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Postby Norstal » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:16 pm

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Irrelevant. Either way, they can't express desire.

It's incredibly relevant I'm saying that unless they have expressed their desire not to be a participant they were not raped.

BETTER GAG THEM FIRST THEN LOLOLOLOL

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Postby The Emerald Dawn » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:16 pm

So, we've established that he's starkers. I mean, no sane argument can be made in this manner.

You would have to be so anal that your picture adorned the entry for anal retentive to actually think this was sane.

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Postby Samuraikoku » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:16 pm

Neo Art wrote:
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Absolutely.


I'm so sorry. Somewhere along the way, someone, most likely a teacher, or someone else responsible for explaing how to form complex arguments, failed you horribly.

I am so, so sorry for that.


Sometimes not even something complex is needed. It's the fact of actually forming an argument simple or otherwise.

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Postby Anachronous Rex » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:16 pm

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Mavorpen wrote:Killing someone illegally who didn't consent isn't murder. If they actively expressed they didn't consent however, it's murder.


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Postby Nadkor » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:17 pm

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So...what you're saying is that people have to actively opt out of having sex with every individual on the planet or they're fair game and it's not rape?

Rape apologist.


I think, like TED, you're assuming more than there is. I don't really blame you. I mean, we expect there to be at least a little nuance to his argument. His whole whine however seems entirely to consist of that he just doesn't like CALLING it rape.

No, really, I know that seems obscenely sophoric, completely juvenile, nonsensically petty, and generally too simplistic to ACTUALLY be his point, but I swear to god, it is.

It really is just that petty and insignificant.


I get that, but I guess I'm just holding out hope that we're both wrong and that Des-Bal has the intellectual capacity and complexity to construct nuanced arguments worthy of someone over the age of 10.
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Postby Des-Bal » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:17 pm

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What does this even mean.

Do you think I consider all acts to either be rape or legal? That any illegal act is rape? What?

You're literally making no sense.


You're saying that I'm saying you either opt out of sex with every individual person on earth or you're "fair game." That only makes sense if the only crime someone could be charged with was rape. I'm saying that that is not and should not be the case.
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Postby Des-Bal » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:18 pm

Neo Art wrote:I'm so sorry. Somewhere along the way, someone, most likely a teacher, or someone else responsible for explaing how to form complex arguments, failed you horribly.

I am so, so sorry for that.


When I make complex arguments people start talking to strawmen, I'm trying to hold their attention with a series of simple arguments.
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Postby Immoren » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:18 pm

Des-Bal wrote:
Nadkor wrote:
What does this even mean.

Do you think I consider all acts to either be rape or legal? That any illegal act is rape? What?

You're literally making no sense.


You're saying that I'm saying you either opt out of sex with every individual person on earth or you're "fair game." That only makes sense if the only crime someone could be charged with was rape. I'm saying that that is not and should not be the case.

Seriously? Fucking seriously.
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Postby Soldati Senza Confini » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:18 pm

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Soldati senza confini wrote:A woman has to tell you "Fuck me!" or get naked, open her legs, and invite you with a seductive gesture for you to do SHIT to her! Is that crystal clear or do I have to draw a picture with full pornographic detail about it?!


Not to derail the thread, but have you ever had sex with a woman?


No :lol2: still a virgin. I was exaggerating for the sake of being pedantic :D

Point is, she has to consent to it. If we were to have sex with everyone without their consent then hell, we'd be like cavemen.
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Postby The Emerald Dawn » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:18 pm

Des-Bal wrote:
Nadkor wrote:
What does this even mean.

Do you think I consider all acts to either be rape or legal? That any illegal act is rape? What?

You're literally making no sense.


You're saying that I'm saying you either opt out of sex with every individual person on earth or you're "fair game." That only makes sense if the only crime someone could be charged with was rape. I'm saying that that is not and should not be the case.

Champ, you're not making any sense. I'm gonna ask the referee to end the bout before you get hurt.

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Postby Neo Art » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:19 pm

Mavorpen wrote:
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No, there really isn't.

Killing someone illegally who didn't consent isn't murder. If they actively expressed they didn't consent however, it's murder.


This is, actually, a poor argument, for someone nitpicky reasons. "lack of consent" is not an element of murder. It's illegal to intentionally kill someone regardless of whether they consent to it. You can fully and enthusiastically ask me to kill you, still murder if I do.

A better argument is trespass. It's illegal to enter into my property without my consent. Regardless of whether I have explicitly told you that you can't enter, or whether I have not explicitly told you that you can, entering without my consent is still trespassing.

Das-Bal's....nonsensical little tirade however, is more akin to saying "it's only trespassing if I SPECIFICALLY TELL you you can't come into my house, and you break down the door. If you just walk into my house while I'm sleeping and I don't know you're not there, it's not really trespassing!"

Yes, it's really that fucking stupid.
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Postby Samuraikoku » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:19 pm

Des-Bal wrote:When I make complex arguments people start talking to strawmen, I'm trying to hold their attention with a series of simple arguments.


I think this is what's going on here, the problem is what he calls simple aren't even arguments. He cannot seem to defend them.

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Postby Nadkor » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:19 pm

Des-Bal wrote:
Neo Art wrote:I'm so sorry. Somewhere along the way, someone, most likely a teacher, or someone else responsible for explaing how to form complex arguments, failed you horribly.

I am so, so sorry for that.


When I make complex arguments people start talking to strawmen


I refuse to believe that this has ever happened.
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Postby EnragedMaldivians » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:20 pm

Des-Bal wrote:
Arglorand wrote:That's because anti-consent doesn't exist.


Sure it does. There is a difference between "I didn't tell you to do this" and "I told you not to do this."


