What's so bad about men not being sex crazed?

[Des-Bal]

Did you have a bad day at school? I hear alot of complaints that men are celebrated for having indiscriminate sex but I've never witnessed that outside the context of middle and high school. If I hear that a guy is running around banging anything that moves I don't make a mental note to give him a high five I assume he's in an unhealthy place emotionally.

[Individuality-ness]

I never claimed I wasn't.

I'm fairly certain condescension is the natural state of General. Applied in all directions.

All the noses in the air means we walk into eachother a lot, but eh.

Exactly. You learn how to deal with it.

[Lyassa and Nairoa]

Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time[/quote]

[The Genoese Cromanatum]

OP has been watching too many romantic comedies

[The Blaatschapen]

Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

[/quote]

Women are fairly easy to attract. The earth is doing it all the time.

[Norstal]

Women are fairly easy to attract. The earth is doing it all the time.

The Earth is a slut. *nods*

[Individuality-ness]

Women are fairly easy to attract. The earth is doing it all the time.

The Earth is a slut. *nods*

Course she is, I mean look at how many people she lets dance on her and lay her and all! This is not to mention the animals and the corpses and all that trash inside of her...

[Umbra Ac Silentium]

I know the feeling. For the longest time I wasn't really interested in having sex, mostly because I thought it was unattainable for myself and because of the way I looked. While sex is more realistic for me now, I personally view sex as something that should not be done frivolously but with someone who you have a special connection with and feel close enough and trusting enough with to engage in sexual intercourse. I do not like to take advantage of girls and I think that setting up a pretense for the purpose of getting women to sleep with me (not like they would) is deceiving and wrong. It doesn't mean I'm asexual or gay or something, it's just my personal beliefs.

Well actually, I do have a libido, and it can get strong at sometimes.

But luckily, I have a whole lot of ways to supress that do not involve masturbation. Ways that can end the desire quicker than it even starts. I am armed to the teeth in ways of comabting my own libido.

Just to show that individual humans don't actually NEED to have sex, here are 6 things one can do.

1. Apply ice or very cold water to the genitals.
2. Go without food for a longer than usual time. Fasting works even better.
3. Hold breadth for a full minute.
4. Do something that makes you dizzy.
5. Gag
6. Give yourself a sharp pain.

Huh, like half of those are my fetishes.
Interesting that you use these to falsely suppress libido.

[G-Tech Corporation]

The Earth is a slut. *nods*

Course she is, I mean look at how many people she lets dance on her and lay her and all! This is not to mention the animals and the corpses and all that trash inside of her...

I....

I am so glad I brought my Minute-After pill to work today.

[Samozaryadnyastan]

Women have cooties

That's why I stick to sucking some dick.

This lifestyle choice never really worked out, for me.

[Risottia]

Who is crazying your sex?

A lot of people.

That's because you're a sexy biosexual beast.

[Risottia]

That's why I stick to sucking some dick.

This lifestyle choice never really worked out, for me.

It could be fun, but you've got to get a medical insurance covering frequent penile injuries.

[Freiheit Reich]

There were many times were people thought of me as gay.

Once I was in a rehearsal for a school play, and it happened that in my part of this play, a girl was to massage my shoulders and she said, "just pretend this is a guy doing this to you instead if that makes you more comfortable."

Furthermore, we men should desire women, but we shouldn't be looking just for sex so much. Some people even have the audacity to say that if a guy doesn't have a boner while he's talking to a woman then he is gay.

People often confuse shyness for gayness too.

I can relate, I was very shy and lacked confidence in the army and some people thought I was that way. It made me isolate myself even more and have thoughts of revenge shooting them (in leg,not head) BUT I am selfish and it was not worth going to prison just to get revenge. I have become less angry since those days though. If somebody thinks that way now I would tell them 'go to hell' and 'I hope something bad happens to you and you get sick and die' and move on.

This is something I hate about US culture. The aggressiveness bothers me. The sex-crazed issue is worse in Latin American cultures though. This culture has caused a lot of people to rush into sex and have bastards with many 'baby mamas.'

[Khadgar]

There were many times were people thought of me as gay.

Once I was in a rehearsal for a school play, and it happened that in my part of this play, a girl was to massage my shoulders and she said, "just pretend this is a guy doing this to you instead if that makes you more comfortable."

Furthermore, we men should desire women, but we shouldn't be looking just for sex so much. Some people even have the audacity to say that if a guy doesn't have a boner while he's talking to a woman then he is gay.

