The Parkus Empire wrote:Hathradic States wrote:No, they aren't, and I will never say they are.
However, understanding the motivation goes a long way towards combating the crime. Further, it is best to understand that there is no simple solution.
I really don't think the motivation is the key here. I think in the case of abuse (not going to talk about rape, because it would be a threadjack), it's a personal problem of the abuser. As you say, there is no simple solution, but addressing the "problem" of cheating in our society in order to address abuse is going the wrong way.
Normally. Often times the abuser is themself abused, usually emotionally and mentally rather than physically. This leads to them justifying their actions in their mind, often times made worse when the person they are abusing had been/is emotionally abusing them. When that is the case, as it many times can be, both parties are at fault, and both are victims. However, neither of them deserved the abuse. (sorry if this is a little bit off topic).
In order to combat this problem, we have to curtail both emotional and physical abuse. Of course, I have no idea how to stamp out the first one (it is hard to make illegal, as you must understand).