Nailed to the Perch wrote:Storytime!
A while back, I was hanging out with my cousin's adorable daughter, M, who was about 4 at the time. We were playing with her Disney princess dolls, and she was making up elaborate (and very cute) stories about them. At one point in the story, several of the princesses were sent to jail. Their crime? "Not being pretty."
(It should be noted, incidentally, that the supposedly "not pretty" princesses corresponded quite well to the "not eligible for membership in the KKK" princesses.)
I asked if, before they went to jail, they could have a trial, and M agreed. As their "lawyer," I argued that, first of all, they were all very pretty in their own ways, because prettiness comes in all sorts of shapes and sizes and colors, and second of all, it didn't matter if they were pretty because they were good, kind, brave people, and that was much more important than being pretty. M thought about this (making a super cute "pensive" face while she did so) and concluded that this was a good argument and that all of the princesses should be set free. "Hooray!" I said. "Hooray!" she said, too, and gave Mulan a victory hug.
I cannot fathom the mentality of the people who think that, instead of taking this opportunity to talk to her about body image in age-appropriate ways, I should have just let M imprison all the brown girls, because THINKING IS HARD, YO.
ah, yes. Cinderella v. United States. definitely a game-changer for women's rights.





