Do looks matter?

[The Imperial Commissar]

I usually judge by looks first. I see someone attractive and make an effort to get to know them, by that of course I clearly mean sleep with them. I then spend some time to get to know them, and possibly turn it into a relationship.

Worked for my current GF of 3 and a half years. Red head (I love it), nice rack (36D)... I guess she has a nice personality too.

[Regiria]

The primary purpose for a relationship is basically to have sex after all. It may be shallow, but that's how things work out.

One can—and many people do—have sex without a relationship. So if sex is the only thing one is after, then what's the point of a relationship? Since men are socialized to want variety, then sex with a variety of women would be better than sex with the same woman all the time if sex is the only purpose.