The Dating thread

by **Ceannairceach** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:40 pm

Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:Love triangles suck.

Don't they just? I was the angle that was purged in order to make the triangle a line.

by **Libertarian California** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:41 pm

I dun told that thar teachin' lady that only womyn I need is muh very own cousin.

[kidding]

by **Reformed Revolutionary China** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:44 pm

Ceannairceach wrote:
Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:Love triangles suck.

Don't they just? I was the angle that was purged in order to make the triangle a line.

Oh hey Ceann.

Things've developed since the last time I vented out my problems here on this thread. Remember that girl I was seeing (#1) and her friend (#2) who completes the triangle? Well their group of friends met up yesterday and she literally forced #1 to admit that we were going out. Then proceeded to make a scene, throw a fit and cry in public. #1's not going to drop me like I expected though, which is a breath of fresh air for me.

#1 tried to confront her later that night, only for #2 to say that she can't be happy for her own friend. Then contacted #1's ex boyfriend and asked if he still loved this girl I'm seeing now. Talk about a straight up bitch.

by **Ceannairceach** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:46 pm

Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:
Ceannairceach wrote:Don't they just? I was the angle that was purged in order to make the triangle a line.

Oh hey Ceann.

Things've developed since the last time I vented out my problems here on this thread. Remember that girl I was seeing (#1) and her friend (#2) who completes the triangle? Well their group of friends met up yesterday and she literally forced #1 to admit that we were going out. Then proceeded to make a scene, throw a fit and cry in public. #1's not going to drop me like I expected though, which is a breath of fresh air for me.

#1 tried to confront her later that night, only for #2 to say that she can't be happy for her own friend. Then contacted #1's ex boyfriend and asked if he still loved this girl I'm seeing now. Talk about a straight up bitch.

Well shit. Probably best you and Girl A leave the friendship with Girl B behind. She doesn't sound like the best of influences.

Jesus Christ that is just awful. I get being jealous, and even being seriously hurt by someone even if that hurt is totally out of that person's control, but damn is that over the top.

by **Reformed Revolutionary China** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:51 pm

Ceannairceach wrote:Well shit. Probably best you and Girl A leave the friendship with Girl B behind. She doesn't sound like the best of influences.

Jesus Christ that is just awful. I get being jealous, and even being seriously hurt by someone even if that hurt is totally out of that person's control, but damn is that over the top.

I've got my ignore cannons ready to fire at volley the minute I get dragged into her shit.

Anyway, this is definitely an isolated case. I'm pretty sure you were much more lucid upon being purged from said triangle.

by **Des-Bal** » Sat Mar 29, 2014 11:52 pm

Spring Haven wrote:The odds haven't been in my favor, I can't find any genuine guys.

What do you mean "genuine?"

by **Ordinary People** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:00 am

I'm pretty sure my ex left me because her past led her to find a reason to break up with me.

Which is a crying shame, because she's maybe the most caring person I'll ever meet in my life, with a great sense of humor to boot.

by **Ordinary People** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:02 am

Des-Bal wrote:
Spring Haven wrote:The odds haven't been in my favor, I can't find any genuine guys.

What do you mean "genuine?"

Bona fide.

by **Des-Bal** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:09 am

Ordinary People wrote:Bona fide.

The key is that if guys are behaving "un-genuine" it's possible it has something to do with what you're putting out there. If I'm personally not being my real self around a girl it's because I have no interest whatsoever in connecting with her or interacting with her in any non sexual manner. That usually means she isn't presenting herself as intellectually stimulating, or fun to be around.

by **Glee-ville** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:33 am

Spent a seventh month relationship absolutely happy, break-up (parents don't approve of the partner), still friends, go bowling, get dared to kisses said ex, doesn't do dare, pisses off ex, and the ex never speaks or acknowledges the other ever again.
My most hated relationship......

by **Reformed Revolutionary China** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:35 am

Glee-ville wrote:Spent a seventh month relationship absolutely happy, break-up (parents don't approve of the partner), still friends, go bowling, get dared to kisses said ex, doesn't do dare, pisses off ex, and the ex never speaks or acknowledges the other ever again.
My most hated relationship......

