General Girl Advice

[Bottle]

Most girls in my school just like the cool bad-boy dude who will usually mock a nerd or too.

So...yeah it's not like I have chances and I dont take them.

Teenagers, ja. Though there are a fair number of us who do like nerdy guys. We're out there, just keep looking.

Added suggestion:

Try looking at the nerdy girls. Every time I hear a guy insist that "girls just like the cool bad-boy dudes," I find it is a safe bet that he, himself, is attracted to cool girls rather than the nerdy awkward girls around him. Which is normal...most of us are attracted to hot people who have style. But it's bullshit to pretend that girls are in any way different from guys in this regard.

[Stern des Meeres]

Wait, when did we add a new class of nerd?

Why wasn't I told?

Notice how there's no category for those of us who are jockish and nerdy simultaneously

That counts as beta in my opinion.

[Haakopen]

......

Seeing the stuff people actually suggest here I cant determinate if this is trolling or actual advice.

Oh, @%$@%& that, it's trolling.

No, it's actual advice. You obviously need to work on your flirting skills, and are apparently to uncomfortable with girls to try it on them.

I dont plan on flirting guys, and even if that would be a possibility ones, although a very minor one, Omegle is the definte proof that flirting girls in the way to go

[Stern des Meeres]

Teenagers, ja. Though there are a fair number of us who do like nerdy guys. We're out there, just keep looking.

Added suggestion:

Try looking at the nerdy girls. Every time I hear a guy insist that "girls just like the cool bad-boy dudes," I find it is a safe bet that he, himself, is attracted to cool girls rather than the nerdy awkward girls around him. Which is normal...most of us are attracted to hot people who have style. But it's bullshit to pretend that girls are in any way different from guys in this regard.

Hey! Nerds can be hot, too! *sarcastic hair flip*

[Solarys]

Erm.. not exactly since sexual orientation is most likely not a choice. And that's a false equivelency anyway, you're conflating basic attraction with stringent standards.

Neither is who you are attracted to.

Or are you saying that you can "choose" who you are attracted to ?

[Bottle]

Wait, when did we add a new class of nerd?

Why wasn't I told?

Notice how there's no category for those of us who are jockish and nerdy simultaneously

There's also no category for guys who have, you know, mentally moved beyond high school.

[Bottle]

Added suggestion:

Try looking at the nerdy girls. Every time I hear a guy insist that "girls just like the cool bad-boy dudes," I find it is a safe bet that he, himself, is attracted to cool girls rather than the nerdy awkward girls around him. Which is normal...most of us are attracted to hot people who have style. But it's bullshit to pretend that girls are in any way different from guys in this regard.

Hey! Nerds can be hot, too! *sarcastic hair flip*

I happen to think so as well, but the guys who make claims about how "girls only like bad boys" obviously don't think so. At least that's the only conclusion I can reach based on the fact that they invariably ignore all their nerdy female peers.

[Northern Dominus]

Notice how there's no category for those of us who are jockish and nerdy simultaneously

That counts as beta in my opinion.

But I don't resent everyone for not noticing how special and humble I am and project my own failings outward like a true Beta...

Notice how there's no category for those of us who are jockish and nerdy simultaneously

There's also no category for guys who have, you know, mentally moved beyond high school.

This is also true.

Hmm.. I've transcended pithy categorization then. Somehow I feel more accomplished today

Erm.. not exactly since sexual orientation is most likely not a choice. And that's a false equivelency anyway, you're conflating basic attraction with stringent standards.

Neither is who you are attracted to.

Or are you saying that you can "choose" who you are attracted to ?

Well define "choice" if one is attracted to women then yes there is no choice there. But when you get into seriously draconian qualifications like specific body measurements or nose height or any other sociological measure of female beauty, then that becomes rather arbitrary.

[Haakopen]

There IS one solution left but I consider it stupid and.........not an option.

Tell the girl you like her through facebook. I know a couple of people who have actually done that.

[Stern des Meeres]

Hey! Nerds can be hot, too! *sarcastic hair flip*

I happen to think so as well, but the guys who make claims about how "girls only like bad boys" obviously don't think so. At least that's the only conclusion I can reach based on the fact that they invariably ignore all their nerdy female peers.

And that is the root of all high school guys' problems.

[Haakopen]

I happen to think so as well, but the guys who make claims about how "girls only like bad boys" obviously don't think so. At least that's the only conclusion I can reach based on the fact that they invariably ignore all their nerdy female peers.

And that is the root of all high school guys' problems.

You actually expect guys to like the chubby Asian Emo girl who is a confirmed Satanist?

If the description matches an NSer I sincerely apologize.

[The Blaatschapen]

There IS one solution left but I consider it stupid and.........not an option.

Tell the girl you like her through facebook. I know a couple of people who have actually done that.

It is possible. However, phone or in person is better.

