Swith Witherward wrote:Grad Duchy of Luxembourg wrote:Just wanted to make sure you weren't taking the blame-the-victim stance by evoking biologically savvy women.
I don't see anyone as being a victim.
That said, an educated patient who disregards knowledge, preventative measures and all forms of contraception just because "It feels good so I had to have it right now" - ie he forgot his condoms at home - and then blames society and the man for her moment of indiscretion ("because if I get pregnant, he can pay for an abortion") scores really low on my respect-o-meter. This is why I said willpower was important.
Willpower is important. But for those who wish to either change their decision, have momentary lapse in their judgment, have unwittingly made a mistake, or by force of nature had things decided for them, then there should be a way for a recourse. Withholding that recourse is just as grave a sin as withholding self-directed and mandated education (such as abstinence only based sex eds)



