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Postby Tahar Joblis » Wed May 29, 2013 7:13 am

You're just afraid of losing your privilege.

Problematic? This hasn't been particularly bad lately on NSG, but it's here and it's present pretty much in any open forum for discussion online. I'd like to address the privilege narrative, particularly as employed both by and against conservatives; and the problems inherent in the common uses of the narrative.

First problem: We're on shaky ideological foundations in the first place with PrivilegeTM.
"Privileges," plural and specific, are not a problematic conception. Some people have privileges that others do not. I have certain privileges for certain reasons. For example, I have good health insurance because I work for a university. I am not going to deny that there are certain privileges associated with memberships within certain classes.

Real privileges are always specific; and always contextual. There are, for example, a large number associated with being white in the United States. To identify whites as a generically "privileged class" in that context is not especially problematic in most contexts within the United States, because the privileges associated with being non-white are small in the US, and the disadvantages associated with being white are small in the US.

It is still fundamentally inaccurate, and there are situations in which assuming a white person is enjoying a net benefit from being white are inappropriate. It's a sloppy logic, in other words, that leads us to divide people into discrete classes and identify a privileged and an oppressed class over each dichotomous division; sloppy logic that provides a good approximation in some cases, but still sloppy logic.

This is especially problematic in the dialogue over gender, because female and male privileges are usually both non-trivial; there are few contexts in which men and women have anything resembling a unidirectional division of privilege and disadvantage. To say, generically, that someone is defending male privilege is to invoke a deliberately vague concept with minimal correspondence to anything meaningful - the difference between talking about privileges and PrivilegeTM is enormous.

Second, there's the conscious/unconscious problem. Talking to someone about PrivilegeTM as a subscriber to the patriarchy/privilege ideological system is a little like talking to someone about the Oedipal complex as Ziggy Freud.
I don't deny that there are specific privileges associated with class membership. Few people would deny that. I also go as far as carefully working to identify what these really are; which is something that few people do. In spite of this, I still regularly run into people on NSG claiming that I have no idea what it's like to be a woman, or am ignorant of the nature of "male privilege."

A cornerstone of the privilege/patriarchy narrative is that members of the privileged class are fundamentally incapable of understanding the plight of the oppressed class, and will deny that this "privilege" exists; and this is extended to members of the oppressed class who collaborate, with the idea that if they very consciously deny their privilege, it is because of unconscious desire to conform to the ideals of the oppressed class in order to reap material reward.

This is down-the-rabbit-hole logic when we start looking at the logic of its argumentation.

1. Assert class A is privileged.
2a. If contradicted by a member of class A, state that s/he simply cannot see the privilege.
2b. If contradicted by a non-member of class A, state that s/he is simply aping class A as a method of obedience to the hierarchy which makes A privileged.

The logic of the argument of referring to men as a privileged class can be applied equally well to women. Some MRAs are doing exactly that; asserting that men are and always have been the oppressed class; that this oppression is largely invisible to women and denied by men only in order to obey the hierarchy placing women in a superior position and insure their continued status within the current system. Sounds familiar? Some feminists have said the same thing.

It's an argument that relies fundamentally on subjective evidence, subjective reality, and asserts immunity to evidence. I've discussed this similarly with respect to blaming the patriarchy in this thread; ultimately, the assertion of and logic surrounding the "privileged/non-privileged" class dichotomy is similar. Argumentatively speaking, the claim that "you're doing this because you secretly want to defend the privileges associated with your membership in [privileged class] / want to be treated nicely by members of [privileged class] as a good little [oppressed class]" is an attack on the motives of the debater; and it's an attack that is immune, within the dichotomous "privilege" logic, to factual critique.

The appeal to motivation proffered is, in other words, utterly useless in and of itself; it does not add anything to an argument which analyzes the privileges / disadvantages associated with a class division, and it has no real weight to it without such an argument. Appeal to unconscious motivation rests entirely in the realm of cruddy arguments.

The fact of the matter is, we're all human; and if we put forth effort, we can do a pretty good job of understanding each other's problems. The problem is that most of us are unwilling to put forth the effort, and cling to our dogmas like life preservers in a storm; not that we are fundamentally unable.

That's not to say nobody is ever motivated by wanting to defend privilege.
People have been and are motivated by the prospect of losing privileges. This is quite visible. It's not some hidden unconscious motivation. This is quite simple to evaluate. You examine a specific privilege associated with the class; you see if they seek to defend that privilege; and then if they do, they're motivated by the defense of privilege.

A man worried that women getting the votes will dilute the effect of his vote - or a high-class woman worried that the entry of lower-class women would dilute her behind-the-scenes political power - is motivated by the defense of his or her privileges of political influence; a white worried about blacks "getting uppity" is worried about the loss of the white privilege of being viewed as a social superior; and a woman worried about more men getting custody of children in divorce is concerned with the loss of a female privilege.

We cannot demonstrate that anti-suffragette women were or were not motivated by an unconscious desire to be granted some measure of token benefits from men in exchange for their support for the establishment in a class struggle; but it is very easy to demonstrate that they were concerned that if women gained the vote, they would lose numerous of the special legal protections and exemptions they enjoyed as women. They wrote extensively and explicitly on the topic; it's documented.

Phyllis Schlafly's opposition to the ERA was not framed nor visibly motivated by the desire to gain benefits from men. She was herself a greatly privileged person who had exactly the life she wanted. Instead, her primary argument were that feminism would lead to the loss of female privileges; that women, if treated equally to men, would be drafted; that bathrooms would become unisex; et cetera.

However, even when it's real, the attack on motivations usually just doesn't work out for a progressive trying to advance reforms.

It works if your opponent is honestly in favor of inequality and willing to admit it; otherwise, it's no better than any other ungrounded appeal to motive.
So; the idea of dichotomous privileged/oppressed classes is sloppy logic, though occasionally useful. Some people are motivated by the loss of privilege.

Does advancing the claim that this is the backlash of privilege advance your cause?

Let's break this into cases.