People often confuse shyness for gayness too.

I can relate, I was very shy and lacked confidence in the army and some people thought I was that way. It made me isolate myself even more and have thoughts of revenge shooting them (in leg,not head) BUT I am selfish and it was not worth going to prison just to get revenge. I have become less angry since those days though. If somebody thinks that way now I would tell them 'go to hell' and 'I hope something bad happens to you and you get sick and die' and move on.

This is something I hate about US culture. The aggressiveness bothers me. The sex-crazed issue is worse in Latin American cultures though. This culture has caused a lot of people to rush into sex and have bastards with many 'baby mamas.'

Man I wouldn't want your karma.

[G-Tech Corporation]

I get arrested for chasing down women and beating them with my dick.

You too?

Yay! I'm no longer alone.

[Freiheit Reich]

I can relate, I was very shy and lacked confidence in the army and some people thought I was that way. It made me isolate myself even more and have thoughts of revenge shooting them (in leg,not head) BUT I am selfish and it was not worth going to prison just to get revenge. I have become less angry since those days though. If somebody thinks that way now I would tell them 'go to hell' and 'I hope something bad happens to you and you get sick and die' and move on.

This is something I hate about US culture. The aggressiveness bothers me. The sex-crazed issue is worse in Latin American cultures though. This culture has caused a lot of people to rush into sex and have bastards with many 'baby mamas.'

Man I wouldn't want your karma.

Why? I was not the instigator. I feel hatred and anger towards those that insult me. I would like to attack them BUT it is not worth going to jail. I am watching out for my own selfish instincts not their welfare.

I am not as good a person as Jesus. I dislike violence but it is my instinct to want revenge. He is better because he feels love for his enemies.

I view gay actions as perverse, sick, and scary. It is right up with beastiality and child sex. That is why it bothered me a lot. It is just like how a Muslim would feel if you called him a 'Jew-lover' (not a nice expression but implies he is tolerant of Jews).

[Pope Joan]

A friend in law school took me to a whorehouse in Chicago to "make a man out of me".
He knew the staff by name.
The place was full of incense (near North Side). There was a storefront, covered by a silk curtain, no name displayed.
He tugged me inside, pronounced a couple code phrases, gave the lady sitting beside the next door a fifty (this was 1970 after all) and pushed me through the beaded curtain.
Everything swirled, I couldn't breathe...I passed out! I woke up on a couch in the room nearest the street, with my friend and the proprietor bending over me in concern.
"Here, here, take your money back" she urged my friend. "Just forget this ever happened."
"I am engaged!" I sputtered. "This is wrong!"
"Honey" she said, as she patted my sweaty brow, "would you not first take your new car out for a test drive before sharing a ride with your girlfriend? Hm?"

There's a thing in the USA about being macho (and in Mexico I guess!) that requires guys to prove their testosterone level in many ways, or else be scorned.

I was not conscious of being scorned, but I obviously did not clear the bar.

[The Emerald Dawn]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

I'm almost positive that people have answered better than I before my post, but I need to point something out.

You have an absolutely stunted, and really quite absurd, view of social dynamics.

Human sexuality has been a part of the human experience for as long as we've identified as human. Men are fascinated with the sensation caused by the thing between their legs. It is only since the rise of self-loathing religions that we've stopped allowing natural exploration of the sea cucumber, or vagina, and it will only be after the fall of the same that we are able to freely understand what it is to have sexuality without the kind of nonsense people like you cause.

[Kanaria]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

This is disturbing. And if you really don't like sex, then, bloody hell, go and be celibate.
If men really are expected to act like mindless monkeys made by a mad scientist for nothing but sex, then your part of the world is extremely disturbing. They have to admit that not everyone is straight, or acts on the every-five-minutes thought of sex.

A friend in law school took me to a whorehouse in Chicago to "make a man out of me".
He knew the staff by name.
The place was full of incense (near North Side). There was a storefront, covered by a silk curtain, no name displayed.
He tugged me inside, pronounced a couple code phrases, gave the lady sitting beside the next door a fifty (this was 1970 after all) and pushed me through the beaded curtain.
Everything swirled, I couldn't breathe...I passed out! I woke up on a couch in the room nearest the street, with my friend and the proprietor bending over me in concern.
"Here, here, take your money back" she urged my friend. "Just forget this ever happened."
"I am engaged!" I sputtered. "This is wrong!"
"Honey" she said, as she patted my sweaty brow, "would you not first take your new car out for a test drive before sharing a ride with your girlfriend? Hm?"

