The "Nice Guy" and the friendzone, Society's attitude

[Dakini]

Wow. You think that the only sexual organ on a male body is the penis and that the only sexual organs on a woman are among her vulva.

What a sad sex life you must have.

My dear, wasn't that obvious?

It was obvious when he laughed at me for being a feminist. I'm just re-asserting the point.

I'm sure there's an innuendo in there somewhere.

[Imsogone]

No, because they were too busy checking them new tires while the women were at the mall.

Reproduction involves both sexes. It can't affect sex in an evolutionary way like you're assuming unless men and women could reproduce on their own.

Are we on the same page here because you aren't making a lick of sense.

Since men are incapable of nursing children we seem to be more suited to working > earning money > money used for food and paying for the house.
Kind of how we have maternity leave for working women nowadays. When the mother is temporarily busy with the whole giving birth thing somebody needs to earn income to support the family (hint, it isnt the cat) Considering the father does not give birth, he is the perfect candidate.

As I understand it, a little hormone therapy and men can lactate.

[Forster Keys]

There are a few things I can say. Most of them would get me an one day ban due to my record for flaming.

So I'll leave it at this: if at the end of the day you think of your sex partner as just pussy to fuck, you are part of the problem. Also, how the hell do you even have fulfilling sex?

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

[Individuality-ness]

There are a few things I can say. Most of them would get me an one day ban due to my record for flaming.

So I'll leave it at this: if at the end of the day you think of your sex partner as just pussy to fuck, you are part of the problem. Also, how the hell do you even have fulfilling sex?

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

[Dakini]

Are we on the same page here because you aren't making a lick of sense.

Since men are incapable of nursing children we seem to be more suited to working > earning money > money used for food and paying for the house.
Kind of how we have maternity leave for working women nowadays. When the mother is temporarily busy with the whole giving birth thing somebody needs to earn income to support the family (hint, it isnt the cat) Considering the father does not give birth, he is the perfect candidate.

As I understand it, a little hormone therapy and men can lactate.

Sometimes it doesn't require hormone therapy. I seem to recall that this is something that sometimes happens spontaneously in men.

[United Meritocratic Athiest Democracy]

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

The concept of sex as a simple gamete exchange program is kind of sad.

I mean...that's like...0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of the negotiations.

[Individuality-ness]

My dear, wasn't that obvious?

It was obvious when he laughed at me for being a feminist. I'm just re-asserting the point.

I'm sure there's an innuendo in there somewhere.

Don't even think about it, that's just creepy.

[Forster Keys]

There are a few things I can say. Most of them would get me an one day ban due to my record for flaming.

So I'll leave it at this: if at the end of the day you think of your sex partner as just pussy to fuck, you are part of the problem. Also, how the hell do you even have fulfilling sex?

Mostly I just try to get her to orgasm because I feel really bad for girls who outlast their partners and never get orgasms

I'm really, really skeptical. I'm sorry.

[Dakini]

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

Well, they pretend that this is satisfying for her, what with the fake orgasm noises she's doing.

[Imsogone]

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

You just made me think of my ex- possibly the only frigid man on the planet - he could do it, he just didn't enjoy it.

[Flaxxony-Setram]

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

[Individuality-ness]

There are a few things I can say. Most of them would get me an one day ban due to my record for flaming.

So I'll leave it at this: if at the end of the day you think of your sex partner as just pussy to fuck, you are part of the problem. Also, how the hell do you even have fulfilling sex?

Mostly I just try to get her to orgasm because I feel really bad for girls who outlast their partners and never get orgasms

Yeah, given what you've said so far, I call bullshit.

[Norstal]

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

I have no words. Like, the only sound I can make at this point is "ahhahahahahahahaha."

[United Meritocratic Athiest Democracy]

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

That's...well, that's certainly an interesting way to make a point. What is the point you're attempting to make, exactly, that you have no nuance or tone to your ramblings?

[Flaxxony-Setram]

Mostly I just try to get her to orgasm because I feel really bad for girls who outlast their partners and never get orgasms

Yeah, given what you've said so far, I call bullshit.

