The Dating thread

[Ethel mermania]

maybe but i enjoy job interviews, so i always found a first date when i didnt know the person, fun and interesting.

I hate job interviews. It's difficult for me to read the interviewer.

i like them, it means i am taking a positive step in trying to advance in life. it also gives the ability to see what the company wants and how it wants to grow and where you fit into it.

[Dyakovo]

For me, the hardest thing is getting that first date.

Why do you think this is happening?

Not many people outside of Wales and New Zealand are interested in dating sheep.
*nods*

[The Blaatschapen]

Why do you think this is happening?

Not many people outside of Wales and New Zealand are interested in dating sheep.
*nods*

It's getting tiresome.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Why do you think this is happening?

Not many people outside of Wales and New Zealand are interested in dating sheep.
*nods*

Prejudice. I hate it.

Seriously though, he did explain why this is happening and I think many people go through it in the fast paced world we live in. Having to prioritize, what with career and paying the bills, some activities do get relegated for if and when we have the time. And when it comes to dating, sometimes we stop altogether because there are simply other more pressing matters to attend to.

[Ethel mermania]

Not many people outside of Wales and New Zealand are interested in dating sheep.
*nods*

It's getting tiresome.

well with any luck the rest of the world will catch up with new zealand in their enlightened fraternal attitude toward sheep.

ok i got a question for the hetrosexual womenz in this thread.

why the fuck do you wait till after you have slept with the boy to tell him your already in a relationship with somebody else.

4 times i have gone out with women several times and then after we fuck "ethel i have something to tell you,.... each time (except for mrs rmermania she was only sleeping with a guy) the girl is married. they didnt want to end my relationship with them, they just waited till after we fucked to tell me. why? why? why?

[Olthar]

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating?

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

It's getting tiresome.

well with any luck the rest of the world will catch up with new zealand in their enlightened fraternal attitude toward sheep.

ok i got a question for the hetrosexual womenz in this thread.

why the fuck do you wait till after you have slept with the boy to tell him your already in a relationship with somebody else.

4 times i have gone out with women several times and then after we fuck "ethel i have something to tell you,.... each time (except for mrs rmermania she was only sleeping with a guy) the girl is married. they didnt want to end my relationship with them, they just waited till after we fucked to tell me. why? why? why?

Bisexual woman here, and I've never done that because to me, sex has emotional attachments. I can't sleep with someone I'm not interested in having a relationship with.

Some people, however, don't have this conflict. Why they're not upfront about it? Can't say.

[The UK in Exile]

Not many people outside of Wales and New Zealand are interested in dating sheep.
*nods*

It's getting tiresome.

Try a different position.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating?

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

Having never seen your pic, I can't comment. But you're an intelligent and well articulated woman. I don't understand how someone wouldn't find you attractive and date worthy with those qualities.

[Olthar]

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

Having never seen your pic, I can't comment. But you're an intelligent and well articulated woman. I don't understand how someone wouldn't find you attractive and date worthy with those qualities.

Thanks.

[Ethel mermania]

well with any luck the rest of the world will catch up with new zealand in their enlightened fraternal attitude toward sheep.

ok i got a question for the hetrosexual womenz in this thread.

why the fuck do you wait till after you have slept with the boy to tell him your already in a relationship with somebody else.

4 times i have gone out with women several times and then after we fuck "ethel i have something to tell you,.... each time (except for mrs rmermania she was only sleeping with a guy) the girl is married. they didnt want to end my relationship with them, they just waited till after we fucked to tell me. why? why? why?

Bisexual woman here, and I've never done that because to me, sex has emotional attachments. I can't sleep with someone I'm not interested in having a relationship with.

Some people, however, don't have this conflict. Why they're not upfront about it? Can't say.

i get the unhappy wife or girl friend bit, i get the need for sexual attention when your not getting it from your loved one, but why after sex, not before? the others were right after we screwed, mrs mermania was several weeks after, but i knew long before she told me.

[Ethel mermania]

For anyone who wants to reply: what was the hardest thing to you about dating?

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Having never seen your pic, I can't comment. But you're an intelligent and well articulated woman. I don't understand how someone wouldn't find you attractive and date worthy with those qualities.

Thanks.

As Ethel said, chances are your current location doesn't lend itself to dating.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Bisexual woman here, and I've never done that because to me, sex has emotional attachments. I can't sleep with someone I'm not interested in having a relationship with.

Some people, however, don't have this conflict. Why they're not upfront about it? Can't say.

i get the unhappy wife or girl friend bit, i get the need for sexual attention when your not getting it from your loved one, but why after sex, not before? the others were right after we screwed, mrs mermania was several weeks after, but i knew long before she told me.

Speculating alert: perhaps they thought if they were honest, you wouldn't want to sleep with them so they waited for after the fact to come clean.

[Olthar]

Having to acknowledge the fact that I'm ugly as sin, and no one is interested in me.

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

[Tyriece]

I meet a girl who I am going to ask out either this weekend or next weekend to go to the beach.

[The Matthew Islands]

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

I'm sure someone will someday. It's all I have to hope for.

[The UK in Exile]

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

Maybe one or two people are waiting for a hint?

[Ethel mermania]

i get the unhappy wife or girl friend bit, i get the need for sexual attention when your not getting it from your loved one, but why after sex, not before? the others were right after we screwed, mrs mermania was several weeks after, but i knew long before she told me.

Speculating alert: perhaps they thought if they were honest, you wouldn't want to sleep with them so they waited for after the fact to come clean.

that makes sense, married #1, i didnt see again because i was horrified, then i thought about it and got off my high horse and realized what she did was her choice for her needs, and it wasnt my place to tell her how to live her life

[Olthar]

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

I'm sure someone will someday. It's all I have to hope for.

I don't want to wait, though. I'm 23 and haven't even held hands yet! I want cuddles now! D:

[Olthar]

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

Maybe one or two people are waiting for a hint?

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Speculating alert: perhaps they thought if they were honest, you wouldn't want to sleep with them so they waited for after the fact to come clean.

that makes sense, married #1, i didnt see again because i was horrified, then i thought about it and got off my high horse and realized what she did was her choice for her needs, and it wasnt my place to tell her how to live her life

Also, it occurs to me that at times, perhaps feelings of shame play a part, especially if the person is married, for example.

[Ethel mermania]

more likely your not in a location condusive to meeting other lesbians.

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

have you been avaialable and open? its so hard to say over the interweb. did you live anywhere in a large gay and lesbian community? you i have found always amusing to talk too here. i often like what hyou say in gerneral. so i dunno

[The UK in Exile]

Maybe one or two people are waiting for a hint?

Staring at their boobs isn't enough of a hint? :/

It's a pretty unsubtle hint that you like their boobs. A love of breasts isn't what women look for in a man. I'm not sure how it works for LGBT though.

[Olthar]

Maybe, but no one has ever expressed any interest in my entire life.

have you been avaialable and open? its so hard to say over the interweb. did you live anywhere in a large gay and lesbian community? you i have found always amusing to talk too here. i often like what hyou say in gerneral. so i dunno

I'm not sure how I could be more available than "single."