of course not.
You're not the one to judge what other adults do, unless their not psychologically in full health. If person A is aroused by person B and person A pays person B to blow person A, if person B is happy to do so, you have no say in the matter.And if you'll allow me a little rant, I am sick and tired of all this "blah blah blah let's embrace sexuality, everything goes between consenting adults, voluntary sexualization is ok" bullshit. Don't pretend you don't know what our hyper-sexualized culture and media is doing to young girls. Don't pretend that putting pictures of scantly-clad women everywhere is just harmless fun as long as the women in the pictures are willing. And don't pretend that a place like Hooters is perfectly okay as long as its employees are volunteering for the job. All these things - together with porn, prostitution, and many others - are sending a poisonous message to women and girls in our culture: "You must be sexual and sexy in order to be valued. You must look and act pleasing to men. Your body is a piece of meat to be bought and sold, and empowerment consists of making sure that you are the one doing the selling, as opposed to having someone else sell you."
You're overreacting, yes women are objectified in a larger portion than men, yes gender roles are responsible for this, but the reason is the ill-education of the masses. Also, being opposed to banning the free will of consenting adults, I cannot support the banning of legal and regulated prostitution, stripping, porn, etc.Sex is a private and intimate act. It should be kept private and intimate, not plastered all over the media, not exploited for profit, not blatantly alluded to in public spaces.
That's your opinion, mate.And women should not be culturally pressured into looking or acting a certain way.
As Tony Blair once said the solution is simply; Education, education, education.

by Master Shake » Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:47 am
GraySoap wrote:but then men will fetishize what they feel. If we remove their hands they will fetishize what they can hear. If we remove their hearing, then they will fetishize what they taste. And if we remove their tongue, then, and only then, will society be safe from their lecherous ways.Veceria wrote:We should just make all humans blind, then we don't have such problems.

by Murkwood » Thu Jun 19, 2014 5:03 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Murkwood, I'm surprised you're not an anti-Semite and don't mind most LGBT rights because boy, aren't you a constellation of the worst opinions to have about everything? o_o
Benuty wrote:I suppose Ken Ham, and the league of Republican-Neocolonialist-Zionist Catholics will not be pleased.
Soldati senza confini wrote:Did I just try to rationalize Murkwood's logic? Please shoot me.

by Olthar » Thu Jun 19, 2014 5:44 am

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by Ifreann » Thu Jun 19, 2014 5:51 am
The Archregimancy wrote:Ifreann wrote:I'm sure the ~90% male population of NSG will have valuable insight to offer on this topic, and I look forward to an enlightening thread.
Throw in the percentage that are hormone-addled heterosexual teenagers, and it can only prove to be even more enlightening than you'd likely anticipated.
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