1. Unconscious/secret motivations: Non-falsifiable assaults

You don't know what someone's unconscious motivations are, since you aren't telepathic. This is only going to advance your cause if it serves your cause to have the discussion move from material discussion of the issue at hand to discussion ad hominem, where we have moved from discussing issues to discussing people, their group identifications, and what bearing those group identifications have on the visibility of privilege, and secret unconscious motives that can never be proved.

So, if your cause is fundamentally conservative - that is to say, you wish to defend the status quo in its entirety - your cause is served by this method of argument. If your cause is progressive or reactionary - even a little bit, remember, if you desire anything other than the status quo, you should wish to engage in material discussion - this is not helpful.

If we buy into the logic of a privileged/oppressed dichotomy, the status quo is oppressive, and defending the status quo wholesale is a defense of privilege. This in turn means that you are positively served if and only if you are defending privilege yourself; which in turn means you're a rank hypocrite.

2. Conscious motivations: Attacking real values

So; what happens if you're debating someone like Phyllis Schlafly? She knows she's defending gendered privileges. She knows she's defending female-specific privileges; she knows she's defending male-specific privileges.

You decide to attack her by saying "Look, you have the motivation of defending the privileged class." [Feminists and MRAs both; yes, MRAs have attacked her for defending female privilege, it's inevitable if you believe in equality that you will attack Phyllis Schafly's position.]

She now has a choice:

A. Lie about her motives; in which case she has the opportunity to derail the conversation onto the topic of who is allowed to talk about things. If she's defending the status quo, this will work in her favor.

B. Openly admit her motive is in defense of privileges belonging to certain classes of people; which will help you alienate her from audiences that favor egalitarian principles. Which, again, presents a nice way to derail the conversation, here onto the topic of whether or not we really should be treating all classes of people equally.

C. Sidestep the question and say that even if she believed in equality, she would still not favor your policy, because there's a compelling reason for treating the classes differently. In which case you now look like a shitty debater - because you are being one - and you're back right where you started.

Remember, we're not talking about making an argument for how policy X affects class Y and class Z in such a manner as to exacerbate the inequality created by a specific privilege class Y possess and class Z does not. That would be talking about privileges, specific, not PrivilegeTM as a dichotomous marking of classes into privileged and oppressed.

In other words, when we consider the larger picture, employing the "privileged backlash" narrative in a debate is really only useful if you are conservative, in the very literal sense: You're perfectly happy with the status quo and are content with debate that goes nowhere, convinces nobody, and runs off the rails away from the original topic at high speed.

I would say this should be avoided.

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Postby Frisivisia » Wed May 29, 2013 7:17 am

Tahar, don't you think you're a bit one-dimensional? All you do is post about "LOLOL MENZ RITEZ" and get angry at feminists.
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Postby Khadgar » Wed May 29, 2013 7:17 am

What if I want to expand my privileges to everyone?

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Postby Gandoor » Wed May 29, 2013 7:17 am

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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 7:17 am

When you have feminists who are anti-sex telling people who aren't black transsexual women
"You are just afraid of losing your privilege, that's why you disagree with us." as essentially the entire substance of their argument, and then you have pro-sex feminists, some of whom actually are black transsexual women, making the same arguments we do that get ignored entirely, you can see why the "It's privilege." thing is just completely fucking ridiculous.

Especially when it goes both ways. Pro-Sex feminists also use the privelege argument, and anti-sex feminists make the same arguments we do sometimes.
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Postby Frisivisia » Wed May 29, 2013 7:19 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:When you have feminists who are anti-sex telling people who aren't black transsexual women
"You are just afraid of losing your privelige, that's why you disagree with us." as essentially the entire substance of their argument, and then you have pro-sex feminists, some of whom actually are black transsexual women, making the same arguments we do that get ignored entirely, you can see why the "It's privelige." thing is just completely fucking ridiculous.

Especially when it goes both ways. Pro-Sex feminists also use the privelege argument, and anti-sex feminists make the same arguments we do sometimes.

Are you implying that white men don't have an easier time of it?
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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 7:20 am

Frisivisia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:When you have feminists who are anti-sex telling people who aren't black transsexual women
"You are just afraid of losing your privelige, that's why you disagree with us." as essentially the entire substance of their argument, and then you have pro-sex feminists, some of whom actually are black transsexual women, making the same arguments we do that get ignored entirely, you can see why the "It's privelige." thing is just completely fucking ridiculous.

Especially when it goes both ways. Pro-Sex feminists also use the privelege argument, and anti-sex feminists make the same arguments we do sometimes.

Are you implying that white men don't have an easier time of it?


In some regards they do, and i'm opposed to those priveleges just as much as i'm opposed to areas of female privelege. Which makes me consistent, unlike most feminists on this forum.
As for the rest, read Tahar's post. It's a logical fallacy for one thing, since it constitutes an appeal to motive.
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Postby Frisivisia » Wed May 29, 2013 7:21 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:
Frisivisia wrote:Are you implying that white men don't have an easier time of it?


In some regards they do, and i'm opposed to those priveleges just as much as i'm opposed to areas of female privelege.

Gender roles are harmful to us all.
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Postby DogDoo 7 » Wed May 29, 2013 7:22 am

What about Israeli settlers and Palestinians in the West Bank?

I'd say one group is pretty clearly privileged over the other.
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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 7:22 am

Frisivisia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:
In some regards they do, and i'm opposed to those priveleges just as much as i'm opposed to areas of female privelege.

Gender roles are harmful to us all.


I agree. So why the focus on women? And why is it you would probably find it completely absurd if I said "You are only opposed to paper-abortions because of female privelege."
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Postby Tahar Joblis » Wed May 29, 2013 7:24 am

Frisivisia wrote:Tahar, don't you think you're a bit one-dimensional? All you do is post about "LOLOL MENZ RITEZ" and get angry at feminists.

I sometimes miss the days when my NS foruming had more variety - RPing world wars and various acts of ecoterrorism, attacking Nazis, Republicans, and anarcho-capitalists, expounding upon the virtues of socialism and democracy, and the like.

