Edlichbury wrote:So we now have three different posters attesting that "hurt feelings" cause real harm.
Will Aurora please concede their point now?
Hurt feelings =/= PTSD.
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by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:43 pm
Edlichbury wrote:So we now have three different posters attesting that "hurt feelings" cause real harm.
Will Aurora please concede their point now?

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:45 pm
New Octopucta wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:They aren't, and if you think they are, you really need to grow up. If something makes you feel offended, that's not a real harm. You need to learn how to deal with things that you personally might not like. That's how, you know, mature adults live.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Posttrauma ... s_disorder
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/p ... ndex.shtml
http://www.ptsd.va.gov/
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/post_tr ... atment.htm
You are objectively wrong. Much as any rational person would like it to not be so, PTSD and emotional trauma in general are entirely real and dangerous things. Since you have made it clear that you do not understand how PTSD works, try reading about it. Instead of being so insultingly arrogant. That's, you know, what mature adults do.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:46 pm
Edlichbury wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:
Then those people should take measures to not hear those kinds of jokes, either by avoiding certain places/situations, or informing people beforehand that they really don't enjoy such things, as it sets them off.
It is not, however, the responsibility of the public to completely shut down something for everyone, simply because some people have cause to be opposed to it.
Yes, how dare people who have suffered severe emotional trauma have the audacity to hear callous jokes! Obviously, all people who have suffered trauma should be force to live in isolation to fit your worldview.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:48 pm
and didn't read the three different posters mentioning physical injury caused by a stupid joke.
That's going to help your case so much, I'm sure.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:52 pm
The Steel Magnolia wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:
Not what I'm saying.
What I'm saying is we, the public, have no responsibility to constantly live on edge, for fear of setting someone off. Nor should it be.
Sure. But we have every right to tell the public "Hi! This is harmful to a lot of people!" when you do.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:55 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:05 pm
The Emerald Legion wrote:So your argument is "It's ok to present women as objects because it's not a woman, it's an object we're pretending is a woman."
Sorta a bad argument when a big selling point of games is immersion.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:11 pm
Olthar wrote:So, essentially, you're saying that if women don't like sexism in video games, we should just not play video games?
Video games are not the exclusive and sole domain of men.
You don't own them, and you can't marginalize us. We are your equals. Start fucking acting like it.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:17 pm
Asuiop wrote:Susurruses wrote:
It's doubly-irrelevant because the appropriate response to "Wow, that's really sexist towards women" isn't "Men suffer too!" without any sort of admission of the criticism being valid.
(I'm getting this from "People always complain about [...] but" since the implication is that the complaints are invalid due to males also being harmed by stereotyping)
[Can't remember the technical term for- displacement? Think that's the one.]
How about this. Life isn't fair so stop complaining about things which barely effect you when there are so many larger problems to deal with.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:21 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:21 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:41 pm
Olthar wrote:What games? I've been playing video games since the age of four, and I have yet to see a single one that is devoid of sexism.
"Go play different games" only works when those "different games" actually exist.
"Make your own games?" What sort of fantasy world are you living in? Triple A, mainstream games require millions in funding and thousands of hours to make. The average person can't do that.
"Don't like sexist oppression? Just deal with it!"
Fuck that. Fuck that so hard. No.
And again, what sort of fantasy world are you living in? Mainstream game designers don't give half a shit what the public wants.
That's why they keep pumping out the same shooter crap over and over.
Just look at Microsoft's reveal of the Xbox One. Does it look like they have any idea what gamers want?
No. No they don't. Sending a letter to a game designer isn't going to do anything because the real world isn't an Saturday morning cartoon.
Yes you are. You literally just did in this very post.
You're acting as if sexism isn't a problem and/or doesn't exist. That's almost the definition of misogyny.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:47 pm
New Octopucta wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:I don't think that. I just disagree with your reasoning for opposition. It's a common argument made, and it's a poor one. I don't like seeing it thrown around.
You are aware that there's a difference between "Fanservice is evil/sexist" and "The vast majority of woman characters in video games being used for fanservice is evil/sexist," right? I'm seeing a lot of the latter and not much of the former.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:56 pm
Nailed to the Perch wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:
Hurt feelings =/= PTSD.
I just want to remind everyone that Aurora's argument was explicitly that Holocaust survivors would not be hurt by a game glorifying the Holocaust.
Apparently, Holocaust survivors only suffer from "hurt feelings" about watching their families be murdered. Who knew?Aurora Novus wrote:
Not what I'm saying.
What I'm saying is we, the public, have no responsibility to constantly live on edge, for fear of setting someone off. Nor should it be.
Once again, I want to remind everyone that Aurora's argument was explicitly that Holocaust survivors would not be hurt by a game glorifying the Holocaust.
Apparently, not glorifying the Holocaust is REALLY HARD and requires CONSTANTLY LIVING ON EDGE, you guys. I know I often trip and find I've accidentally yelled, "HEIL HITLER KILL ALL THE JEWS."

