Part of the argument for why we haven't made contact yet is that space is so ridiculously large that our signals may jot have even reached them, right? But time is pretty damn big too. It's been, what, maybe a century since we started beaming out radio signals? 10,000 years since we started to form cities? There could be species out there that landed on their moon a hundred thousand years ago, a million years ago, ten million, a hundred million, billions even. It's possible there's a fair amount of life out there our age, but it's likely that a vast majority of it is older than the Sun.