Value of virginity and slut-shaming

[Condunum]

Even more so for me... Especially when you consider the fact that I'm a parent...

Immaculate conception?

Dyakovo actually hand crafted his children from dirt and used an old Voodoo spell me and a coven crafted up way back when.

[Autismiah]

I said in that very post. Do you wish me to give more examples? Why is that?

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

[Greed and Death]

People are Stupid.
If you want to be a virgin and marry a virgin fine, stop carrying about what anyone else does.

B-b-but, humans suck.(Most can't accept that)

That is why when I take over the world the first law will be leave everyone else alone, unless your invited.

[Disserbia]

I said in that very post. Do you wish me to give more examples? Why is that?

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Implying hedonism is a bad thing.

[The Rich Port]

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

Your analogy is WAAAAY off, considering you can nonviolently and passively kill someone in many, many ways.

[Dakini]

"Slut" is just a synonym for "you get more sex than me, and this makes me jealous"

Sometimes it means "you fucked someone who wasn't me!".

Also, "prude" means "you won't fuck me!".

[Autismiah]

Mean what? Sex with many people does indeed mean you're promiscuous. That's the definition.

A woman who had never had sex as she was waiting for the right man seems less likely to cheat due to her evident moral viewpoints than someone who does not value virginity as she is arbitrary and uncaring about these things.

lolwhut.

Yeah, unless she got married extra young because that's what a lot of people do when they're "saving themselves" and then she and her partner grow up and realize that they're totally different people. Or unless she realizes that the sex she's been having is unsatisfying (maybe she's heard from her friends who have good sex lives that it can be great) and then goes to see what she's missed out on.

If you honestly believe that people who save themselves for marriage are less likely to cheat, then you're either incredibly naive or delusional.

What else will she be uncaring about? Marriage is only a piece of paper, after all.

Marriage is just a piece of paper.

Relationships are much more important, but they're not so useful if you want to be able to move across borders with your partner or access the multitude of benefits that come with legal status.

Also, you don't have to be married to cheat on someone.

Or maybe she'll go crazy from getting married and kill everyone!

I hold a respect for marriage, and I don't think a promiscuous person would do.

[Condunum]

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

So simply having had sex once before = promiscuous hedonist? Nice.

[The Silence of Night]

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

That's true actually, A large percent of murders are done from temporary insanity that sometimes plague peaceful, nonaggressive people.

[Dakini]

Immaculate conception?

Dyakovo actually hand crafted his children from dirt and used an old Voodoo spell me and a coven crafted up way back when.

Oh, you're sure one of them didn't burst out of his head fully armoured?

Or that none of them are the result of him ejaculating into the ocean and then forming among the sea foam?

[Autismiah]

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

Your analogy is WAAAAY off, considering you can nonviolently and passively kill someone in many, many ways.

Yes, you can. You can also be promiscuous and not be hedonistic, but it's difficult and the majority of people whom are one of those things would be the other.

[Condunum]

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

That's true actually, A large percent of murders are done from temporary insanity that sometimes plague peaceful, nonaggressive people.

The act of murder is, however, violent. The act of sex is not inherently promiscuous, though.

[Disserbia]

She doesn't think I behave inappropriately normally, so it's not slut shaming.

She guilted and shamed you for having a boyfriend and wearing shorts by calling you a stupid American slut.

The fact it was in the context of going to church notwithstanding, that is a bright flashing landing pad of slut shaming. It's true by definition.

No. Disapproving of how someone is behaving in a certain context is not disapproving of their lifestyle in general.

[Farnhamia]

People are Stupid.
If you want to be a virgin and marry a virgin fine, stop carrying about what anyone else does.

B-b-but, humans suck.(Most can't accept that)

Stop projecting your failures onto everyone else, thanks.

[The Silence of Night]

Having sex =/= promiscuous.
Having sex =/= hedonistic.

So what does having sex reveal about a person?

Implying hedonism is a bad thing.

I was thinking the same when I saw that post.

[The Ben Boys]

May I vent?

Last year I was in class and one girl was explaining to me that her sister was sixteen and had a baby, which was why she was going to online school. I was a bit surprised but didn't really care, and thought I hid it well, but she repeated "Don't judge" and left it at that.

What really pissed me off was that two months later, I was joking with a female friend of mine about sex. The girl formerly mentioned asked if I was serious, and I replied that I would remain a virgin until marriage for both religous and practical reasons, then she replied with disdain "that's stupid" completely serious, whereupon I did everything I could to tell her to stop being a bitch.

What the fuck? Whatever happened to "Don't judge"? I live in NorCal, where everyone is supposedly "open-minded" yet this isn't the first time, only the stupidest incident: many people tell me quite bluntly that they think it's stupid and I need to get myself someone who I can screw silly. It seems people here are only "open-minded" to those who have sex or in regards to orientation.

