Value of virginity and slut-shaming

[Brocwika]

Also ITT so many individuals >Implying they've had sex before

Or is it just me?

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

So, someone who's had experienced sex before is a porn star? Wut?

I knew there was something special about me.

I'm going to Hollywood, the replacement for Ron Jeremy has arrived.

Have you ever seen Ron Jeremy? Don't make me proper spray you...

[Farnhamia]

Can you hold someone accountable if their understanding of the language they are conversing in is less than solid?

I'm not believing you that this was a misunderstanding of language. From what I'm hearing, she was saying it in a disapproving way of your clothes and boyfriend. She was slutshamming.

"Shamming"?

[Dyakovo]

What does it reveal about them?

I just said.

Not that I saw.

[Disserbia]

Yeah it isn't so how is admitting that she is not fluent in English backpedaling, it's adding context. It's not slut shamming because someone uses the word slut.

So if she doesn't know what "slut" means, how did she accurately (according to her intent) apply it to the situation?

You yourself said it had to do with having a boyfriend and dressing Inappropriately for church.

She must have just gotten unlucky in translation. Clearly she meant "slightly less than average intelligence American bad-dresser with a boyfriend I don't approve of".

Perhaps because she learned English mainly from 20somethings who live in her apt complex in the Bronx. Not every word spoken is meant to be taken entirely literally. Shocking, I know.

[The Rich Port]

So, someone who's had experienced sex before is a porn star? Wut?

I knew there was something special about me.

I'm going to Hollywood, the replacement for Ron Jeremy has arrived.

I think Darth Vader himself already beat you to it.

I love porno spoofs. I would know.

[Dakini]

Because they don't know how good sex can be therefore don't notice how terrible he is.

Thats partially the reason.

How about you just learn to be good in bed.

It's not hard and mostly consists of open and honest communication with your partner (e.g. ask what they want, ask for feedback when you try to do it).

And you know what? If you get better at sex, then you'll probably enjoy it more too. Especially if you take the approach where you communicate what's good/bad with your partner (because you can both do this).

[Autismiah]

Very much so.

A celibate person would have a vastly differing personality to that of a porn star for obvious reasons.

So, someone who's had experienced sex before is a porn star? Wut?

No. Just like someone who has never had sex before isn't celibate.

[Galloism]

I'm not believing you that this was a misunderstanding of language. From what I'm hearing, she was saying it in a disapproving way of your clothes and boyfriend. She was slutshamming.

"Shamming"?

Those wax figures I made for them to burn at the stake so I could escape with the real sluts, remember?

[Dyakovo]

Also ITT so many individuals >Implying they've had sex before

Or is it just me?

Why do you find it shocking that we've had sex before?

[Disserbia]

I'm not believing you that this was a misunderstanding of language. From what I'm hearing, she was saying it in a disapproving way of your clothes and boyfriend. She was slutshamming.

"Shamming"?

No she was disapproving of dressing that way and taking to church she was nt disapproving in general.

[Autismiah]

I just said.

Not that I saw.

I said in that very post. Do you wish me to give more examples? Why is that?

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

So, someone who's had experienced sex before is a porn star? Wut?

No. Just like someone who has never had sex before isn't celibate.

Are you a virgin? Or celibate?

[Individuality-ness]

Sex with many people that isn't you STILL doesn't mean that. I said infidelity because a lot of people who slut-shame think that if a woman has a lot of sex, it means she'll be unfaithful to you in your current relationship.

Mean what? Sex with many people does indeed mean you're promiscuous. That's the definition.

A woman who had never had sex as she was waiting for the right man seems less likely to cheat due to her evident moral viewpoints than someone who does not value virginity as she is arbitrary and uncaring about these things. What else will she be uncaring about? Marriage is only a piece of paper, after all.

As compared to what? Is there an arbitrary number?

You're still not getting it. Having sex with more than one person doesn't mean that that partner will be unfaithful to you. It just means that that partner has had some experience, which could actually work to your advantage.

[Reggae Magmia]

I think both slut shaming and chastity shaming need to die.

Let people make their own choices.

^This.

[Disserbia]

"Shamming"?

Those wax figures I made for them to burn at the stake so I could escape with the real sluts, remember?

The autocorrect on my phone changed slut shaming to slit slamming more than once.

[Farnhamia]

"Shamming"?

Those wax figures I made for them to burn at the stake so I could escape with the real sluts, remember?

Your escapes never cease to amaze me. All that work and wax when a simple disguise would have worked just as well.

[Condunum]

I'm not believing you that this was a misunderstanding of language. From what I'm hearing, she was saying it in a disapproving way of your clothes and boyfriend. She was slutshamming.

"Shamming"?

My bad

Also ITT so many individuals >Implying they've had sex before

Or is it just me?


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Sorry? I don't really care if you believe me.

[The Rich Port]

Having sex reveals a lot about you?

Very much so.

A celibate person would have a vastly differing personality to that of a porn star for obvious reasons.

You know... Something's been bothering me about this.

Can people that have never had sex with another person honestly speak about having sex with another person?

I'm just askin'.

[Galloism]

So if she doesn't know what "slut" means, how did she accurately (according to her intent) apply it to the situation?

You yourself said it had to do with having a boyfriend and dressing Inappropriately for church.

She must have just gotten unlucky in translation. Clearly she meant "slightly less than average intelligence American bad-dresser with a boyfriend I don't approve of".

Perhaps because she learned English mainly from 20somethings who live in her apt complex in the Bronx. Not every word spoken is meant to be taken entirely literally. Shocking, I know.

So the 20 somethings in her apartment were walking around calling people sluts, and she picked it up, then appropriately applied it for max slut shaming of you later on accident.

This gets more probable every minute.

I'm just waiting for someone to have run down a mugger in a powered wheelchair next.

[Autismiah]

No. Just like someone who has never had sex before isn't celibate.

Are you a virgin? Or celibate?

Neither.

[Condunum]

Also ITT so many individuals >Implying they've had sex before

Or is it just me?

Why do you find it shocking that we've had sex before?

He wants to believe that everyone on the internet is a virgin.

It's an ego thing.

[Napkiraly]

It just means that that partner has had some experience, which could actually work to your advantage.

To quote the all-mighty Billy Connolly.

*ahem*

Give me two fire-breathing whores any day of the week. I'm a slut man!

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Are you a virgin? Or celibate?

Neither.

Then what grounds do you have for basing your opinion?

[Brocwika]

"Shamming"?

My bad

Also ITT so many individuals >Implying they've had sex before

Or is it just me?


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Sorry? I don't really care if you believe me.

I never said anything about you. But the fact you're getting defensive about it....