Sounds like quite the emotional rollercoaster.

by **Glee-ville** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:36 am

Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:
Glee-ville wrote:Spent a seventh month relationship absolutely happy, break-up (parents don't approve of the partner), still friends, go bowling, get dared to kisses said ex, doesn't do dare, pisses off ex, and the ex never speaks or acknowledges the other ever again.
My most hated relationship......

Sounds like quite the emotional rollercoaster.

I was annoyed....and found it completely nerve racking with my everyday life...

But now there is actually someone that has made that a whole lot better and he truly is a sweetheart. Actually coming to my solos and such at a music festival we were in.

by **Ceannairceach** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:44 am

Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:
Ceannairceach wrote:Well shit. Probably best you and Girl A leave the friendship with Girl B behind. She doesn't sound like the best of influences.

Jesus Christ that is just awful. I get being jealous, and even being seriously hurt by someone even if that hurt is totally out of that person's control, but damn is that over the top.

I've got my ignore cannons ready to fire at volley the minute I get dragged into her shit.

Anyway, this is definitely an isolated case. I'm pretty sure you were much more lucid upon being purged from said triangle.

Heh, objectively, I was probably a lot more like Girl B is in my own case.

by **Reformed Revolutionary China** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:46 am

Ceannairceach wrote:Heh, objectively, I was probably a lot more like Girl B is in my own case.

Sans crying at a convenience store, I hope?

by **Arglorand** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:24 am

Kinda tempted to drop everything and just ask a certain girl if she likes me.

I mean, she's moved to the point where our last chat conversation has literally gone on for three days straight, so.

by **Reformed Revolutionary China** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:25 am

Arglorand wrote:Kinda tempted to drop everything and just ask a certain girl if she likes me.

I mean, she's moved to the point where our last chat conversation has literally gone on for three days straight, so.

Try asking her out first before you ask that question. Just to be safe.

by **Arglorand** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:26 am

Reformed Revolutionary China wrote:
Arglorand wrote:Kinda tempted to drop everything and just ask a certain girl if she likes me.

I mean, she's moved to the point where our last chat conversation has literally gone on for three days straight, so.

Try asking her out first before you ask that question. Just to be safe.

We've already gone out once, so there's that.

by **Glee-ville** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:26 am

Arglorand wrote:Kinda tempted to drop everything and just ask a certain girl if she likes me.

I mean, she's moved to the point where our last chat conversation has literally gone on for three days straight, so.

Well it's mostly the reaction of, "ah, what the hell." So if you feel compelled to just go for it.

by **The Republic of Pantalleria** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 3:03 am

Well since nobody here knows my identity I'm sure it won't hurt to say something. Well I like this girl that I've been to school with for two years and we have treated each other like rivals to disguise my crush on her, and when I say rivals, I mean that I beat her in the class presidential campaign to which she accused me of electoral fraud. Anyway I really like her but ever since I moved away, I feel so worried, I guess she was never really mine to begin with.

by **God Kefka** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 3:14 am

i don't date...

by **Tahar Joblis** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:01 am

The Republic of Pantalleria wrote:Well since nobody here knows my identity I'm sure it won't hurt to say something. Well I like this girl that I've been to school with for two years and we have treated each other like rivals to disguise my crush on her, and when I say rivals, I mean that I beat her in the class presidential campaign to which she accused me of electoral fraud. Anyway I really like her but ever since I moved away, I feel so worried, I guess she was never really mine to begin with.

I was in the situation once of assuming that a girl who'd known me from a very early age had a loathing for me. We had friends in common, so we saw each other a lot all through high school.

Later I learned that she had a quite fond opinion of me that entire time.

Go for it.

by **Arglorand** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:09 am

Well, there goes. I just dropped the "do you like me?" question.

I am literally shaking as I type this. Here's hoping for a positive answer.

by **Degenerate Heart of HetRio** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:13 am

Arglorand wrote:Well, there goes. I just dropped the "do you like me?" question.

I am literally shaking as I type this. Here's hoping for a positive answer.

Hoping for you! ^^

by **Arglorand** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:41 am

Persuasion check failed.

Nevermind. I'm not particularly sad, tbh.

by **Degenerate Heart of HetRio** » Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:42 am

Arglorand wrote:Persuasion check failed.

Nevermind. I'm not particularly sad, tbh.

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