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by Sumamba Buwhan » Wed Dec 02, 2009 6:55 pm
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by Rasselas » Wed Dec 02, 2009 6:56 pm
Fighter4u wrote:...In other words, I just find it REALLY hard to talk to someone if I decide that I'm falling for them...
by Fighter4u » Wed Dec 02, 2009 7:08 pm
Rasselas wrote:Fighter4u wrote:...In other words, I just find it REALLY hard to talk to someone if I decide that I'm falling for them...
Don't worry about it. I met my current boyfriend at work, and didn't get more than a blushing, panicked "Hello" out of him for a year. We finally got together when mutual friends decided they'd had enough, dragged us on a night out and got him drunk enough to overcome his shyness
[violet] wrote:Maybe we could power our new search engine from the sexual tension between you two.
by Amor Pulchritudo » Thu Dec 03, 2009 1:42 am
Fighter4u wrote:Rasselas wrote:Fighter4u wrote:...In other words, I just find it REALLY hard to talk to someone if I decide that I'm falling for them...
Don't worry about it. I met my current boyfriend at work, and didn't get more than a blushing, panicked "Hello" out of him for a year. We finally got together when mutual friends decided they'd had enough, dragged us on a night out and got him drunk enough to overcome his shyness
Haha, that so sounds like me! Thanks for the laugh. I'm sure I figured it out eventually.
Those one question. Why do the guy always have to the asking out if it obvious the guy and girl like each other but his too shy to ask?
*Grumbles grumbles*
by Delator » Thu Dec 03, 2009 2:52 am
by Lackadaisical2 » Thu Dec 03, 2009 3:43 am
The Beautiful Darkness wrote:Lord-General Drache wrote:Bottle wrote:I'm still on good terms with all my past lovers as far as I know. Granted, I've only ever had one "boyfriend" (my current partner) and one "girlfriend," with the others being slightly less conventional relationships. Maybe that's why it's easier to stay friends with them? I don't know. I've never had an ugly break up before.
Alot people I've met have that issue because, when a relationship is dissolving, they seem to return to an elementary/middle school mindset and start accusing the other of all sorts of real and imagined crimes, flinging insults about, instead of talking out why they need to break up.
It's easy for people to blacken the name of the other person. It is much, much harder to sit down and ask yourself and the other person what's gone wrong, and accepting that you both have screwed up in some fashion.
This seems unfathomable to me. I'm friends with both of my exs, despite very real reasons for me breaking up with them. I don't see what's so hard about talking about issues, or why people would choose to date people they otherwise would not be friends with. Even out of love with someone, you always have love for that person, in my experience. It seems odd to me that a relationship could turn from love to completely the opposite direction.
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by Rasselas » Thu Dec 03, 2009 5:26 am
Fighter4u wrote:Rasselas wrote:Fighter4u wrote:...In other words, I just find it REALLY hard to talk to someone if I decide that I'm falling for them...
Don't worry about it. I met my current boyfriend at work, and didn't get more than a blushing, panicked "Hello" out of him for a year. We finally got together when mutual friends decided they'd had enough, dragged us on a night out and got him drunk enough to overcome his shyness
Haha, that so sounds like me! Thanks for the laugh. I'm sure I figured it out eventually.
Those one question. Why do the guy always have to the asking out if it obvious the guy and girl like each other but his too shy to ask?
*Grumbles grumbles*
by Bottle » Thu Dec 03, 2009 5:58 am
WWII History Geeks wrote:You know, I wonder NSG, how many of you believe that sex before marriage is all right?
by Bottle » Thu Dec 03, 2009 6:05 am
Sarkhaan wrote:Vittos Ordination wrote:Here is an example you might understand.
I have a really good friend. We met when we were neighbors back at my old apartment complex. At the time, I was dating someone, and I wouldn't let anything happen between us, although it was obvious she had a thing for me. Being neighbors, we hung out a lot, often away from my girlfriend at the time, and she became a good friend and a confidante in woman matters.