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:03 pm
New Octopucta wrote:A few women and men here and there being used as a tease for people playing the game is okay because there is nothing wrong with pandering to people's sexual fantasies in and of itself. There is no underlying trend to it. When the overwhelming majority of female characters in video games serve only as eye candy or to serve male characters, then there is a trend. That is sexist, not because women are being objectified
, but because it demonstrates and perpetuates the belief that women are nothing but objects both by its treatment of women characters and by its disregard for the women in the audience.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:34 pm
Olthar wrote:"Strong female characters" does not automatically equal a lack of sexism.
Also, by the by, trying to pass of Mario as lacking sexism really makes me doubt your credibility.
The irrelevance of that statement is astounding.
More utter irrelevance. Capitalism has jack squat to do with this.
No, that's not how it works.
Game developers don't try to make good games because that requires risks, and they can't afford risks.
Games are so obscenely expensive to make that even the biggest of companies must invest everything they have into each game they produce.
If it doesn't sell, then they go bankrupt, and the company implodes. Thus, they make games that reside squarely in the lowest common denominator and play it entirely safe, making mediocre shlock that is guaranteed to sell instead of taking the risk of doing something good.
Yes, people buy the games because there is literally no other option available. Either you play bad games, or you play no games, and most prefer the former.
So you're just handwaving them away as being irrelevant? Despite the fact that they are a central figure in the gaming world? Yeah, you can't do that.
You're saying that if women don't like sexist games, we should just deal with it or not buy any.
Misogyny is the hatred of women. Declaring sexism non-existent when it is obviously prevalent seems pretty mean-spirited to me.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:39 pm
New Octopucta wrote:Frisivisia wrote:Maybe it's just one of Peach's traits, being easily capturable.
Mario always having to rescue Peach isn't necessarily sexist. If it wasn't a common theme in games, it would simply be a quirk of the Mario games. The issue is that it is an ingrained part of the video game industry that the strong, attractive male has to save the weak, attractive woman.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:52 pm
Orham wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:First of all, these aren't real women. They are virtual coding made to represent women, and even then, not necessarily real women. So to complain about "objectification" is really idiotic. They are objects by their very nature.
An object made to represent women can have an impact on women's self-perception and men's perception of women,
and therein lies the potential for objectification of women themselves.
It's less direct than objectifying women physically, but it's no less objectification thereof. You've already acknowledged that, you just don't think it matters in this case because you feel the impact from such representations is negligible and/or avoidable.
It is objectification and sexism if there's one "Ms. Fanservice" or a whole cast of them, yes.
The point is that elements of one's fantasy world can reinforce real-world ideas, even if entirely unintentionally.
The two aren't as easily separated as you believe. Reality and fiction are indeed separate things which can be divorced in the mind, but fiction can reinforce non-fictional ideas.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:55 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:58 pm
Ifreann wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:
I have never perceived Mario as "strong" or "attractive". That's...an odd way to describe him.
Further more, Peach isn't actually that weak, if you play games other than the platformers. She's a pretty in-depth and well-rounded character, and quite capable of handling herself.
So if you ignore the games where she's reduced to a trinket that Bowser steals from Mario, she's never treated as a trinket that Bowser steals from Mario? Throw a facepalm in there and you're a shoe in for a silver medal.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:59 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 8:04 pm

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 8:08 pm
Olthar wrote:And when the protagonist is a man in almost every single game, then I can pretty safely say "a man" because the times when the protagonist are not a man are rather negligible.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 8:10 pm
Olthar wrote:New Octopucta wrote:Customizable characters is the industry saying "We're afraid to write female protagonists, so we'll write androgynous protagonists and let you pretend whatever you want." I'm not saying it's bad, but it's foolish to pretend that that is a substitute for real woman protagonists.
Oh, no. Not at all. They're not writing androgynous protagonists. They're writing male protagonists and then having an option to slap some tits on him.

by Aurora Novus » Tue Jul 16, 2013 8:11 pm
Olthar wrote:Aurora Novus wrote:
I'd hesitate before saying men are the protagonist in "almost every single" game. Most, sure. But there are tons of games where a female is the protagonist, or at the very least. a protagonist, usually in the case of RPGs.
Hell my favorite Final Fantasy game is VI, and the main protagonist is a woman.
Really this all relates to your blindness, willful or otherwise, of games with strong female protagonists. As I've yet to see you respond to that post, I'm going to assume you've conceded that argument.
Assume whatever the hell you want. I don't care what you believe about me.
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