Dakini wrote:Considering the overwhelming cultural narrative where unattractive men are entitled to relationships but unattractive women aren't... especially the narrative that exists in the circles this guy was running in...
Which has nothing to do with the people you were responding to.
Also, I'd hardly call it an overwhelming cultural narrative where unattractive women aren't entitled to relationships.
Dakini wrote:Not really. Not only do I doubt that we'll actually see a woman go on a shooting rampage because she can't get a date, but there is this narrative that men somehow deserve dates, but can't get them while women don't but easily can (which ignores the women who can't).
Well there you go. You just described what the narrative is actually about. The question isn't of who "deserves" them more but who needs the help more.
I think it's actually a somewhat over-rated narrative, but there's no sense misrepresenting it, and certainly no sense using it to automatically assume sexism in a statement without actually asking the individual in question whether or not they'd apply the same to the gender-flip.




