What's so bad about men not being sex crazed?

[Samuraikoku]

Dont call him "narrow" just because his view isn't mainstream for his age group. You should respect people's 1st ammendment right to worhsip.

"Excuse me?... First Amendment?

Son, the First Amendment protects you from the government... not from me."

- Trace Adkins

[Democratic Koyro]

If you look hard enough, there's a word for every fetish on the planet. If it exists, there's a fetish for it.

I wonder what the word for our atomic shenanigans would be?

Fusionophilia?

sounds awesome.

[The Emerald Dawn]

I wonder what the word for our atomic shenanigans would be?

Fusionophilia?

sounds awesome.

Spermshroom clouds.

[Neutraligon]

For those of you who were asking earlier in this thread, all those accusations made against me while I was in high school. I'm in college now, and whenever someone asks me if I ever has a girlfriend or sex, I simply say no. And I don't get accused of dumbshit anymore.

Also unlike what one user said, I am not frustrated for not having recent sex. I have methods of lowering my libido that I stated earlier.
I have dated women before but don't have any intent on having sex before marriage. I don't plan on getting married until a few years, but right now I still practice on dating women and simply talking to them.


Once a guy asked me if I was gay.

"No, why?' I said

"Because I never seen you put your hands on a girl, you need to come out of the closet."

This happened in my senior year, and the guy was younger than me.

I must admit a lot of the methods you used seem to be pretty self-detrimental, but whatever floats your boat. Why would you take what some idiot highschooler who has no idea what being gay means seriously? Seems pretty useless to me.

[Agymnum]

Dont call him "narrow" just because his view isn't mainstream for his age group. You should respect people's 1st ammendment right to worhsip.

There's a 1st Amendment right to freedom of speech as well. How come we don't ever respect that?

People always cite the 1st Amendment as an excuse to say bullshit or do bullshit, but they always forget that the law works both ways and we're entitled to criticize what people say and do under Freedom of Speech.

[Umbra Ac Silentium]

Dont call him "narrow" just because his view isn't mainstream for his age group. You should respect people's 1st ammendment right to worhsip.

There's a 1st Amendment right to freedom of speech as well. How come we don't ever respect that?

People always cite the 1st Amendment as an excuse to say bullshit or do bullshit, but they always forget that the law works both ways and we're entitled to criticize what people say and do under Freedom of Speech.

;n; b-bu-b-but freedom of speech means my ideas are free from the reproach I haphazardly give my opponents.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I have the ability to attract, apparently. My very, very few trips to clubs, which i ahve since stopped attending. I just have absolutely no desire to have sex with any of those people. Why would I? I don't know them. I have no idea what they are like, what kind of person they are, etc.

Although if people enjoy it who am i to complain? Live and let live. I'd just prefer to settle down with one person. Personal preference, and all that.

That's the thing; If that is your choice, good on you. You know what you want, what you find attractive, what you find desirable, and you run with it.

That's good stuff.

But not everyone will feel that way, and not everyone should feel that way. Diversity of opinions, and diversity of sexual exploits, creates an idealized society. The stable, monogamous relationships help in society just as much as the unstable, polyamorous relationships help.

But the judgement stated in your original post shows that you're not yet willing to accept the polyamorous side of society, and underscores the need for further education regarding the benefits.

Well, in his defense though, people who like to fuck as you put it also makes people like Koyro and I feel bad.

I am also a guy who would rather wait for that one person in my life who I can have a good, meaningful relationship with before engaging in sex. But somehow people who like to fuck are so up in their fucking pants they tell me "you should just get laid! You are not a child anymore, blah blah blah" which totally seems to undermine the point: that I do not have to give a fuck about your opinions on the matter nor should you try to change the way I feel about my own sexuality.

I accept the polyamorous side of people when it comes to sexuality, if they want to have multiple partners that's good. But people seem to think that just because I am a virgin by mere choice means that I feel somehow entitled to be more moral than they are. Truth is I am not, nor am I really concerned about other people's sexual life. I have friends who fuck guys or girls once per day, does that mean I think less of them? No, but somehow people who engage in it have no problem telling us people who like to be monogamous how to fucking live our lives and it's annoying having to justify your morals to someone who thinks just the opposite.

Freedom to choose goes both ways. If I want to act manly, if I believe in a God or not, if I like guys or girls, if I find womanly women hot that's my prerogative, as much as yours to define your sexuality and morals, and I don't see an issue with personal choice, it is only when others try to indoctrinate people about what to believe or how to act based on a subjective perception of morality (because morality is, after all, extremely subjective) when I have an issue, regardless of whether you are a polyamorous homosexual or a monogamous religious person.

[Hathradic States]

Blame the culture for thinking we have to be. It's as sexist as thinking women belong in the kitchen.

[The Steel Magnolia]

Oh god is this still a thread.

[Fluffy Coyotes]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

This is basically the core of it right here. You're expected to have sex to prove you can attract women. If you chase women down and fail, I bet that'd be looked down on even worse than celibacy.

I'm not sure who says that being sex crazed is a good thing in and of itself. It's clearly not something to be proud of, given the physical risks associated with sex.

