The Dating thread

[Olthar]

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

It's a pretty unsubtle hint that you like their boobs. A love of breasts isn't what women look for in a man. I'm not sure how it works for LGBT though.

I'm also smart and nerdy.

[Ethel mermania]

Maybe one or two people are waiting for a hint?

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

no, nuzzling them woukd be a better one.

[Ethel mermania]

have you been avaialable and open? its so hard to say over the interweb. did you live anywhere in a large gay and lesbian community? you i have found always amusing to talk too here. i often like what hyou say in gerneral. so i dunno

I'm not sure how I could be more available than "single."

do you have a neon sign that says that? do you go to places where other single lesbians hang out?

[The Matthew Islands]

I'm sure someone will someday. It's all I have to hope for.

I don't want to wait, though. I'm 23 and haven't even held hands yet! I want cuddles now! D:

Oh great, your 23, so that means I still have another 2 years too look forward to.

[Olthar]

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

no, nuzzling them woukd be a better one.

That would be sexual assault. D:

[Olthar]

I'm not sure how I could be more available than "single."

do you have a neon sign that says that? do you go to places where other single lesbians hang out?

I don't know. I haven't been here for long.

[Ethel mermania]

no, nuzzling them woukd be a better one.

That would be sexual assault. D:

only if its unwelcome.

[The UK in Exile]

It's a pretty unsubtle hint that you like their boobs. A love of breasts isn't what women look for in a man. I'm not sure how it works for LGBT though.

I'm also smart and nerdy.

Well, without knowing more about you I would only say that smart and nerdy are two traits that are very endearing but don't always show up obviously to people. I'd say I was smart, when I first met my girlfriend, she would have said I was an arsehole.

[Nation of Fortune]

Maybe one or two people are waiting for a hint?

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

Personally if a chick is staring at my boobs, It's either creepy, or super hot that they are doing it. It may sound shallow, but that judgment call is made off of looks. So, since you've stated you are lacking in that department, perhaps you should try a bit more of an intellectual approach.

[Ethel mermania]

do you have a neon sign that says that? do you go to places where other single lesbians hang out?

I don't know. I haven't been here for long.

so the answer is "no". you need to find these kinda places, your odds meeting someone randomly are very low.

[Torisakia]

A deep fear of other people just in general. It's also why I don't like the idea of marriage.

Don't get this the wrong way but, have tried talking to a health care professional about this fear?

Yes, I have. I'm planning on visiting back in order to receive a prescription for beta blockers.

[Basseemia]

I really really love this guy who lives in a completely different state but we skype every single night and Im hoping that he will be able to visit this summer!

[Soldati Senza Confini]

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

Were I a woman, and lesbian, I'd probably date you.

Heck, being a guy, I'd probably date you if you were into guys.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating? For me it was always that first date. It was nerve wracking. Second and third dates with the same person weren't so bad, but that first time was always difficult for me. I'd guess it was no picnic for the other person either.

For me, the hardest thing has always been asking someone out on a date.

The dates themselves go great.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating?

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

Ugly as sin?!

I don't think anyone is ugly as sin, but there's definitely a bit of preference bias on who I chase, same as with every other person.

[Meryuma]

Why?

I'd assume it's some little insecurity or something.

One area in which I'm glad I'm gay.

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating? For me it was always that first date. It was nerve wracking. Second and third dates with the same person weren't so bad, but that first time was always difficult for me. I'd guess it was no picnic for the other person either.

The hardest part is boys who act really interested and then change their mind and stop acknowledging you. Perhaps that's kind of a niche problem, though.

No, because the girl I wanted to ask out was always taken. So I threw away that idea.

mrs mermania was "taken" before we started dating.

A boy I really like recently asked a girl out but he still seems to like me. I think I'll probably give him my information at the end of the class we're in and he can contact me if he wants to pursue anything. He's bi, but seems more into boys than girls in general.

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating?

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

A lot of people who aren't conventionally attractive can find relationships.

[Chocolate Dreams]

I really really love this guy who lives in a completely different state but we skype every single night and Im hoping that he will be able to visit this summer!

Ooh! hope you guys have a great time!!!!

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Don't get this the wrong way but, have tried talking to a health care professional about this fear?

Yes, I have. I'm planning on visiting back in order to receive a prescription for beta blockers.

Do those help you with your fear?

[Devright]

Me and davinhia are dating irl

She's my neighbor and we love eachother.

not much else to say.

[Davinhia]

Devright is my gf in real life.

[Bolden]

Am I in a relationship?

...man, I don't even know. :/

I WAS in a great one (hint - my absence..), now some unnecessary Crap just came about for no reason. We broke up (he was having a bad day and BOOM *break up* - I all of a sudden had a terrible day). I highly doubt that he cheated on me, yet it still hurt like hell. Although all that's true, we're planning to get back together. But now he just played some cruel joke on me and magically reappeared (hint) to tell me "happy birthday!!!" today.

When you've got a good thing with someone, and they just randomly, all of a suddenly Have to ruin it - I personally call it "Too Good To Be True" syndrome, or "Triple T" syndrome.

...and that's my dating life so far, as of now.

[Calorax]

Just had m my anniversary a couple of days ago
Jesus time goes by quickly

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Am I in a relationship?

...man, I don't even know. :/

I WAS in a great one (hint - my absence..), now some unnecessary Crap just came about for no reason. We broke up (he was having a bad day and BOOM *break up* - I all of a sudden had a terrible day). I highly doubt that he cheated on me, yet it still hurt like hell. Although all that's true, we're planning to get back together. But now he just played some cruel joke on me and magically reappeared (hint) to tell me "happy birthday!!!" today.

When you've got a good thing with someone, and they just randomly, all of a suddenly Have to ruin it - I personally call it "Too Good To Be True" syndrome, or "Triple T" syndrome.

...and that's my dating life so far, as of now.

mmm "magical reappearances" don't ever go well.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Am I in a relationship?

...man, I don't even know. :/

I WAS in a great one (hint - my absence..), now some unnecessary Crap just came about for no reason. We broke up (he was having a bad day and BOOM *break up* - I all of a sudden had a terrible day). I highly doubt that he cheated on me, yet it still hurt like hell. Although all that's true, we're planning to get back together. But now he just played some cruel joke on me and magically reappeared (hint) to tell me "happy birthday!!!" today.

When you've got a good thing with someone, and they just randomly, all of a suddenly Have to ruin it - I personally call it "Too Good To Be True" syndrome, or "Triple T" syndrome.

...and that's my dating life so far, as of now.

That was rather jerkassy of him, if you don't mind me saying.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Am I in a relationship?

...man, I don't even know. :/

I WAS in a great one (hint - my absence..), now some unnecessary Crap just came about for no reason. We broke up (he was having a bad day and BOOM *break up* - I all of a sudden had a terrible day). I highly doubt that he cheated on me, yet it still hurt like hell. Although all that's true, we're planning to get back together. But now he just played some cruel joke on me and magically reappeared (hint) to tell me "happy birthday!!!" today.

When you've got a good thing with someone, and they just randomly, all of a suddenly Have to ruin it - I personally call it "Too Good To Be True" syndrome, or "Triple T" syndrome.

...and that's my dating life so far, as of now.

That was rather jerkassy of him, if you don't mind me saying.

Breaking up just because they have a bad day is among the "lower cognitive reasons" to actually break up with someone.