But I had more time to burn back then. Most of the OP was written several months ago. I have a backlog of incomplete material, some of which will probably just stay buried, but this one looked like it wasn't like anything currently lively and would be a worthwhile subject for folks to discuss, especially with the latest bits of raging about Dawkins and the subject. It seems to be destined to get hashed out until enough people figure out that it's a bad way to argue.

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Postby Frisivisia » Wed May 29, 2013 7:24 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:
Frisivisia wrote:Gender roles are harmful to us all.


I agree. So why the focus on women?

Because they've been subjected to some of the worst of it. They've only recently gotten into many of the areas of society previously closed off to them. It's like asking why the Freedman's Bureau focused mostly on black people.
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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 7:25 am

Frisivisia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:
I agree. So why the focus on women?

Because they've been subjected to some of the worst of it. They've only recently gotten into many of the areas of society previously closed off to them. It's like asking why the Freedman's Bureau focused mostly on black people.


And why is it you would probably find it completely absurd if I said "You are only opposed to paper-abortions because of female privelege."
Or if I said, the only reason you are opposed to harsher prison sentences being mandated for women in order to balance out the fact they are currently let off at higher rates is because of female privelege.

You admit females also have privileges, so why is one absurd and the other is not? (Trick question, both are completely absurd.)


We need to mandate that women are given higher wages to combat them getting less wages than men. If you oppose this, it is because of male privilege. - Totally fine.
We need to mandate that women are given higher prison sentences to combat them getting lower prison sentences than men for the same crimes, if you oppose this it is because of female privilege. - Somehow not fine (The reverse could also be advocated and still be gender equalizing. Personally i'd prefer lower sentences for men to balance it out.)
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Postby Frisivisia » Wed May 29, 2013 7:28 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:
Frisivisia wrote:Because they've been subjected to some of the worst of it. They've only recently gotten into many of the areas of society previously closed off to them. It's like asking why the Freedman's Bureau focused mostly on black people.


And why is it you would probably find it completely absurd if I said "You are only opposed to paper-abortions because of female privelege."
Or if I said, the only reason you are opposed to harsher prison sentences being mandated for women in order to balance out the fact they are currently let off at higher rates is because of female privelege.

You admit females also have privileges, so why is one absurd and the other is not? (Trick question, both are completely absurd.)

I never said there weren't issues. Why are you insisting that I don't think there are areas in which females are treated better? Could it possibly be because that's your only line of argument?
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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 7:29 am

Frisivisia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:
And why is it you would probably find it completely absurd if I said "You are only opposed to paper-abortions because of female privelege."
Or if I said, the only reason you are opposed to harsher prison sentences being mandated for women in order to balance out the fact they are currently let off at higher rates is because of female privelege.

You admit females also have privileges, so why is one absurd and the other is not? (Trick question, both are completely absurd.)

I never said there weren't issues. Why are you insisting that I don't think there are areas in which females are treated better? Could it possibly be because that's your only line of argument?


So would you accept female privelege as a line of argument why we shouldn't pay attention to poster? And/Or dismiss their argument?
If not, would you accept male privelege?
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Postby Tahar Joblis » Wed May 29, 2013 7:30 am

Tahar Joblis wrote:
Frisivisia wrote:Tahar, don't you think you're a bit one-dimensional? All you do is post about "LOLOL MENZ RITEZ" and get angry at feminists.

I sometimes miss the days when my NS foruming had more variety - RPing world wars and various acts of ecoterrorism, attacking Nazis, Republicans, and anarcho-capitalists, expounding upon the virtues of socialism and democracy, and the like.

But I had more time to burn back then. Most of the OP was written several months ago. I have a backlog of incomplete material, some of which will probably just stay buried, but this one looked like it wasn't like anything currently lively and would be a worthwhile subject for folks to discuss, especially with the latest bits of raging about Dawkins and the subject. It seems to be destined to get hashed out until enough people figure out that it's a bad way to argue.

Also, TBH, this has as much to do with the discussion of race as it does the discussion of feminism.

It's a lot more tempting for me, personally, to deploy this type of argument myself when I'm talking about race, and as I noted in the OP, the sloppy logic of PrivilegeTM is a closer approximation to reality when talking about black and white in the US; but I've seen how it tends to be very unhelpful in talking about race and racism. Same set of responses, pretty much.

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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 8:00 am

Male privilege. (Female versions added by me to point out how fucking stupid their argument is.)
http://sap.mit.edu/content/pdf/male_privilege.pdf

Second result for "male privilege" which lists off exactly what male privilege entails.

1m. My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants,
are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the
odds are skewed.
1f. My odds of receiving a prison sentence comparable to a man's is skewed in my favor. The higher the sentence, the more the odds are skewed.

2m. If I fail in my job or career, I can feel sure this won’t be seen as a black mark
against my entire sex’s capabilities.
2f. If I fail in my job or career, I can claim it was due to sexism and be taken seriously even if i'm completely incompetent.

3m. I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female coworkers are.
3f. I am far less likely to face violence or injury or death at work than my male coworkers.

4m. If I do the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective,
chances are people will think I did a better job.
4f. If I do the same task as a man, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think I did a better job.
(Note: This ENTIRELY depends on the task assigned. An example would be childraising.)

5m. If I choose not to have children, my masculinity will not be called into question.
5f. If I choose not to like sports, my femininity will not be called into question.

6m. If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at
home.
6f. If I have children and a career, no one will think i'm strange for staying at home.

7m. My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more
prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.
7f. I can run for office in many areas and be assured of a place due to gender quota's even if I am an inferior candidate.

8m. When I ask to see “the person in charge,” odds are I will face a person of my
own sex. The higher-up in the organization the person is, the surer I can be.
8f. This is simply a restated version of the politics one.

9m. As a child, chances are I was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than
my sisters.
9f. As a child, chances are the education system did not fail me.

10m. As a child, chances are I got more teacher attention than girls who raised
their hands just as often.
10f. As a child, chances are I got more attention than males who were subject to violence.


11m. If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.
11f. If I'm violent it won't be attributed to my sex.

12m. If I’m careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to my sex.
12f. If I'm careless with my parenting it won't be attributed to my sex.

