The "Nice Guy" and the friendzone, Society's attitude

[The Parkus Empire]

Do you actually ask women out tho?

Sometimes, when one shows interest, isn't dating anyone else, and isn't about to move away. Those three together are surprisingly hard to find.

You don't wait for her to "show interest", you might be waiting for the wrong sign. This right here is probably your biggest issue.

[Miyager]

A better solution is finding women who like you back. You can't possibly expect women to date somebody who they aren't attracted to?

Oh, women don't like me back. I speak strangely and I'm somewhat disfigured. I have a blind left eye that's always half-shut and sometimes leaks.

Getting an eyepatch would make you look badass, though.

[Gallowfield]

Sometimes, when one shows interest, isn't dating anyone else, and isn't about to move away. Those three together are surprisingly hard to find.

You don't wait for her to "show interest", you might be waiting for the wrong sign. This right here is probably your biggest issue.

How am I supposed to know if she likes me or not? I'm not a telepath

[The Parkus Empire]

Most of the women I meet care about attitude. If they think you got balls, they like you. Sure, looks help--might make women hit on you more (which you shouldn't be depending on), but that's not the major thing.

It's not that I rely on looks. It's that the looks I have are bad! I could handle it if my looks didn't work for me, but they seem to be actively against me. I get made fun of a lot for looking like a caveman

You can beat people up with ease, but they make fun of you like that?

There are fatfatfat ugly guys who have cute girlfriends. I've seen 'em. Looks are not a total problem. There might be women who don't go for such and such looks, but you'll run into plenty who will nearly every day.

[Dyakovo]

You don't wait for her to "show interest", you might be waiting for the wrong sign. This right here is probably your biggest issue.

How am I supposed to know if she likes me or not? I'm not a telepath

Ask her out.
If she says "yes" then she's interested in you.

[Dyakovo]

It's not that I rely on looks. It's that the looks I have are bad! I could handle it if my looks didn't work for me, but they seem to be actively against me. I get made fun of a lot for looking like a caveman

You can beat people up with ease, but they make fun of you like that?

There are fatfatfat ugly guys who have cute girlfriends. I've seen 'em. Looks are not a total problem. There might be women who don't go for such and such looks, but you'll run into plenty who will nearly every day.

Dude...
I'm right here.
That was rude.

;)

[The Parkus Empire]

You don't wait for her to "show interest", you might be waiting for the wrong sign. This right here is probably your biggest issue.

How am I supposed to know if she likes me or not? I'm not a telepath

You don't have to. Sometimes it's obvious, sometimes it isn't. You ask her if she's down to kick it, and if she says yes then she likes you.

[The Parkus Empire]

You can beat people up with ease, but they make fun of you like that?

There are fatfatfat ugly guys who have cute girlfriends. I've seen 'em. Looks are not a total problem. There might be women who don't go for such and such looks, but you'll run into plenty who will nearly every day.

Dude...
I'm right here.
That was rude.

;)

Hahaha. Case in point.

[Camelza]

Attaboy!

Want to join me? I've got a mean recipe for homemade french fries/potato bites.

Sounds like a plan to me.

How am I supposed to know if she likes me or not? I'm not a telepath

Ask her out.
If she says "yes" then she's interested in you.

This is harder for some people than you think.

[Gallowfield]

It's not that I rely on looks. It's that the looks I have are bad! I could handle it if my looks didn't work for me, but they seem to be actively against me. I get made fun of a lot for looking like a caveman

You can beat people up with ease, but they make fun of you like that?

There are fatfatfat ugly guys who have cute girlfriends. I've seen 'em. Looks are not a total problem. There might be women who don't go for such and such looks, but you'll run into plenty who will nearly every day.

Yes, they know I don't usually like to hurt people. I only fight under two conditions- danger, or a direct challenge. And if I'm challenged, I only go far enough to win with minimal force. And I've noticed that! I wonder if it's less of an attractiveness issue and more of an intimidation issue.

[The Parkus Empire]

This is harder for some people than you think.

Practice all over the place.

[Gallowfield]

Want to join me? I've got a mean recipe for homemade french fries/potato bites.

Sounds like a plan to me.

Ask her out.
If she says "yes" then she's interested in you.

This is harder for some people than you think.

Alright, you're not allergic to garlic or cumin, are you? And yes, it is quite hard when you don't know what the result will be. It's like doing parkour in a rundown building. The fact that you might fall through the floor makes you nervous, which makes you worse at it.

[The Parkus Empire]

You can beat people up with ease, but they make fun of you like that?

There are fatfatfat ugly guys who have cute girlfriends. I've seen 'em. Looks are not a total problem. There might be women who don't go for such and such looks, but you'll run into plenty who will nearly every day.

Yes, they know I don't usually like to hurt people. I only fight under two conditions- danger, or a direct challenge. And if I'm challenged, I only go far enough to win with minimal force. And I've noticed that! I wonder if it's less of an attractiveness issue and more of an intimidation issue.

I guess it depends on the woman.... But it doesn't sound like you get much chance to be showy with your toughness.