About 7-8 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend, and life went on as usual between my friend and I. One night, however, we were hanging out at a friends and drinking and just having a good time, and we ended up going home together. This repeated for several weeks, maybe three or so months.
Now, while we enjoyed the sex and it came to be habit that we would just go home together, it was always understood that we would not take it to another level, as we had come to like hanging out like friends too much to jeopardize that with a relationship. Relationships bring jealousy, commitments, constant presence, and other dynamics that neither of us thought would be good for our friendship.
In the end we always continued to hang out as friends would do, yet at the end of the night would go home for a round of drunken sex. I am not saying that way works for everyone, but I can say that right now we are both seeing different people, and while it can be awkward at times, we remain very good friends and hang out (without the sex) regularly.
As for me, I am in a long distance relationship right now, which is bad in ways and good in ways, but mostly just tries my saintly patience. I am emotionally committed to this girl, I trust her, and I enjoy the times we hang out. We can go 2-3 weeks at a time without seeing each other, however, and that really tests my physical commitment. I have been severely tempted on a couple of occasions.
Now again, to me, this is more "friend with benefit" than "fuckbuddy". I would say I currently have two people who are "fuckbuddies".
Let's see if I can break this down (note that the "I" is not necessarily me. I refuse to do some of these)
one night stand: random stranger I met at the bar. Maybe got a name, maybe not...doesn't really matter as we (or atleast I) have no intent on ever seeing or speaking to them again.
booty call: someone whom I only contact for sex. Literally, come over, take off clothes, do the deed, and leave. Minimal speaking.
fuck buddy: someone with whom I am actually willing to hang out with, though the focus of our relationship is still on sex. Maybe we can go do something casual, but in the end, we'll boink. Not someone I will tend to invite out for a night with my friends.
friend: someone whom I invite out regularly. We tend to keep our pants on around each other and, beyond maybe a one night encounter (which would be very rare), we have a purely and strictly platonic relationship
friend with benefits: We go out. We have the same circle of friends. We do everything I do with my friends. Afterwards, we boink.
full blown relationships of various types: actual commitment. Dating, boyfriend/girlfriend, fiancé, husband/wife, etc.
by Straughn » Thu Dec 03, 2009 10:23 pm
Amor Pulchritudo wrote:There are often threads on NSG that are about sex. We may joke every now and then that "you wouldn't be on NS if you were getting laid", but obviously this is a gross generalisation. So, I was wondering, who on NSG is in a relationship? Furthermore, tell us about your relationship. Are you married? Are you "casual"? Are you in a relationship with a fellow NSer?
by Friedman and Rothbard » Thu Dec 03, 2009 10:25 pm
by Straughn » Thu Dec 03, 2009 10:31 pm
Sumamba Buwhan wrote:Married three and a half years to a beautiful woman whom I have been with since Sept of '01
by Straughn » Thu Dec 03, 2009 10:34 pm
by Straughn » Thu Dec 03, 2009 10:41 pm
Needs more cowbell!Sarkhaan wrote:And yeah, it is pretty vulgar. But then, sex tends to be.
by Anti-Social Darwinism » Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:08 am
by Straughn » Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:13 am
Anti-Social Darwinism wrote:Single. Have been for nearly 35 years. Not really an issue since I'm commitmentphobic.
by Anti-Social Darwinism » Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:18 am
by Straughn » Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:25 am
by Anti-Social Darwinism » Fri Dec 04, 2009 3:09 am
by Benzei » Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:01 pm
by Cattidome » Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:08 pm
Benzei wrote:Lol asking for a honest opinion about relationship, sure why not
I have about 5 spanish girlfriends, 3 americans, 4 swedish and 3 asians, i usualy have a huge gangbang every day with all of them and i hop from the oldest to the youngest, all of them are below 25 and have F cups and asses who would get stuck in the elevator. They all love me and call me every day, i usualy drive them around in one of my 10 ferraris and i drop them of at their mansions that i got for them, after that i drive home on the gold paved road named after me and party with my personal house girlfriends. And then i tell them to get back to the kitchen.
by The Alma Mater » Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:10 pm
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