13m. Even if I sleep with a lot of women, there is no chance that I will be seriously
labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13f. Even if I choose not to sleep with men, there is no chance I will be seriously labeled a homosexual, nor will my femininity be called into question.

14m. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my
sexual availability or my gender conformity.
14f. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my masculinity or my worth as a human.

15m. My clothing is typically less expensive and better-constructed than women’s
clothing for the same social status. While I have fewer options, my clothes will
probably fit better than a woman’s without tailoring.
15f. My clothing is typically more expressive and more varied than men's clothing for the same social status. While they have less durability, my clothes will probably attract more attention than a man's without tailoring.

16m. The grooming regimen expected of me is relatively cheap and consumes little
time.
16f. I am allowed to groom myself and not be considered odd or strange, nor will my masculinity be called into question.

17m. If I’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and
easy to ignore.
17f. If I'm not conventionally attractive, it is unlikely that this will present a serious roadblock to finding a partner of the opposite sex.

18m. I can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. I can be aggressive with
no fear of being called a bitch.
18f. I can be aggressive with no fear of being called violent. I can be loud with no fear of people assuming violent intention.

19m. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will
always include my sex. “All men are created equal,” mailman, chairman,
freshman, etc.
19f. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will not place responsibilities on me.

20m. My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never
be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
20f. My ability to express emotions will never be curtailed dependent on my genitals.

21m. I will never be expected to change my name upon marriage or questioned if I
don’t change my name.
21f. I will never be expected to propose marriage.

22m. The decision to hire me will never be based on assumptions about whether or
not I might choose to have a family sometime soon.
22f. The decision to hire me may be based on a need to fulfill government quotas, even if I am a less capable candidate.

23m. If I have a wife or live-in girlfriend, chances are we’ll divide up household
chores so that she does most of the labor, and in particular the most repetitive
and unrewarding tasks. (bullshit.)
23f. If I have a husband or live-in-boyfriend, chances are if we divorce I will leave the relationship with alemony payments and a biased court system will likely ensure custody should I request it.

24m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, chances are she’ll do most of the
childrearing, and in particular the most dirty, repetitive and unrewarding parts of
childrearing.
24f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, chances are I will be allowed to do most of the childrearing without discrimination.

25m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of us needs
to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are we’ll both assume the
career sacrificed should be hers.
25f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, I will receive longer maternity leave even if it is agreed he should be the one to stay at home. (In many countries.)

26m. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of
media are filled with images of scantily-clad women intended to appeal to me
sexually. Such images of men exist, but are rarer.
26f. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of media are filled with images of my gender. I am likely to be able to build a career off merely being attractive. Such careers exist for men, but are rarer.

27m. In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female
counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic
consequences for being fat than fat women do.
27f. In general, I am under much less pressure to obtain money than my male counterparts are. If I am poor, I probably suffer fewer social, romantic, and economic consequences for being poor than poor males do.

28m. On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are
interrupted by men.
28f. On average, I am not interrupted by men as often as men are interrupted by women. (Yes, this is true also. Good job for being complete fuckups mit.edu.)

29m. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege. <- Bullshit.
29f. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.


30f. Rape against my gender is not considered acceptable humor by most media outlets.

31f. If I suffer domestic violence, I will not be demeaned or ignored by society.

32f. If I commit domestic violence, I am unlikely to be prosecuted.

33f. My gender politics will never be dismissed based purely on my gender.

34f. My gender currently dominates the gender equality discussion.
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Postby Ifreann » Wed May 29, 2013 8:19 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:Male privilege. (Female versions added by me to point out how fucking stupid their argument is.)
http://sap.mit.edu/content/pdf/male_privilege.pdf

Second result for "male privilege" which lists off exactly what male privilege entails.

1m. My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants,
are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the
odds are skewed.
1f. My odds of receiving a prison sentence comparable to a man's is skewed in my favor. The higher the sentence, the more the odds are skewed.

2m. If I fail in my job or career, I can feel sure this won’t be seen as a black mark
against my entire sex’s capabilities.
2f. If I fail in my job or career, I can claim it was due to sexism and be taken seriously even if i'm completely incompetent.

3m. I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female coworkers are.
3f. I am far less likely to face violence or injury or death at work than my male coworkers.

4m. If I do the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective,
chances are people will think I did a better job.
4f. If I do the same task as a man, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think I did a better job.
(Note: This ENTIRELY depends on the task assigned. An example would be childraising.)

5m. If I choose not to have children, my masculinity will not be called into question.
5f. If I choose not to like sports, my femininity will not be called into question.

6m. If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at
home.
6f. If I have children and a career, no one will think i'm strange for staying at home.

7m. My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more
prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.
7f. I can run for office in many areas and be assured of a place due to gender quota's even if I am an inferior candidate.

8m. When I ask to see “the person in charge,” odds are I will face a person of my
own sex. The higher-up in the organization the person is, the surer I can be.
8f. This is simply a restated version of the politics one.

9m. As a child, chances are I was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than
my sisters.
9f. As a child, chances are the education system did not fail me.

10m. As a child, chances are I got more teacher attention than girls who raised
their hands just as often.
10f. As a child, chances are I got more attention than males who were subject to violence.


11m. If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.
11f. If I'm violent it won't be attributed to my sex.

12m. If I’m careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to my sex.
12f. If I'm careless with my parenting it won't be attributed to my sex.

13m. Even if I sleep with a lot of women, there is no chance that I will be seriously
labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13f. Even if I choose not to sleep with men, there is no chance I will be seriously labeled a homosexual, nor will my femininity be called into question.

14m. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my
sexual availability or my gender conformity.
14f. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my masculinity or my worth as a human.

15m. My clothing is typically less expensive and better-constructed than women’s
clothing for the same social status. While I have fewer options, my clothes will
probably fit better than a woman’s without tailoring.
15f. My clothing is typically more expressive and more varied than men's clothing for the same social status. While they have less durability, my clothes will probably attract more attention than a man's without tailoring.

16m. The grooming regimen expected of me is relatively cheap and consumes little
time.
16f. I am allowed to groom myself and not be considered odd or strange, nor will my masculinity be called into question.

