by Greater-London » Thu Mar 13, 2014 8:46 am
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:03 am
by Prince of Conti » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:03 am
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:05 am
Prince of Conti wrote:Being strong, virile and self-reliant...that's what it means to be a man...
Real men don't take kindly to threats or insults and we're always ready for a fight...
We're also aesthetically better than women...
by Imperial Gearria » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:07 am
by Ifreann » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:07 am
by Spoder » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:08 am
by Nua Corda » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:08 am
by Prince of Conti » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:08 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Prince of Conti wrote:Being strong, virile and self-reliant...that's what it means to be a man...
Real men don't take kindly to threats or insults and we're always ready for a fight...
We're also aesthetically better than women...
What separates manly men from the children, the women, the childish men and the effeminate men? Are these categories necessarily rigid, or they have a continuum of blurred tones?
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:10 am
Prince of Conti wrote:Except for the boys. they can become men if they're raised properly...
by Ifreann » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:11 am
Spoder wrote:This very much depends on who is saying it.
I believe that it means being fairly strong, tall, imposing, intelligent.
It also means having a man's face, and well...y'know.
Having a bass voice too, and taking interest in toys like cars, and guns.
Prince of Conti wrote:Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:What separates manly men from the children, the women, the childish men and the effeminate men? Are these categories necessarily rigid, or they have a continuum of blurred tones?
They're not real men...They're all just a bunch of sissies...
Except for the boys. they can become men if they're raised properly...
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:11 am
Nua Corda wrote:I find that machismo and masculinity are usually compensating for something.
by New Connorstantinople » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:12 am
by Prince of Conti » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:12 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Prince of Conti wrote:Except for the boys. they can become men if they're raised properly...
It was tried on me.
Didn't work. I refused every single bit of it. Mainly the traditional, but the otherwise too in part.
Don't act like there isn't transgender people, and like we aren't normal when you realize you can't deny our existence.
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:14 am
New Connorstantinople wrote:It was alright if I swore amongst other men, but never in front of my elders or women.
by Ifreann » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:16 am
Prince of Conti wrote:Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:It was tried on me.
Didn't work. I refused every single bit of it. Mainly the traditional, but the otherwise too in part.
Don't act like there isn't transgender people, and like we aren't normal when you realize you can't deny our existence.
There are a lot of "transgender people" around yes...
but I wouldn't call them normal..no
Also, what a shame...you should be ashamed of admitting this over the internet...
New Connorstantinople wrote:Well...
I always grew up with some key values and beliefs to uphold as a young man. I was expected to be extra polite to my elders and women, but to be polite to everyone as a whole. It was alright if I swore amongst other men, but never in front of my elders or women. If I witnessed wrongdoing, such as bullying or perhaps a crime where I had the ability to intervene, I was expected to help the weak. While this cannot be applied to everyone, as beliefs differ, I was expected to love God. Respect others beliefs and demand they respect yours. (Credit to Zero Dark Thirty for the last line).
Be kind. Be strong.
by New Edom » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:16 am
Greater-London wrote:I think the topic of masculinity and what it means to be a man is something that doesn't often get talked about, especially by men. With the fading away of traditional gender roles and stereotypes I think people in the 21st century have a hard task of defining what it means to act in a manly way.
So I ask you NSG what does you think it means to be manly? are traditional notions of what it means to be a man relevant in the 21st century? going on from this I would ask is understanding what it means to be a man or 'masculinity' important or is it something that we can do away with?
I for one think its important that we have some sort of broad idea of what it means to be a man, I think that its the lack of understanding that makes young men in the UK atleast at the highest risk of suicide. I also think that it would be beneficial to have a broad sense of manliness to counterbalance 21st century hyper-masculinity and 'lad culture'.
Over to you ..
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:17 am
Prince of Conti wrote:Also, what a shame...you should be ashamed of admitting this over the internet...
by New Connorstantinople » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:19 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:New Connorstantinople wrote:It was alright if I swore amongst other men, but never in front of my elders or women.
Eh, this is news. In Brazil there is plenty of different values about curses and some of them are rigid, but this is the first time I heard of sex-segregated rules. What is so special about what is in-between one's lower limbs? I will never understand.
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:19 am
New Edom wrote:I think that the suicide rate of young men, the sense of confusion about purpose that many young men feel is a very real concern. I've given this a lot of thought.
Men seem to be at their best when they have a sense of purpose, when they are driven by character, and when they pursue a sense of clarity about life. It is a masculine virtue to recognize the difficulties you are facing and nevertheless take responsibility for your actions in response. Masculine virtues include things like loyalty, courage, and the pursuit of wisdom.
by Greater-London » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:22 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:I obviously agree, but I think you are forgetting a particular point.
People are PEOPLE above being X or Z or XZ or Y or 0.
What is so special about it affecting men in particular?
by The House of Zyy » Thu Mar 13, 2014 9:22 am
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