Facebook... maybe for something long distance and you lack her number.

Though I would use email then. Or skype...

[Dyakovo]

No, it's actual advice. You obviously need to work on your flirting skills, and are apparently to uncomfortable with girls to try it on them.

I don't plan on flirting with guys, and even if that would be a possibility ones, although a very minor one, Omegle is the definte definite proof that flirting with girls in the way to go

Except you've already said that you have found yourself incapable of doing it.

[Galloism]

And that is the root of all high school guys' problems.

You actually expect guys to like the chubby Asian Emo girl who is a confirmed Satanist/

Theyre the best in bed. That is for sure.

They read and understand... and have access to the Internet.

[Stern des Meeres]

And that is the root of all high school guys' problems.

You actually expect guys to like the chubby Asian Emo girl who is a confirmed Satanist/

Is that what you picture when people say nerds? Because people are smart, they're automatically chubby Asian Satanist emo girls?

[Ethel mermania]

i am really not creepy.

Since when?

since my parole officer said i should say it to myself 8 times aday.

[Haakopen]

You actually expect guys to like the chubby Asian Emo girl who is a confirmed Satanist/

Is that what you picture when people say nerds? Because people are smart, they're automatically chubby Asian Satanist emo girls?

No, I just pictured something familiar

I actually know the Asian chubby Emo girl and she is the only 'nerdy' girl in my school with the exception of those really first-grade nerdy girls that might actually be hot some times.

[Solarys]

Well define "choice" if one is attracted to women then yes there is no choice there. But when you get into seriously draconian qualifications like specific body measurements or nose height or any other sociological measure of female beauty, then that becomes rather arbitrary.

Not really. And neither is it wrong. You like what you like. you don't like what you don't. It is simple. I like my women to be feminine. So what ? It is not like i am saying that all of them should be. It is their choice.

[Dyakovo]

You actually expect guys to like the chubby Asian Emo girl who is a confirmed Satanist/

Is that what you picture when people say nerds? Because people are smart, they're automatically chubby Asian Satanist emo girls?

Damn... I've had my religious beliefs (or lack thereof), gender, and ethnicity wrong for a looooong time...

[Galloism]

Is that what you picture when people say nerds? Because people are smart, they're automatically chubby Asian Satanist emo girls?

Damn... I've had my religious beliefs (or lack thereof), gender, and ethnicity wrong for a looooong time...

We all pretty much knew that, but we wanted you to come to understand it yourself.

[Bottle]

I happen to think so as well, but the guys who make claims about how "girls only like bad boys" obviously don't think so. At least that's the only conclusion I can reach based on the fact that they invariably ignore all their nerdy female peers.

And that is the root of all high school guys' problems.

I remember my teen years as an extreme combination of insecurity and arrogance; on the one hand feeling frantically uncomfortable and unsure at all times, but on the other hand being quite certain that my awkward self was entitled to being liked for Who I Really Am(tm).

Turns out that who I really am is obnoxious and off-putting to a great many people. That hasn't changed with time. What has changed is that I no longer feel entitled to have others put up with me, and instead content myself with having a few people in my life whose obnoxiousness runs parallel to my own.

[Northern Dominus]

Well define "choice" if one is attracted to women then yes there is no choice there. But when you get into seriously draconian qualifications like specific body measurements or nose height or any other sociological measure of female beauty, then that becomes rather arbitrary.

Not really. And neither is it wrong. You like what you like. you don't like what you don't. It is simple. I like my women to be feminine. So what ? It is not like i am saying that all of them should be. It is their choice.

Right... so then what miraculously non-arbitrary "feminine" standards are you suggesting are somehow as hard-wired and unflinching as sexual orientation? C'mon, go ahead and get specific we'll let ya.

[Stern des Meeres]

Is that what you picture when people say nerds? Because people are smart, they're automatically chubby Asian Satanist emo girls?

No, I just pictured something familiar

I actually know the Asian chubby Emo girl and she is the only 'nerdy' girl in my school with the exception of those really first-grade nerdy girls that might actually be hot some times.

My point exactly. If you would look around, you might find girls who are completely normal sans their intelligence and potential awkwardness. That's also not to say that all nerds are awkward.

[Ethel mermania]

i am really not creepy.

That's true.

Ethel stalked me for a while, but never overtly too much. He was totally non-creepy in it.

there will always be a bottle of wool-lite for you at my place.

[Haakopen]

No, I just pictured something familiar

I actually know the Asian chubby Emo girl and she is the only 'nerdy' girl in my school with the exception of those really first-grade nerdy girls that might actually be hot some times.

My point exactly. If you would look around, you might find girls who are completely normal sans their intelligence and potential awkwardness. That's also not to say that all nerds are awkward.

Nerds are not awkward, I am one.

The ones that like to play with Ouija boards are awkward.