What's so bad about men not being sex crazed?

[Norstal]

You people here should understand that sex is a very taboo things, it is a big deal and should not be taken lightly. Even to atheists.

Sex is even more of a big deal for women.

K, I see what the problem is.

You are celibate yet you intrude on those who aren't.

So, why are you surprised or even offended when they call you "faggot" when you're calling them the equivalent of "faggot" as well?

[Individuality-ness]

You people here should understand that sex is a very taboo things, it is a big deal and should not be taken lightly. Even to atheists.

Sex is even more of a big deal for women.

K, I see what the problem is.

You are celibate yet you intrude on those who aren't.

So, why are you surprised or even offended when they call you "faggot" when you're calling them the equivalent of "faggot" as well?

Because being called gay is worse than being called a slut? I don't know, I don't understand their logic.

[Forster Keys]

You people here should understand that sex is a very taboo things, it is a big deal and should not be taken lightly. Even to atheists.

Sex is even more of a big deal for women.

It is what you make it.

[Forster Keys]

K, I see what the problem is.

You are celibate yet you intrude on those who aren't.

So, why are you surprised or even offended when they call you "faggot" when you're calling them the equivalent of "faggot" as well?

Because being called gay is worse than being called a slut? I don't know, I don't understand their logic.

Neither are bad?

[Anachronous Rex]

You people here should understand that sex is a very taboo things, it is a big deal and should not be taken lightly. Even to atheists.

Sex is even more of a big deal for women.

You're what? 15? You've never had sex, and you don't intend to, you clearly don't know anything about it and have done no research, but you feel as though you can lecture all of us on the subject?

The problem isn't just that you're wrong. The problem is that you lack the experience and mental tools to even calculate how wrong you are.

[Tarsonis Survivors]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

[Anachronous Rex]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

You don't see the backhanded insult in that?

Maybe it's just me being Scandinavian, but that absolutely reeks of condescension and passive aggression.

[Inkol]

Well I agree. If we chase women we are lustful animals and yet if we do not we are outcasts to society. We all live in a world where we are torn apart by people for our own choices even if they do not effect others. What you do with your Sex life is yours and yours alone. Let them judge you but in the end its how you feel about yourself.

[Individuality-ness]

Because being called gay is worse than being called a slut? I don't know, I don't understand their logic.

Neither are bad?

Of course not. I'm trying to understand here and I'm failing to understand.

[Free Detroit]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

Well, that's because celibacy for moral reasons implies a whole bunch of related, invalid moral judgments about sex. I.e. celibacy is fine, but celibacy for moral reasons implies you're a moron.

Now, does that mean it's good to be a sex-crazed brute who drips raw testosterone from the pores on his hairy back? Er, no. But sex is not particularly serious, as far as habits and behaviors go. Ain't nothin' but a thang, as one might have said c. 1996.

[Tarsonis Survivors]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

You don't see the backhanded insult in that?

Maybe it's just me being Scandinavian, but that absolutely reeks of condescension and passive aggression.

it's called sarcasm.....which you pretty much defined.

[Al-Quarra]

this is just nonsense... I've only really went for a girl like two times or something, i don't care of the rest of the girls.... I do get laid however (prostitutes)

But no one ever called me anything for the reason that i don't go after any girl like some rabbit...

[Individuality-ness]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

Here's the thing: no one gives a damn if one's celibate. No one.

But if you're saying that you're doing for moral reasons, that implies that anyone who disagrees with your viewpoint is immoral. And when you go on to say that only your morals are right and everyone who disagrees is going to pay for their sins, and comparing them to rapists and degenerates, you've got a few problems.

[Al-Quarra]

K, I see what the problem is.

You are celibate yet you intrude on those who aren't.

So, why are you surprised or even offended when they call you "faggot" when you're calling them the equivalent of "faggot" as well?

Because being called gay is worse than being called a slut? I don't know, I don't understand their logic.

Nobody does... the meaning of these words are alot different, and nobody can becouse a woman is no men (exept in Thailand)

[Tarsonis Survivors]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

Well, that's because celibacy for moral reasons implies a whole bunch of related, invalid moral judgments about sex. I.e. celibacy is fine, but celibacy for moral reasons implies you're a moron.