[The Parkus Empire]

Alright, you're not allergic to garlic or cumin, are you? And yes, it is quite hard when you don't know what the result will be. It's like doing parkour in a rundown building. The fact that you might fall through the floor makes you nervous, which makes you worse at it.

What's the worse that can happen?

"Fuck you, you're ugly."
"Well fuck you too, bitch."

And that really doesn't happen.

[Gallowfield]

Yes, they know I don't usually like to hurt people. I only fight under two conditions- danger, or a direct challenge. And if I'm challenged, I only go far enough to win with minimal force. And I've noticed that! I wonder if it's less of an attractiveness issue and more of an intimidation issue.

I guess it depends on the woman.... But it doesn't sound like you get much chance to be showy with your toughness.

Haha, I do so in other ways besides fighting. I'm not bad at parkour and I'm good at weight lifting. I can lift a lot of my friends over my head pretty easily (and no, I don't give them the Bane treatment)

[Gallowfield]

Alright, you're not allergic to garlic or cumin, are you? And yes, it is quite hard when you don't know what the result will be. It's like doing parkour in a rundown building. The fact that you might fall through the floor makes you nervous, which makes you worse at it.

What's the worse that can happen?

"Fuck you, you're ugly."
"Well fuck you too, bitch."

And that really doesn't happen.

Once I asked a girl out and she laughed hysterically and was like "Are you serious?" and I said yes, and she laughed harder. Ugh, humans.....

[Bombadil]

First, the whole 'nice guy' thing is really only a 'thing' at school through early 20's because peer status is more important then. This leads people to focus on people who are basically out of their league. So, for want of another phrase, lower your standards to your own peer group.

I did. Failed miserably. Twice.

Keep lowering then.

[Camelza]

Sounds like a plan to me.

This is harder for some people than you think.

Alright, you're not allergic to garlic or cumin, are you? And yes, it is quite hard when you don't know what the result will be. It's like doing parkour in a rundown building. The fact that you might fall through the floor makes you nervous, which makes you worse at it.

It's all in the mind really...

[The Parkus Empire]

I guess it depends on the woman.... But it doesn't sound like you get much chance to be showy with your toughness.

Haha, I do so in other ways besides fighting. I'm not bad at parkour and I'm good at weight lifting. I can lift a lot of my friends over my head pretty easily (and no, I don't give them the Bane treatment)

Ugly or not, that sort of shit pulls chicks. Try looking in crappy neighborhoods, you'll find women who are interested, although they might lose the interest the moment they realize you're the kinda guy who won't beat up a shit talker.

[The Parkus Empire]

What's the worse that can happen?

"Fuck you, you're ugly."
"Well fuck you too, bitch."

And that really doesn't happen.

Once I asked a girl out and she laughed hysterically and was like "Are you serious?" and I said yes, and she laughed harder. Ugh, humans.....

Should have asked her what the fuck was so funny.

[Gallowfield]

Haha, I do so in other ways besides fighting. I'm not bad at parkour and I'm good at weight lifting. I can lift a lot of my friends over my head pretty easily (and no, I don't give them the Bane treatment)

Ugly or not, that sort of shit pulls chicks. Try looking in crappy neighborhoods, you'll find women who are interested, although they might lose the interest the moment they realize you're the kinda guy who won't beat up a shit talker.

I know someone is going to say beggars can't be choosers, but I would like to find a woman who can appreciate my less brutish side too. I enjoy writing novels and poems, and I'm not bad at cooking either. I love animals and I'm vegetarian. I'm the kind of guy who trains jujitsu and barehanded fighting one minute, then goes home and takes care of my kittens the next.

[Zhouran]

I remember having a crush on this girl.

On this years Valentines, she showed me this present, and said she wanted to show it to her boyfriend.

[The Parkus Empire]

Ugly or not, that sort of shit pulls chicks. Try looking in crappy neighborhoods, you'll find women who are interested, although they might lose the interest the moment they realize you're the kinda guy who won't beat up a shit talker.

I know someone is going to say beggars can't be choosers, but I would like to find a woman who can appreciate my less brutish side too. I enjoy writing novels and poems, and I'm not bad at cooking either. I love animals and I'm vegetarian. I'm the kind of guy who trains jujitsu and barehanded fighting one minute, then goes home and takes care of my kittens the next.

You wanna peg all those interests, you gonna have to try online dating.

[Gallowfield]

Once I asked a girl out and she laughed hysterically and was like "Are you serious?" and I said yes, and she laughed harder. Ugh, humans.....

Should have asked her what the fuck was so funny.

I knew it was the fact that someone like me asked her out. Oh well, she went on to have a series of bad relationships with both boyfriends and her family and friends, so I guess I dodged the bullet there

[The Parkus Empire]

I remember having a crush on this girl.

On this years Valentines, she showed me this present, and said she wanted to show it to her boyfriend.

Well she has a boyfriend what do you expect? You ain't hitting that without some respectable game and guys with "crushes" ain't got game.