17m. If I’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and
easy to ignore.
17f. If I'm not conventionally attractive, it is unlikely that this will present a serious roadblock to finding a partner of the opposite sex.

18m. I can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. I can be aggressive with
no fear of being called a bitch.
18f. I can be aggressive with no fear of being called violent. I can be loud with no fear of people assuming violent intention.

19m. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will
always include my sex. “All men are created equal,” mailman, chairman,
freshman, etc.
19f. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will not place responsibilities on me.

20m. My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never
be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
20f. My ability to express emotions will never be curtailed dependent on my genitals.

21m. I will never be expected to change my name upon marriage or questioned if I
don’t change my name.
21f. I will never be expected to propose marriage.

22m. The decision to hire me will never be based on assumptions about whether or
not I might choose to have a family sometime soon.
22f. The decision to hire me may be based on a need to fulfill government quotas, even if I am a less capable candidate.

23m. If I have a wife or live-in girlfriend, chances are we’ll divide up household
chores so that she does most of the labor, and in particular the most repetitive
and unrewarding tasks. (bullshit.)
23f. If I have a husband or live-in-boyfriend, chances are if we divorce I will leave the relationship with alemony payments and a biased court system will likely ensure custody should I request it.

24m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, chances are she’ll do most of the
childrearing, and in particular the most dirty, repetitive and unrewarding parts of
childrearing.
24f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, chances are I will be allowed to do most of the childrearing without discrimination.

25m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of us needs
to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are we’ll both assume the
career sacrificed should be hers.
25f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, I will receive longer maternity leave even if it is agreed he should be the one to stay at home. (In many countries.)

26m. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of
media are filled with images of scantily-clad women intended to appeal to me
sexually. Such images of men exist, but are rarer.
26f. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of media are filled with images of my gender. I am likely to be able to build a career off merely being attractive. Such careers exist for men, but are rarer.

27m. In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female
counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic
consequences for being fat than fat women do.
27f. In general, I am under much less pressure to obtain money than my male counterparts are. If I am poor, I probably suffer fewer social, romantic, and economic consequences for being poor than poor males do.

28m. On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are
interrupted by men.
28f. On average, I am not interrupted by men as often as men are interrupted by women. (Yes, this is true also. Good job for being complete fuckups mit.edu.)

29m. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege. <- Bullshit.
29f. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.


30f. Rape against my gender is not considered acceptable humor by most media outlets.

31f. If I suffer domestic violence, I will not be demeaned or ignored by society.

32f. If I commit domestic violence, I am unlikely to be prosecuted.

33f. My gender politics will never be dismissed based purely on my gender.

34f. My gender currently dominates the gender equality discussion.

Sexism hurts everyone, you say? Fascinating.

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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 8:20 am

Ifreann wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:Male privilege. (Female versions added by me to point out how fucking stupid their argument is.)
http://sap.mit.edu/content/pdf/male_privilege.pdf

Second result for "male privilege" which lists off exactly what male privilege entails.

1m. My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants,
are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the
odds are skewed.
1f. My odds of receiving a prison sentence comparable to a man's is skewed in my favor. The higher the sentence, the more the odds are skewed.

2m. If I fail in my job or career, I can feel sure this won’t be seen as a black mark
against my entire sex’s capabilities.
2f. If I fail in my job or career, I can claim it was due to sexism and be taken seriously even if i'm completely incompetent.

3m. I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female coworkers are.
3f. I am far less likely to face violence or injury or death at work than my male coworkers.

4m. If I do the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective,
chances are people will think I did a better job.
4f. If I do the same task as a man, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think I did a better job.
(Note: This ENTIRELY depends on the task assigned. An example would be childraising.)

5m. If I choose not to have children, my masculinity will not be called into question.
5f. If I choose not to like sports, my femininity will not be called into question.

6m. If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at
home.
6f. If I have children and a career, no one will think i'm strange for staying at home.

7m. My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more
prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.
7f. I can run for office in many areas and be assured of a place due to gender quota's even if I am an inferior candidate.

8m. When I ask to see “the person in charge,” odds are I will face a person of my
own sex. The higher-up in the organization the person is, the surer I can be.
8f. This is simply a restated version of the politics one.

9m. As a child, chances are I was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than
my sisters.
9f. As a child, chances are the education system did not fail me.

10m. As a child, chances are I got more teacher attention than girls who raised
their hands just as often.
10f. As a child, chances are I got more attention than males who were subject to violence.


11m. If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.
11f. If I'm violent it won't be attributed to my sex.

12m. If I’m careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to my sex.
12f. If I'm careless with my parenting it won't be attributed to my sex.

13m. Even if I sleep with a lot of women, there is no chance that I will be seriously
labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13f. Even if I choose not to sleep with men, there is no chance I will be seriously labeled a homosexual, nor will my femininity be called into question.

14m. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my
sexual availability or my gender conformity.
14f. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my masculinity or my worth as a human.

15m. My clothing is typically less expensive and better-constructed than women’s
clothing for the same social status. While I have fewer options, my clothes will
probably fit better than a woman’s without tailoring.
15f. My clothing is typically more expressive and more varied than men's clothing for the same social status. While they have less durability, my clothes will probably attract more attention than a man's without tailoring.

16m. The grooming regimen expected of me is relatively cheap and consumes little
time.
16f. I am allowed to groom myself and not be considered odd or strange, nor will my masculinity be called into question.

17m. If I’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and
easy to ignore.
17f. If I'm not conventionally attractive, it is unlikely that this will present a serious roadblock to finding a partner of the opposite sex.

18m. I can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. I can be aggressive with
no fear of being called a bitch.
18f. I can be aggressive with no fear of being called violent. I can be loud with no fear of people assuming violent intention.

19m. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will
always include my sex. “All men are created equal,” mailman, chairman,
freshman, etc.
19f. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will not place responsibilities on me.

20m. My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never
be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
20f. My ability to express emotions will never be curtailed dependent on my genitals.

21m. I will never be expected to change my name upon marriage or questioned if I
don’t change my name.
21f. I will never be expected to propose marriage.

