What's so bad about men not being sex crazed?

[Individuality-ness]

What's so wrong with what I said?

If a women having a career and a life of her own is so threatening to you, please, go celibate.

[Forster Keys]

What's so wrong with what I said?

If a women having a career and a life of her own is so threatening to you, please, go celibate.

I'm not sure that's what he's saying. It's more the perhaps inaccurate concept that a woman whose more successful than he might be deliberately trying to sabotage his own masculinity,

[Kandorith]

Women have cooties

This, I say we need to educate the masses more on this fact!

[Individuality-ness]

If a women having a career and a life of her own is so threatening to you, please, go celibate.

I'm not sure that's what he's saying. It's more the perhaps inaccurate concept that a woman whose more successful than he might be deliberately trying to sabotage his own masculinity,

Which is, again, sexist.

[East Williamsburg]

What's so wrong with what I said?

Go back and read what you said again. Hint: Start after "just as long as...."

As long as her career doesn't get used as a source of conflict, as long as she doesn't feel entitled to overrule everything I say because she may happen to make the same amount or more than me, as long as she generally treats me as an equal and not a handbag or a walking dildo?

Sexist, I know.

[East Williamsburg]

If a women having a career and a life of her own is so threatening to you, please, go celibate.

I'm not sure that's what he's saying. It's more the perhaps inaccurate concept that a woman whose more successful than he might be deliberately trying to sabotage his own masculinity,

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

Women can degrade men just as easily as men can degrade women. It isn't one way.

[Forster Keys]

Go back and read what you said again. Hint: Start after "just as long as...."

As long as her career doesn't get used as a source of conflict, as long as she doesn't feel entitled to overrule everything I say because she may happen to make the same amount or more than me, as long as she generally treats me as an equal and not a handbag or a walking dildo?

Sexist, I know.

Why do you think that this an issue at all?

[The Steel Magnolia]

Go back and read what you said again. Hint: Start after "just as long as...."

As long as her career doesn't get used as a source of conflict, as long as she doesn't feel entitled to overrule everything I say because she may happen to make the same amount or more than me, as long as she generally treats me as an equal and not a handbag or a walking dildo?

Sexist, I know.

Yeah pretty much.

[Saiwania]

I don't know nor do I care. Women complicate the whole thing. If they would just be as interested in fucking as I and many other guys are then perhaps pursuing them would be more worth it.

There are women out there who are only interested in sex, it is just that it won't be most females that you come across and you are probably looking in the wrong place. If you want a one night stand it could be as easy as visiting Craigslist and answering one of the adult personals ads and taking the risk of visiting.

Instead you've got to date them, shill out money, romance them, shill out more money, and subtly convince them to sleep with you. You can't just be like "hey, want to fuck?" because if you do you might get slapped, not just physically, but maybe legally, because the justice system has been tweeked by annoying feminazis to make it almost criminal to try and seduce a woman. It's now sexual harassment, even if it is the only time you've asked. At least that's how I see it.

What you need to keep in mind is that women are individuals with varying interests besides sex and if a woman wants a committed relationship before having sex, that is their choice and you aren't entitled to it.

It is best that you just move on to someone else that has similar interests that you do if you're not into dating. I think you being upfront about only wanting sex, is a lot more preferable to you just lying about your personality, intentions, etc. to trick a woman into sleeping with you. Your complaint about sexual harassment laws, I don't think that is a legitimate grievance. You probably wouldn't want to be sexually harassed by total strangers.

Celibacy sounds boring.

I'm celibate more out of circumstance than my own free will, but it isn't so bad. It is only boring if you make it so.

[Forster Keys]

I'm not sure that's what he's saying. It's more the perhaps inaccurate concept that a woman whose more successful than he might be deliberately trying to sabotage his own masculinity,

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

If you really think that all women are out to hurt you, maybe associating with them is a bad idea. Conversely of course it might rid you of this ridiculous notion.

[Indira]

Erm... I dont know... nothing? in fact most of the Girls I know prefer men who aren't "sex crazed" (well for a meaningful relationship any ways) If your feeling pressure to be like that... just hang out with more girls would be my advice. Of course it might not do much for people thinking you're gay.... but who really gives a fuck what people think?

Am I the only one to see the irony of this sentence? With regards to the OP, there is NOTHING wrong with it

[Grave_n_idle]

Go back and read what you said again. Hint: Start after "just as long as...."