To be fair, you don't HAVE to, so why would you be celibate?

Sex is great.

What arbitrary reason do you have NOT to have sex?

To be fair, why does matter? It's a personal choice, as much as anything else.

First of all, I'm a very religous person. That should be reason enough.

Secondly, when I marry someone I want to give them my all, physically and emotionally (and sex, especially for a sappy romantic like me, is very emotional).

Thirdly, my family has had a history with sex that isn't too good. My cousin got married early because he got a girl pregnant. His father had oversexed (yes, it is a thing) himself as a young man and it destroyed his marriage, his relationship with his best friend, and eventually his best friend's marriage.

Lastly, it's not that big of a deal, at least when it comes to other people. I've always wanted to go the path least traveled, and I made the desicion, even before I was Christian, to wait becuase I didn't want it to become a focal point in my life. Over the years my closest friends have pursed relationships based on sex appeal, and I've seen marriages (like the one prevously mentioned) based on looks being decimated. I don't want to be the kind of person that lives like that. Not to say that all relationships or people that aren't celibate are like that, but simply that I want to train myself not to think like that.

[New haven america]

B-b-but, humans suck.(Most can't accept that)

That is why when I take over the world the first law will be leave everyone else alone, unless your invited.

Also the virgins that can't accept that they're virgins slut-shame, and vice-versa.

[Condunum]

Dyakovo actually hand crafted his children from dirt and used an old Voodoo spell me and a coven crafted up way back when.

Oh, you're sure one of them didn't burst out of his head fully armoured?

Or that none of them are the result of him ejaculating into the ocean and then forming among the sea foam?

...

I'm going to leave the details of the ritual at the his hands, I will neither confirm nor deny anything that is required in said ritual.

[Individuality-ness]

Dyakovo actually hand crafted his children from dirt and used an old Voodoo spell me and a coven crafted up way back when.

Oh, you're sure one of them didn't burst out of his head fully armoured?

Or that none of them are the result of him ejaculating into the ocean and then forming among the sea foam?

Actually, what happened there was that Uranus's balls got cut off, his genitals fell into the sea, and up came Venus.

[Dakini]

lolwhut.

Yeah, unless she got married extra young because that's what a lot of people do when they're "saving themselves" and then she and her partner grow up and realize that they're totally different people. Or unless she realizes that the sex she's been having is unsatisfying (maybe she's heard from her friends who have good sex lives that it can be great) and then goes to see what she's missed out on.

If you honestly believe that people who save themselves for marriage are less likely to cheat, then you're either incredibly naive or delusional.


Marriage is just a piece of paper.

Relationships are much more important, but they're not so useful if you want to be able to move across borders with your partner or access the multitude of benefits that come with legal status.

Also, you don't have to be married to cheat on someone.

Or maybe she'll go crazy from getting married and kill everyone!

I hold a respect for marriage, and I don't think a promiscuous person would do.

Given your definition of "promiscuous" and the existence of people in this very thread who are currently happily married and were once "promiscuous" by your definition, I'm going to go with "you don't know what the fuck you're talking about" on this one.

[Disserbia]

Your analogy is WAAAAY off, considering you can nonviolently and passively kill someone in many, many ways.

Yes, you can. You can also be promiscuous and not be hedonistic, but it's difficult and the majority of people whom are one of those things would be the other.

Prostitution for example.

[New haven america]

B-b-but, humans suck.(Most can't accept that)

Stop projecting your failures onto everyone else, thanks.

How is it my failure if some people can't grow-up?

[Autismiah]

Murdering someone =/= violent.
Murdering someone =/= aggressive.

Having had multiple partners is the definition of being promiscuous, so you're wrong there, and it implies hedonism.

So simply having had sex once before = promiscuous hedonist? Nice.

Most people who've had sex with more than one person have had sex with multiple people; generally, people don't stop at 2 and then get married to the person they had sex with second. Most either keep their virginity or are promiscuous.

[Dakini]

Oh, you're sure one of them didn't burst out of his head fully armoured?

Or that none of them are the result of him ejaculating into the ocean and then forming among the sea foam?

Actually, what happened there was that Uranus's balls got cut off, his genitals fell into the sea, and up came Venus.

Ah, I forgot the castration part for that one.

[Farnhamia]

Oh, you're sure one of them didn't burst out of his head fully armoured?

Or that none of them are the result of him ejaculating into the ocean and then forming among the sea foam?

Actually, what happened there was that Uranus's balls got cut off, his genitals fell into the sea, and up came Venus.

Yeah, she was not happy about that.