22m. The decision to hire me will never be based on assumptions about whether or
not I might choose to have a family sometime soon.
22f. The decision to hire me may be based on a need to fulfill government quotas, even if I am a less capable candidate.

23m. If I have a wife or live-in girlfriend, chances are we’ll divide up household
chores so that she does most of the labor, and in particular the most repetitive
and unrewarding tasks. (bullshit.)
23f. If I have a husband or live-in-boyfriend, chances are if we divorce I will leave the relationship with alemony payments and a biased court system will likely ensure custody should I request it.

24m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, chances are she’ll do most of the
childrearing, and in particular the most dirty, repetitive and unrewarding parts of
childrearing.
24f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, chances are I will be allowed to do most of the childrearing without discrimination.

25m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of us needs
to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are we’ll both assume the
career sacrificed should be hers.
25f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, I will receive longer maternity leave even if it is agreed he should be the one to stay at home. (In many countries.)

26m. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of
media are filled with images of scantily-clad women intended to appeal to me
sexually. Such images of men exist, but are rarer.
26f. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of media are filled with images of my gender. I am likely to be able to build a career off merely being attractive. Such careers exist for men, but are rarer.

27m. In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female
counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic
consequences for being fat than fat women do.
27f. In general, I am under much less pressure to obtain money than my male counterparts are. If I am poor, I probably suffer fewer social, romantic, and economic consequences for being poor than poor males do.

28m. On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are
interrupted by men.
28f. On average, I am not interrupted by men as often as men are interrupted by women. (Yes, this is true also. Good job for being complete fuckups mit.edu.)

29m. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege. <- Bullshit.
29f. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.


30f. Rape against my gender is not considered acceptable humor by most media outlets.

31f. If I suffer domestic violence, I will not be demeaned or ignored by society.

32f. If I commit domestic violence, I am unlikely to be prosecuted.

33f. My gender politics will never be dismissed based purely on my gender.

34f. My gender currently dominates the gender equality discussion.

Sexism hurts everyone, you say? Fascinating.


Pretty much. But apparently males cannot suffer from sexism so never mind.
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There is an out of control trolley speeding towards Jeremy Bentham, who is tied to the track. You can pull the lever to cause the trolley to switch tracks, but on the other track is Immanuel Kant. Bentham is clutching the only copy in the universe of The Critique of Pure Reason. Kant is clutching the only copy in the universe of The Principles of Moral Legislation. Both men are shouting at you that they have recently started to reconsider their ethical stances.

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Postby The Steel Magnolia » Wed May 29, 2013 9:51 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:When you have feminists who are anti-sex telling people who aren't black transsexual women
"You are just afraid of losing your privilege, that's why you disagree with us." as essentially the entire substance of their argument, and then you have pro-sex feminists, some of whom actually are black transsexual women, making the same arguments we do that get ignored entirely, you can see why the "It's privilege." thing is just completely fucking ridiculous.

Especially when it goes both ways. Pro-Sex feminists also use the privelege argument, and anti-sex feminists make the same arguments we do sometimes.


Actually anti-sex feminists are usually the most, heh, privileged of the lot.

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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 9:53 am

The Steel Magnolia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:When you have feminists who are anti-sex telling people who aren't black transsexual women
"You are just afraid of losing your privilege, that's why you disagree with us." as essentially the entire substance of their argument, and then you have pro-sex feminists, some of whom actually are black transsexual women, making the same arguments we do that get ignored entirely, you can see why the "It's privilege." thing is just completely fucking ridiculous.

Especially when it goes both ways. Pro-Sex feminists also use the privelege argument, and anti-sex feminists make the same arguments we do sometimes.


Actually anti-sex feminists are usually the most, heh, privileged of the lot.


thanks for totally and completely proving my point.
They say the same shit about you. Now why the fuck should we take either of you seriously when your arguments can be used to justify or disprove any position anyone holds if you accept the argument as valid?

You say they are privileged. You say I'm privileged. You say anyone who disagrees with you and isn't a very specific subset of people is privileged. They say the same thing. And you say this in such a way as to dismiss their arguments.
So which of you is right? Hint: It's got nothing to do with which of you is more privileged. It's to do with their argument and it's structure, shocking stuff I know.

I've seen you throw around the "male privilege" thing as though it wins you arguments. I've seen them do the same thing, and when you argue with eachother you both do it. So what the fuck? Why bother when all it does is demonstrate you are blaming someones gender for their politics? Something that is so mindbogglingly sexist i'm surprised your head doesn't explode from hypocrisy every time you do it.
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There is an out of control trolley speeding towards Jeremy Bentham, who is tied to the track. You can pull the lever to cause the trolley to switch tracks, but on the other track is Immanuel Kant. Bentham is clutching the only copy in the universe of The Critique of Pure Reason. Kant is clutching the only copy in the universe of The Principles of Moral Legislation. Both men are shouting at you that they have recently started to reconsider their ethical stances.

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Postby The Steel Magnolia » Wed May 29, 2013 9:57 am

Ostroeuropa wrote:Male privilege. (Female versions added by me to point out how fucking stupid their argument is.)
http://sap.mit.edu/content/pdf/male_privilege.pdf

Second result for "male privilege" which lists off exactly what male privilege entails.

1m. My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants,
are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the
odds are skewed.
1f. My odds of receiving a prison sentence comparable to a man's is skewed in my favor. The higher the sentence, the more the odds are skewed.

2m. If I fail in my job or career, I can feel sure this won’t be seen as a black mark
against my entire sex’s capabilities.
2f. If I fail in my job or career, I can claim it was due to sexism and be taken seriously even if i'm completely incompetent.

3m. I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female coworkers are.
3f. I am far less likely to face violence or injury or death at work than my male coworkers.

4m. If I do the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective,
chances are people will think I did a better job.
4f. If I do the same task as a man, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think I did a better job.
(Note: This ENTIRELY depends on the task assigned. An example would be childraising.)

5m. If I choose not to have children, my masculinity will not be called into question.
5f. If I choose not to like sports, my femininity will not be called into question.

