Vittos Ordination wrote:Aelosia wrote:And about me? Well, I am all about casual. I don't think I will be in a relationship again, I suppose something broke with my hormones. I enforce the three-times-rule with anyone, and only one extra chance to dispel anything that could have been lfet undone. I enforce it to myself and to others. I do not let me to feel any emotional attachment to physical partners, I leave that for my friends and family.
I am not entirely sure it is a choice.
I find more and more that those people who say that they do not let themselves get an emotional attachment mainly try to consciously overcome their natural propensities for "falling" for someone. They are usually the most likely to end up falling for someone.
You may be an exception to that, its just an observation.
And a "three-times rule" is just a shame. You are probably cutting off the best part of it.
Maybe you are right, but then again, I do not know if it is conscious or not, but I prefer not to "fall" for anyone. even the verb "fall" has a negative connotation, because if you fall, you usually are going to hit something at the end, and it is gonna hurt, amirite?
No, you can start a cycle with one person, continue with the next, and then close with a third one, for example. I have "tasted" the best part of it, and although it is interesting, I already discarded it.