EDIT: Being mistaken for a homosexual almost makes sense though. It's not always meant as a negative assumption; my mom has occasionally speculated about whether or not I am gay because of my hesitancy to get involved in dating. The truth is, I'm just straight in a way that's unusual for straight guys. But it at least makes more sense than being mistaken for gay for things that obviously have nothing to do with it. (MLP:FIM, for instance.)

[Nazi Flower Power]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

Because some people are stuck in the stone age when it comes to gender roles and relationships.

I think there is also a lot of variation in how strong people's sex drive is, and for the people with very strong sex drives it can be difficult to understand that not everyone has those kind of overpowering urges.

Also, some of the people who are loudest about insulting celibate men are doing it to cover their own insecurities because they don't have anything to believe in or be proud of apart from their machismo and alleged sexual prowess. If someone is literally calling you a "faggot" or a "retard" just because you don't spend all your time skirt-chasing, they're idiots and you should ignore them.

[Osterreichischen]

Sub-Human mixed races often breed like rats.

Only the Master Race breeds perfect children.

[New haven america]

Because people love being sexist and making diagrams of both sexes, men are supposed to be getting banged by any girl he wants=wrong.

[East Williamsburg]

Why is this taking place?

Because men are now reduced to sex objects. The only way to attain a high socio-sexual position is through the sexual approval of women, rather than fulfilling the role of a husband, pleasing just one woman, and gaining said approval from both genders.

edit: I must add, if you predominantly try to gain the approval of men while remaining monogamous or single, you're seen as weak, impotent, and possibly gay. The only affection a man is allowed to express is towards a woman, in a sexual manner.

[Nazi Flower Power]

Sub-Human mixed races often breed like rats.

Only the Master Race breeds perfect children.

Good to know.

[Anachronous Rex]

Sub-Human mixed races often breed like rats.

Only the Master Race breeds perfect children.

Indeed.

All hail the Azerbaijani!

[Grand Britannia]

If every single one of your friends are girls and you have not one male friend, then yes, you could be gay. But it's hard not to have friends of both genders as there are so many people around.

I must be gay, then.

[Nazi Flower Power]

Why is this taking place?

Because men are now reduced to sex objects. The only way to attain a high socio-sexual position is through the sexual approval of women, rather than fulfilling the role of a husband, pleasing just one woman, and gaining said approval from both genders.

If that's the case, you are hanging with the wrong crowd. If you are married, you get plenty of approval from other married couples. (Married people still make up a large part of the population.)

edit: I must add, if you predominantly try to gain the approval of men while remaining monogamous or single, you're seen as weak, impotent, and possibly gay. The only affection a man is allowed to express is towards a woman, in a sexual manner.

Again, you're hanging with the wrong crowd.

This may be an age-related thing too. I'm not sure how old you are, but some of the stuff you are saying sounds very much like you're a teenager who just doesn't understand how different it is when you get out of school.

[East Williamsburg]

If every single one of your friends are girls and you have not one male friend, then yes, you could be gay. But it's hard not to have friends of both genders as there are so many people around.

I must be gay, then.

Yeah, how does it feel to be friendzoned by all those females? Are you even interested in one?

/s

[Anachronous Rex]

If every single one of your friends are girls and you have not one male friend, then yes, you could be gay. But it's hard not to have friends of both genders as there are so many people around.

I must be gay, then.

I'll be your friend, Grand.

[Oceania-Eurasia-Eastasia]

We're not expected to chase women down. Who told you that nonsense?

Most of America.

That danged ol' liberal media hypersexualized Hollywood pop culture brainswashin' stuff, or some such.

/sarcasm

[Grand Britannia]

I must be gay, then.

Yeah, how does it feel to be friendzoned by all those females? Are you even interested in one?

/s

Damn it, I just feel more comfortable talking with girls

I must be gay, then.

I'll be your friend, Grand.

Aww

[East Williamsburg]

Why is this taking place?

Because men are now reduced to sex objects. The only way to attain a high socio-sexual position is through the sexual approval of women, rather than fulfilling the role of a husband, pleasing just one woman, and gaining said approval from both genders.

If that's the case, you are hanging with the wrong crowd. If you are married, you get plenty of approval from other married couples. (Married people still make up a large part of the population.)

edit: I must add, if you predominantly try to gain the approval of men while remaining monogamous or single, you're seen as weak, impotent, and possibly gay. The only affection a man is allowed to express is towards a woman, in a sexual manner.

Again, you're hanging with the wrong crowd.

This may be an age-related thing too. I'm not sure how old you are, but some of the stuff you are saying sounds very much like you're a teenager who just doesn't understand how different it is when you get out of school.

Oh, many of my male friends are in committed monogamous relationships, but we're definitely not the big men on campus.

[Nazi Flower Power]

If that's the case, you are hanging with the wrong crowd. If you are married, you get plenty of approval from other married couples. (Married people still make up a large part of the population.)



Again, you're hanging with the wrong crowd.

This may be an age-related thing too. I'm not sure how old you are, but some of the stuff you are saying sounds very much like you're a teenager who just doesn't understand how different it is when you get out of school.

Oh, many of my male friends are in committed monogamous relationships, but we're definitely not the big men on campus.

On campus? Yeah. You don't understand how the world works.

[East Williamsburg]

I'm the first one in my family to go to college. I know how the world works.