Duckistan wrote:Saiwania wrote:
There are women out there who are only interested in sex, it is just that it won't be most females that you come across and you are probably looking in the wrong place. If you want a one night stand it could be as easy as visiting Craigslist and answering one of the adult personals ads and taking the risk of visiting.
What you need to keep in mind is that women are individuals with varying interests besides sex and if a woman wants a committed relationship before having sex, that is their choice and you aren't entitled to it.
It is best that you just move on to someone else that has similar interests that you do if you're not into dating. I think you being upfront about only wanting sex, is a lot more preferable to you just lying about your personality, intentions, etc. to trick a woman into sleeping with you. Your complaint about sexual harassment laws, I don't think that is a legitimate grievance. You probably wouldn't want to be sexually harassed by total strangers.
I'm celibate more out of circumstance than my own free will, but it isn't so bad. It is only boring if you make it so.
Same here, though I have gotten laid, contrary to an obvious feminist's statement earlier (that is one of their biggest insults against men who disagree with them. It's either "you have a small penis!", "You need to get laid!", or "neckbeard!")
Well, I actually kind of want both romance and sex, actually. I just want the sex and the romance easier. Maybe I'm just incredibly impatient.
Not to mention, I've been led on by women for months without even so much as a kiss.
I just don't see how me being upfront about wanting sex by asking "would you like to fuck?" is wrong. If I were asked that by a woman, even one I didn't know, I'd be downright flattered and almost certainly accept her invitation. Women for some reason seem to take offense. I don't understand it. I guess my real gripe is that I've been hurt by misuse of such laws in the past. When I was in sixth grade I had a bunch of girls accuse me of all sorts of things. I nearly went to jail, and if the principal hadn't been so willing to believe me, I would have. I think I may have some trauma left over from that whole incident all these years later. Believe it or not, I used to be extremely romantic. When I had crushes on girls before that I'd actually write them little love letters and leave them candy. I've not been the same since then. Because of that, I guess somewhere I still have a deep seated fear of being accused of some sexual crime by some bitch who just hates men.
Also, I don't trust craigslist or any of those online fuck sites. Many of the "women" on craigslist are actually men, and there are incredibly few real women on there. And the sites that you can supposedly meet sex crazed women are scams. I went onto one once. What they do is they have a bunch of what I call "bait accounts" where they send you a message saying they are interested in you. However, you can't respond without joining the site. You think you have a surefire sex partner once you sign up, but it was all a ruse to get you to become a member. Even worse, the people who aren't on there to bait you into membership on that site are people from some of the other porn sites who will send you links to paysites. It's all a big scam.
Right. Well there are some actual differences between men and women (though these are true only on a statistical level, and may vary considerably in individuals), and I'm afraid you've just stumbled upon one of them.
Men tend to use sex to feel intimacy, women tend to require intimacy before sex.