6m. If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at
home.
6f. If I have children and a career, no one will think i'm strange for staying at home.

7m. My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more
prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.
7f. I can run for office in many areas and be assured of a place due to gender quota's even if I am an inferior candidate.

8m. When I ask to see “the person in charge,” odds are I will face a person of my
own sex. The higher-up in the organization the person is, the surer I can be.
8f. This is simply a restated version of the politics one.

9m. As a child, chances are I was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than
my sisters.
9f. As a child, chances are the education system did not fail me.

10m. As a child, chances are I got more teacher attention than girls who raised
their hands just as often.
10f. As a child, chances are I got more attention than males who were subject to violence.


11m. If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.
11f. If I'm violent it won't be attributed to my sex.

12m. If I’m careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to my sex.
12f. If I'm careless with my parenting it won't be attributed to my sex.

13m. Even if I sleep with a lot of women, there is no chance that I will be seriously
labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13f. Even if I choose not to sleep with men, there is no chance I will be seriously labeled a homosexual, nor will my femininity be called into question.

14m. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my
sexual availability or my gender conformity.
14f. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my masculinity or my worth as a human.

15m. My clothing is typically less expensive and better-constructed than women’s
clothing for the same social status. While I have fewer options, my clothes will
probably fit better than a woman’s without tailoring.
15f. My clothing is typically more expressive and more varied than men's clothing for the same social status. While they have less durability, my clothes will probably attract more attention than a man's without tailoring.

16m. The grooming regimen expected of me is relatively cheap and consumes little
time.
16f. I am allowed to groom myself and not be considered odd or strange, nor will my masculinity be called into question.

17m. If I’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and
easy to ignore.
17f. If I'm not conventionally attractive, it is unlikely that this will present a serious roadblock to finding a partner of the opposite sex.

18m. I can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. I can be aggressive with
no fear of being called a bitch.
18f. I can be aggressive with no fear of being called violent. I can be loud with no fear of people assuming violent intention.

19m. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will
always include my sex. “All men are created equal,” mailman, chairman,
freshman, etc.
19f. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will not place responsibilities on me.

20m. My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never
be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
20f. My ability to express emotions will never be curtailed dependent on my genitals.

21m. I will never be expected to change my name upon marriage or questioned if I
don’t change my name.
21f. I will never be expected to propose marriage.

22m. The decision to hire me will never be based on assumptions about whether or
not I might choose to have a family sometime soon.
22f. The decision to hire me may be based on a need to fulfill government quotas, even if I am a less capable candidate.

23m. If I have a wife or live-in girlfriend, chances are we’ll divide up household
chores so that she does most of the labor, and in particular the most repetitive
and unrewarding tasks. (bullshit.)
23f. If I have a husband or live-in-boyfriend, chances are if we divorce I will leave the relationship with alemony payments and a biased court system will likely ensure custody should I request it.

24m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, chances are she’ll do most of the
childrearing, and in particular the most dirty, repetitive and unrewarding parts of
childrearing.
24f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, chances are I will be allowed to do most of the childrearing without discrimination.

25m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of us needs
to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are we’ll both assume the
career sacrificed should be hers.
25f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, I will receive longer maternity leave even if it is agreed he should be the one to stay at home. (In many countries.)

26m. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of
media are filled with images of scantily-clad women intended to appeal to me
sexually. Such images of men exist, but are rarer.
26f. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of media are filled with images of my gender. I am likely to be able to build a career off merely being attractive. Such careers exist for men, but are rarer.

27m. In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female
counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic
consequences for being fat than fat women do.
27f. In general, I am under much less pressure to obtain money than my male counterparts are. If I am poor, I probably suffer fewer social, romantic, and economic consequences for being poor than poor males do.

28m. On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are
interrupted by men.
28f. On average, I am not interrupted by men as often as men are interrupted by women. (Yes, this is true also. Good job for being complete fuckups mit.edu.)

29m. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege. <- Bullshit.
29f. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.


30f. Rape against my gender is not considered acceptable humor by most media outlets.

31f. If I suffer domestic violence, I will not be demeaned or ignored by society.

32f. If I commit domestic violence, I am unlikely to be prosecuted.

33f. My gender politics will never be dismissed based purely on my gender.

34f. My gender currently dominates the gender equality discussion.


Ahahah you crack me up.

Glad you're being obvious about your lies though! First page too!

Should I get you flowers? Or maybe a cake!

But wait those are gifts traditionally given to women and we obviously can't have men being feminine or acting womanly so I suppose that's out of the question.


It seriously baffles me how you persistently and deliberately fail to dig any deeper into your sets of preconceived notions that you love trumpeting every chance you get, like bitching about feminism somehow makes you 'enlightened' or 'smarter' than the rest.

There are legitimate issues to raise against feminism. Transphobia, racism, classism. Those are all really powerful arguments that the feminist movement struggles with.

Crying "But what about the poor men!" at every opportunity is just a deliberate distraction, like the bum who complains of chest pain at a crash site when all he has is bruised ribs. He takes valuable time and effort away from the people who need help more, and in doing so consigns many others to death.

I don't believe we need to focus more energy on the bum.

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Postby Ostroeuropa » Wed May 29, 2013 9:58 am

The Steel Magnolia wrote:
Ostroeuropa wrote:Male privilege. (Female versions added by me to point out how fucking stupid their argument is.)
http://sap.mit.edu/content/pdf/male_privilege.pdf

Second result for "male privilege" which lists off exactly what male privilege entails.

1m. My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants,
are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the
odds are skewed.
1f. My odds of receiving a prison sentence comparable to a man's is skewed in my favor. The higher the sentence, the more the odds are skewed.

2m. If I fail in my job or career, I can feel sure this won’t be seen as a black mark
against my entire sex’s capabilities.
2f. If I fail in my job or career, I can claim it was due to sexism and be taken seriously even if i'm completely incompetent.

3m. I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female coworkers are.
3f. I am far less likely to face violence or injury or death at work than my male coworkers.