Umm ok I dont honestly give a shit really I meam be deluded or assume the worse or whatever you want to do

[Forster Keys]

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

You just made me think of my ex- possibly the only frigid man on the planet - he could do it, he just didn't enjoy it.

Well that's no fun, but at least he's selfless enough to oblige others I suppose.

[Individuality-ness]

Ohh, right, just like in porn, when all that matters is the money shot (men cumming), not whether the female actor had sexual sastisfaction or not!

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

You know, maybe I should stop worried about whether I'm the one that's going to get the banhammer…

[Dakini]

Ooo! Ooo! I have a guess!


Probably his sex life is fulfilling for him, because he gets off and he thinks this is all that matters.

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

Well... sort of. Some women are capable of multiple orgasms*. With sufficient foreplay in advance they can kinda just keep on coming. It's maybe more that "peaking early" isn't usually a problem for women since they can typically continue without taking much of a break anyway.**

*I have no idea what the statistics are on this, it's possible that all women are capable and it's possible that it's rare
**Granted, if a dude does "peak early" it's not like his fingers and tongue are out of order

[United Meritocratic Athiest Democracy]

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

You know, maybe I should stop worried about whether I'm the one that's going to get the banhammer…

There's always the Dr. Strangelove route. Stop worrying and learn to love the banhammer.

[Dictatorship Of Serdaristan]

Not talking about physical differences here.

We are obviously from different places and were raised differently, you probably live in a city, are a liberal and are progressive, as are your friends. I'm from a small town, I'm a
conservative, and a redneck. I like trucks, guns, explosions, beer, whiskey, bonfires etc. I'd rather die than live in a city.

I usually dont go to the mall with my friends, but when I do it always turns out the same.

Obviously women are individuals, you of all people should know that. they just tend to be on one side of the spectrum where men are on the other.

Notice how it is only one friend who is both A. female, and B. likes what I like

You dont have to be so black and white, I do hang out with people regardless of gender, and based on interest. most people who share my interests are male

So what you're saying is that really, gender is irrelevant other than the social conditioning a person experiences growing up?

Gotcha.

What Im saying is that women and men are brought up differently.
You ever hear of the K.I.S.S. principle? Nobody around here uses the word gender, like ever. Nobody that I know of has ever had problems with social this and that, gays can marry, men are free to dress up as women if they feel they were cheated out of having a vagina etc.

[Individuality-ness]

Yeah, given what you've said so far, I call bullshit.

Umm ok I dont honestly give a shit really I meam be deluded or assume the worse or whatever you want to do

I never expected you to. You seem to care though, since you bothered to call me a dumbfuck and a dipshit.

[Flaxxony-Setram]

Oooh ooh dumbfuck read the post dipshit! Dont just circlejerk and speculate about what I might say when I already said it!!

You know, maybe I should stop worried about whether I'm the one that's going to get the banhammer…

Well I really could care less considering you jump to conclusions that are impossible to refute or confirm

[Imsogone]

You just made me think of my ex- possibly the only frigid man on the planet - he could do it, he just didn't enjoy it.

Well that's no fun, but at least he's selfless enough to oblige others I suppose.

Nah. He did it because it was expected of him and he wanted to get it over with as quickly as possible. I understand that his current wife had to resort to toys and videocams to encourage him to stay "together" long enough to get her pregnant.

[Forster Keys]

Well sort of. As a male you peak quicker obviously. But it's not as if you want to get the business over and done with as quick as possible. If he think's an hour is ludicrous, he's cheating himself as much as anyone else.

Well... sort of. Some women are capable of multiple orgasms*. With sufficient foreplay in advance they can kinda just keep on coming. It's maybe more that "peaking early" isn't usually a problem for women since they can typically continue without taking much of a break anyway.**

*I have no idea what the statistics are on this, it's possible that all women are capable and it's possible that it's rare

True. That's just unfair though.

**Granted, if a dude does "peak early" it's not like his fingers and tongue are out of order

A fair point too.

[Flaxxony-Setram]

Umm ok I dont honestly give a shit really I meam be deluded or assume the worse or whatever you want to do

I never expected you to. You seem to care though, since you bothered to call me a dumbfuck and a dipshit.

Thatd be because you felt you had to assume I am bad at sex simply because I dont agree with you... or that I dont like women orgasming?