IMO, we're born without sexualities, and grow them as we develop, just like about everything else mental. Genderwise, same deal. As a newborn, a child is agendered, it doesn't care what the fuck it is, it's just a child, and can barely think for itself. Once it starts to learn about what gender is, it develops a position on it.
At least, that's how I see it.
More or less, not truly "born gay" per se, but rather, "developed gay," which isn't abnormal at all. Who gives a shit if a man wants to fuck a man? It doesn't concern me, and if it did, why would it concern you?