4m. If I do the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective,
chances are people will think I did a better job.
4f. If I do the same task as a man, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think I did a better job.
(Note: This ENTIRELY depends on the task assigned. An example would be childraising.)

5m. If I choose not to have children, my masculinity will not be called into question.
5f. If I choose not to like sports, my femininity will not be called into question.

6m. If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at
home.
6f. If I have children and a career, no one will think i'm strange for staying at home.

7m. My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more
prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.
7f. I can run for office in many areas and be assured of a place due to gender quota's even if I am an inferior candidate.

8m. When I ask to see “the person in charge,” odds are I will face a person of my
own sex. The higher-up in the organization the person is, the surer I can be.
8f. This is simply a restated version of the politics one.

9m. As a child, chances are I was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than
my sisters.
9f. As a child, chances are the education system did not fail me.

10m. As a child, chances are I got more teacher attention than girls who raised
their hands just as often.
10f. As a child, chances are I got more attention than males who were subject to violence.


11m. If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.
11f. If I'm violent it won't be attributed to my sex.

12m. If I’m careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to my sex.
12f. If I'm careless with my parenting it won't be attributed to my sex.

13m. Even if I sleep with a lot of women, there is no chance that I will be seriously
labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13f. Even if I choose not to sleep with men, there is no chance I will be seriously labeled a homosexual, nor will my femininity be called into question.

14m. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my
sexual availability or my gender conformity.
14f. I do not have to worry about the message my wardrobe sends about my masculinity or my worth as a human.

15m. My clothing is typically less expensive and better-constructed than women’s
clothing for the same social status. While I have fewer options, my clothes will
probably fit better than a woman’s without tailoring.
15f. My clothing is typically more expressive and more varied than men's clothing for the same social status. While they have less durability, my clothes will probably attract more attention than a man's without tailoring.

16m. The grooming regimen expected of me is relatively cheap and consumes little
time.
16f. I am allowed to groom myself and not be considered odd or strange, nor will my masculinity be called into question.

17m. If I’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and
easy to ignore.
17f. If I'm not conventionally attractive, it is unlikely that this will present a serious roadblock to finding a partner of the opposite sex.

18m. I can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. I can be aggressive with
no fear of being called a bitch.
18f. I can be aggressive with no fear of being called violent. I can be loud with no fear of people assuming violent intention.

19m. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will
always include my sex. “All men are created equal,” mailman, chairman,
freshman, etc.
19f. I can be confident that the ordinary language of day-to-day existence will not place responsibilities on me.

20m. My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never
be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
20f. My ability to express emotions will never be curtailed dependent on my genitals.

21m. I will never be expected to change my name upon marriage or questioned if I
don’t change my name.
21f. I will never be expected to propose marriage.

22m. The decision to hire me will never be based on assumptions about whether or
not I might choose to have a family sometime soon.
22f. The decision to hire me may be based on a need to fulfill government quotas, even if I am a less capable candidate.

23m. If I have a wife or live-in girlfriend, chances are we’ll divide up household
chores so that she does most of the labor, and in particular the most repetitive
and unrewarding tasks. (bullshit.)
23f. If I have a husband or live-in-boyfriend, chances are if we divorce I will leave the relationship with alemony payments and a biased court system will likely ensure custody should I request it.

24m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, chances are she’ll do most of the
childrearing, and in particular the most dirty, repetitive and unrewarding parts of
childrearing.
24f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, chances are I will be allowed to do most of the childrearing without discrimination.

25m. If I have children with a wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of us needs
to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are we’ll both assume the
career sacrificed should be hers.
25f. If I have children with a husband or boyfriend, I will receive longer maternity leave even if it is agreed he should be the one to stay at home. (In many countries.)

26m. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of
media are filled with images of scantily-clad women intended to appeal to me
sexually. Such images of men exist, but are rarer.
26f. Magazines, billboards, television, movies, pornography, and virtually all of media are filled with images of my gender. I am likely to be able to build a career off merely being attractive. Such careers exist for men, but are rarer.

27m. In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female
counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic
consequences for being fat than fat women do.
27f. In general, I am under much less pressure to obtain money than my male counterparts are. If I am poor, I probably suffer fewer social, romantic, and economic consequences for being poor than poor males do.

28m. On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are
interrupted by men.
28f. On average, I am not interrupted by men as often as men are interrupted by women. (Yes, this is true also. Good job for being complete fuckups mit.edu.)

29m. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege. <- Bullshit.
29f. I have the privilege of being unaware of my privilege.


30f. Rape against my gender is not considered acceptable humor by most media outlets.

31f. If I suffer domestic violence, I will not be demeaned or ignored by society.

32f. If I commit domestic violence, I am unlikely to be prosecuted.

33f. My gender politics will never be dismissed based purely on my gender.

34f. My gender currently dominates the gender equality discussion.


Ahahah you crack me up.

Glad you're being obvious about your lies though! First page too!

Should I get you flowers? Or maybe a cake!

But wait those are gifts traditionally given to women and we obviously can't have men being feminine or acting womanly so I suppose that's out of the question.


It seriously baffles me how you persistently and deliberately fail to dig any deeper into your sets of preconceived notions that you love trumpeting every chance you get, like bitching about feminism somehow makes you 'enlightened' or 'smarter' than the rest.

There are legitimate issues to raise against feminism. Transphobia, racism, classism. Those are all really powerful arguments that the feminist movement struggles with.

Crying "But what about the poor men!" at every opportunity is just a deliberate distraction, like the bum who complains of chest pain at a crash site when all he has is bruised ribs. He takes valuable time and effort away from the people who need help more, and in doing so consigns many others to death.

I don't believe we need to focus more energy on the bum.


And why should the problems men be disregarded?
Also, this section seems like projecting.

It seriously baffles me how you persistently and deliberately fail to dig any deeper into your sets of preconceived notions that you love trumpeting every chance you get,


I'm glad you use the bum analogy. Do you think men dying and suffering violence at much higher rates in the work place is more important than the pay gap?
Then why the fuck do you never shut up about your broken ribs and instead advocate for men?
Maybe when people have stopped dying at work at such disproportionate rates, we can look at the broken ribs.
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