Now, does that mean it's good to be a sex-crazed brute who drips raw testosterone from the pores on his hairy back? Er, no. But sex is not particularly serious, as far as habits and behaviors go. Ain't nothin' but a thang, as one might have said c. 1996.

And that proves you're hypocritical ass. There are many cultures that view premarital sex as immoral . You claim you want these people to respect your beliefs while at the same time denigrating theirs.

[Tarsonis Survivors]

i love the sentiment of "Being celibate is fine, as long as it's not for moral reasons."

Here's the thing: no one gives a damn if one's celibate. No one.

But if you're saying that you're doing for moral reasons, that implies that anyone who disagrees with your viewpoint is immoral. And when you go on to say that only your morals are right and everyone who disagrees is going to pay for their sins, and comparing them to rapists and degenerates, you've got a few problems.

so you have a problem with religious people.

[Individuality-ness]

Here's the thing: no one gives a damn if one's celibate. No one.

But if you're saying that you're doing for moral reasons, that implies that anyone who disagrees with your viewpoint is immoral. And when you go on to say that only your morals are right and everyone who disagrees is going to pay for their sins, and comparing them to rapists and degenerates, you've got a few problems.

so you have a problem with religious people.

No, I have a problem with preachy people who tell me that I have to follow their dusty old book of myths.

[Free Detroit]

Well, that's because celibacy for moral reasons implies a whole bunch of related, invalid moral judgments about sex. I.e. celibacy is fine, but celibacy for moral reasons implies you're a moron.

Now, does that mean it's good to be a sex-crazed brute who drips raw testosterone from the pores on his hairy back? Er, no. But sex is not particularly serious, as far as habits and behaviors go. Ain't nothin' but a thang, as one might have said c. 1996.

And that proves you're hypocritical ass. There are many cultures that view premarital sex as immoral . You claim you want these people to respect your beliefs while at the same time denigrating theirs.

Huh? I never asked for respect, and I don't really respect unfounded beliefs (e.g., "faith"). There's no sound moral reason to abstain from sex before marriage. None.

That said, lighten up.

[Tarsonis Survivors]

so you have a problem with religious people.

No, I have a problem with preachy people who tell me that I have to follow their dusty old book of myths.

now who's the condescending one?

[Tarsonis Survivors]

And that proves you're hypocritical ass. There are many cultures that view premarital sex as immoral . You claim you want these people to respect your beliefs while at the same time denigrating theirs.

Huh? I never asked for respect, and I don't really respect unfounded beliefs (e.g., "faith"). There's no sound moral reason to abstain from sex before marriage. None.

That said, lighten up.

lighten up? You just spat on my beliefs and called people like me morons.

[Immoren]

There's nothing wrong in men not being sex crazed.

[Anachronous Rex]

You don't see the backhanded insult in that?

Maybe it's just me being Scandinavian, but that absolutely reeks of condescension and passive aggression.

it's called sarcasm.....which you pretty much defined.

I caught that. I don't quite know what you think I'm saying, but clearly it's not what you think I'm saying.

[Great Nepal]

Erm... I dont know... nothing? in fact most of the Girls I know prefer men who aren't "sex crazed" (well for a meaningful relationship any ways) If your feeling pressure to be like that... just hang out with more girls would be my advice. Of course it might not do much for people thinking you're gay.... but who really gives a fuck what people think?

Once I was accused of being gay just for eating lunch with a bunch of girls. They say that gay guys have girls for friends.

I think you should get better friends or know if they are joking.

[Free Detroit]

Huh? I never asked for respect, and I don't really respect unfounded beliefs (e.g., "faith"). There's no sound moral reason to abstain from sex before marriage. None.

That said, lighten up.

lighten up? You just spat on my beliefs and called people like me morons.

Yes, lighten up. You're getting angry at words on a screen that could be coming from anyone on the damn planet, kid.

If you make a public statement of position, sometimes people will demand you back that up (I believe I can back mine up, can you?)... other times, people will think you're a moron, and it's your responsibility to either roll with it or defend yourself. That's the bitch about living amongst rational creatures - we expect communication.

[Tarsonis Survivors]

it's called sarcasm.....which you pretty much defined.

I caught that. I don't quite know what you think I'm saying, but clearly it's not what you think I'm saying.

apparently we are not on the same page.