As long as her career doesn't get used as a source of conflict, as long as she doesn't feel entitled to overrule everything I say because she may happen to make the same amount or more than me, as long as she generally treats me as an equal and not a handbag or a walking dildo?

Sexist, I know.

What about if your career is the source of conflict?

I have to say, it doesn't sound like you've had much experience in mature relationships if you're worried about being 'overruled', or who makes more.

[East Williamsburg]

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

If you really think that all women are out to hurt you, maybe associating with them is a bad idea. Conversely of course it might rid you of this ridiculous notion.

I reiterate,

Women can degrade men on the basis of gender or social position just as easily as the other way around. You're throwing half the population under the bus.

[Grave_n_idle]

I'm not sure that's what he's saying. It's more the perhaps inaccurate concept that a woman whose more successful than he might be deliberately trying to sabotage his own masculinity,

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

Women can degrade men just as easily as men can degrade women. It isn't one way.

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

[East Williamsburg]

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

Women can degrade men just as easily as men can degrade women. It isn't one way.

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

No, that's just how people are interpreting it due to their preconceptions.

[Forster Keys]

/assuming that can, like, never possibly happen, evar.

Women can degrade men just as easily as men can degrade women. It isn't one way.

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

Basically I'm not sure all that many people are vindictive in that fashion.

[The Steel Magnolia]

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

No, that's just how people are interpreting it due to their preconceptions.

Or because you're shit at explaining.

[Individuality-ness]

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

No, that's just how people are interpreting it due to their preconceptions.

No, I'm pretty sure that you're saying that.

[Anachronous Rex]

Maybe it's just your phrasing - but I think the reason you're coming in for so much conflict is that it reads like you're saying a woman with a better job than you is somehow doing that as a way to make your testicles look small.

No, that's just how people are interpreting it due to their preconceptions.

No, that's pretty much how you originally put it, and then you backtracked.

Which is fine, such a stance is embarrassing, and you should backtrack. So I'm happy to pretend you never said anything like that, just so long as you're happy to never say or think it again.

[Arcomo]

That's why I stick to sucking some dick.

You cant say that type of content here. Thats gross.

And if you're a man, that's sinful

Are you fucking kidding me?

And as if something being sinful ever stopped anyone...

Concerning the topic, I think it's a matter of culture - and plenty of people don't conform to culture. So if your social circle isn't full of sex-crazed guys and you're not inclined to behave that way, you're better of just not being sex-crazed. Probably a lot safer and more pleasant for women too, they generally get fondled and harassed enough by other dicks.

I'm sex-crazed, but only about sex-crazed guys, so it's okay.

[East Williamsburg]

Maybe I am.

Additionally maybe, in fact, many men still believe they're the dominant gender, so they're oblivious to the fact that a large proportion of women do, in fact, want to exploit them sexually. To admit that this is the case is damaging to their masculinity.

If only NOBODY exploited ANYBODY for their bodies as a socially encouraged norm, amirite?

[The Steel Magnolia]

Maybe I am.

Additionally maybe, in fact, many men still believe they're the dominant gender, so they're oblivious to the fact that a large proportion of women do, in fact, want to exploit them sexually. To admit that this is the case is damaging to their masculinity.

If only NOBODY exploited ANYBODY for their bodies as a socially encouraged norm, amirite?

Tell me more about these women just aching to sexually exploit men

[East Williamsburg]

No, that's just how people are interpreting it due to their preconceptions.

No, that's pretty much how you originally put it, and then you backtracked.

Which is fine, such a stance is embarrassing, and you should backtrack. So I'm happy to pretend you never said anything like that, just so long as you're happy to never say or think it again.

No, I said that I wanted a woman with a career. I never said I didn't want a woman with a career.

Christ...

[Forster Keys]

Maybe I am.

Additionally maybe, in fact, many men still believe they're the dominant gender, so they're oblivious to the fact that a large proportion of women do, in fact, want to exploit them sexually. To admit that this is the case is damaging to their masculinity.

If only NOBODY exploited ANYBODY for their bodies as a socially encouraged norm, amirite?

Are you sure we live in the same world?

[Samuraikoku]

No, I said that I wanted a woman with a career. I never said I didn't want a woman with a career.

Christ...

I want a woman with a career of her own, just as long as she doesn't use it to challenge me as a person and tries to form a constructive partnership.

That means you're paranoid.