There's a thing in the USA about being macho (and in Mexico I guess!) that requires guys to prove their testosterone level in many ways, or else be scorned.

I was not conscious of being scorned, but I obviously did not clear the bar.

That's disturbing too. I feel bad for you; what is wrong with people who think that a man must show his interest in sex with women to be called a "true" man?

I view gay actions as perverse, sick, and scary. It is right up with beastiality and child sex. That is why it bothered me a lot. It is just like how a Muslim would feel if you called him a 'Jew-lover' (not a nice expression but implies he is tolerant of Jews).

Do you hate Jews? Obviously you hate gays. The only thing I see wrong with being gay is that it's not conducive to producing children with your partner, and that's why the genes leading to homosexuality are in the minority. And subconsciously I agree with you, but since I'm trying not to be ruled by my subconscious, I have to oppose your views on being gay.

[Individuality-ness]

Man I wouldn't want your karma.

Why? I was not the instigator. I feel hatred and anger towards those that insult me. I would like to attack them BUT it is not worth going to jail. I am watching out for my own selfish instincts not their welfare.

So it's not like they are persons who don't deserve to be beat up for some stupid reason, right?

I am not as good a person as Jesus.

Yeah, you're not.

I dislike violence but it is my instinct to want revenge. He is better because he feels love for his enemies.

Jesus wanted to help them too. And you?

I view gay actions as perverse, sick, and scary.

Your opinion. Not mine.

It is right up with beastiality and child sex.

Consensual love between two adults is like nonconsensual love between an adult and a nonconsenting partner? Who knew?

That is why it bothered me a lot. It is just like how a Muslim would feel if you called him a 'Jew-lover' (not a nice expression but implies he is tolerant of Jews).

You mean that they won't care?

[Individuality-ness]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

I'm almost positive that people have answered better than I before my post, but I need to point something out.

You have an absolutely stunted, and really quite absurd, view of social dynamics.

Human sexuality has been a part of the human experience for as long as we've identified as human. Men are fascinated with the sensation caused by the thing between their legs. It is only since the rise of self-loathing religions that we've stopped allowing natural exploration of the sea cucumber, or vagina, and it will only be after the fall of the same that we are able to freely understand what it is to have sexuality without the kind of nonsense people like you cause.

Sex-positive society! Whoot!

[Khadgar]

Man I wouldn't want your karma.

Why? I was not the instigator. I feel hatred and anger towards those that insult me. I would like to attack them BUT it is not worth going to jail. I am watching out for my own selfish instincts not their welfare.

I am not as good a person as Jesus. I dislike violence but it is my instinct to want revenge. He is better because he feels love for his enemies.

I view gay actions as perverse, sick, and scary. It is right up with beastiality and child sex. That is why it bothered me a lot. It is just like how a Muslim would feel if you called him a 'Jew-lover' (not a nice expression but implies he is tolerant of Jews).

So, in short, your response to people in your school questioning your sexuality, was to become a raging homophobe and attacking gays because that proved your heterosexuality. There by perpetuating the very stigma you suffered. Good job.


Again, your karma, do not want.

[Life and Progress]

We men are expected to chase women down in hot pursuit like we're a dog or something, and if we don't we are labelled as "homosexual", "faggot", "unmanly" "pussy", "retard", "autistic", "schizofrenic" and we are also accused of extreme masturbation and jizzing all the time.


Why can't someone just stay celibate?
Also, women are not easy to attract. Why does someone have to be called a "faggot" for not chasing women all the time

I'm almost positive that people have answered better than I before my post, but I need to point something out.

You have an absolutely stunted, and really quite absurd, view of social dynamics.

Human sexuality has been a part of the human experience for as long as we've identified as human. Men are fascinated with the sensation caused by the thing between their legs. It is only since the rise of self-loathing religions that we've stopped allowing natural exploration of the sea cucumber, or vagina, and it will only be after the fall of the same that we are able to freely understand what it is to have sexuality without the kind of nonsense people like you cause.

Well said. I wish more people agreed with you.

[Anachronous Rex]

Women are fairly easy to attract. The earth is doing it all the time.

I attract all women everywhere with a force proportional to the product of my mass.

[EuropaUniversal]

I'm not sex crazed. I haven't had any stick for it either. Your place of residence sounds like a hole in the ground, far away from civilization.