Big Jim P wrote:Yumyumsuppertime wrote:
Often not because it's where they would prefer to end up, but because it's the option that's less horrifying than the others. Now, that's just part of life, and we've all dealt with it at some point in some form or another. But to dismiss it as "People choose where they end up" willfully ignores numerous factors that go into that decision, and is simply callous in how it disregards how painful that decision making process can be.
Not really. I merely expect people to deal with those painful choices, just as I did.
Okay, literally nobody is saying that people shouldn't deal with those painful choices. That's not even a topic of discussion. The discussion revolves around what sort of assistance a civilized society (or at least a society with aspirations of being civilized) should provide to people who find themselves in these unfortunate circumstances.
And never, EVER assume that when people are going to have the resources, tools, or be in the circumstances to deal with their painful choices "just as you did". Your situation was a unique one, whatever it may have been, as was mine, as are theirs.