I don't really think I could sleep at night if I had, at any point in my life, held opinions that are as obtuse and disgusting as the ones you're expressing here.

There is no difference as far as the issue of consent is concerned in both of those examples. Maybe the order of the words, where the syntax is placed, which words are used et cetera, make them different from the semantic standpoint you seem so invested in - but again, as far as consent is concerned, there is no fucking difference. What on earth is your purpose in trying to make a distinction here?
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Postby Neo Art » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:20 pm

Nadkor wrote:
Neo Art wrote:
I think, like TED, you're assuming more than there is. I don't really blame you. I mean, we expect there to be at least a little nuance to his argument. His whole whine however seems entirely to consist of that he just doesn't like CALLING it rape.

No, really, I know that seems obscenely sophoric, completely juvenile, nonsensically petty, and generally too simplistic to ACTUALLY be his point, but I swear to god, it is.

It really is just that petty and insignificant.


I get that, but I guess I'm just holding out hope that we're both wrong and that Des-Bal has the intellectual capacity and complexity to construct nuanced arguments worthy of someone over the age of 10.


We're not.

It really is just that petty and insignificant.
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Postby Anachronous Rex » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:20 pm

Soldati senza confini wrote:
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Not to derail the thread, but have you ever had sex with a woman?


No :lol2: still a virgin. I was exaggerating for the sake of being pedantic :D

Point is, she has to consent to it. If we were to have sex with everyone without their consent then hell, we'd be like cavemen.

Cavemen didn't actually do that. Ignore Quest for Fire.
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Postby The Truth and Light » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:20 pm

Neo Art wrote:
Mavorpen wrote:Killing someone illegally who didn't consent isn't murder. If they actively expressed they didn't consent however, it's murder.


This is, actually, a poor argument, for someone nitpicky reasons. "lack of consent" is not an element of murder. It's illegal to intentionally kill someone regardless of whether they consent to it. You can fully and enthusiastically ask me to kill you, still murder if I do.

A better argument is trespass. It's illegal to enter into my property without my consent. Regardless of whether I have explicitly told you that you can't enter, or whether I have not explicitly told you that you can, entering without my consent is still trespassing.

Das-Bal's....nonsensical little tirade however, is more akin to saying "it's only trespassing if I SPECIFICALLY TELL you you can't come into my house, and you break down the door. If you just walk into my house while I'm sleeping and I don't know you're not there, it's not really trespassing!"

Yes, it's really that fucking stupid.

Caveat: it's not trespassing, it's just something SIMILAR to trespassing.

Which makes it stupider.

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Postby Samuraikoku » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:22 pm

The Truth and Light wrote:
Neo Art wrote:
This is, actually, a poor argument, for someone nitpicky reasons. "lack of consent" is not an element of murder. It's illegal to intentionally kill someone regardless of whether they consent to it. You can fully and enthusiastically ask me to kill you, still murder if I do.

A better argument is trespass. It's illegal to enter into my property without my consent. Regardless of whether I have explicitly told you that you can't enter, or whether I have not explicitly told you that you can, entering without my consent is still trespassing.

Das-Bal's....nonsensical little tirade however, is more akin to saying "it's only trespassing if I SPECIFICALLY TELL you you can't come into my house, and you break down the door. If you just walk into my house while I'm sleeping and I don't know you're not there, it's not really trespassing!"

Yes, it's really that fucking stupid.

Caveat: it's not trespassing, it's just something SIMILAR to trespassing.

Which makes it stupider.


You both trespassing apologists.

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Postby Neo Art » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:22 pm

The Truth and Light wrote:
Neo Art wrote:
This is, actually, a poor argument, for someone nitpicky reasons. "lack of consent" is not an element of murder. It's illegal to intentionally kill someone regardless of whether they consent to it. You can fully and enthusiastically ask me to kill you, still murder if I do.

A better argument is trespass. It's illegal to enter into my property without my consent. Regardless of whether I have explicitly told you that you can't enter, or whether I have not explicitly told you that you can, entering without my consent is still trespassing.

Das-Bal's....nonsensical little tirade however, is more akin to saying "it's only trespassing if I SPECIFICALLY TELL you you can't come into my house, and you break down the door. If you just walk into my house while I'm sleeping and I don't know you're not there, it's not really trespassing!"

Yes, it's really that fucking stupid.

Caveat: it's not trespassing, it's just something SIMILAR to trespassing.

Which makes it stupider.


It's not trespassing, and we shouldn't call it trespassing, and it's not as bad as ACTUAL trespassing, and we shouldn't punish it like we punish trespassing.

For....some reason.
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Postby Soldati Senza Confini » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:23 pm

Anachronous Rex wrote:Cavemen didn't actually do that. Ignore Quest for Fire.


^ I meant "cavemen" as in "uncivilized", not as in scientifical cavemen.

Only someone who is not civilized or social would think rape is actually what Des-Bal think it is.
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Postby Trotskylvania » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:23 pm

Nadkor wrote:
Soldati senza confini wrote:A woman has to tell you "Fuck me!" or get naked, open her legs, and invite you with a seductive gesture for you to do SHIT to her! Is that crystal clear or do I have to draw a picture with full pornographic detail about it?!


Not to derail the thread, but have you ever had sex with a woman?

Given the average age and inclinations of the NSer crowd, probably not.
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Postby Nadkor » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:24 pm

Neo Art wrote:
Mavorpen wrote:Killing someone illegally who didn't consent isn't murder. If they actively expressed they didn't consent however, it's murder.


This is, actually, a poor argument, for someone nitpicky reasons. "lack of consent" is not an element of murder. It's illegal to intentionally kill someone regardless of whether they consent to it. You can fully and enthusiastically ask me to kill you, still murder if I do.

A better argument is trespass. It's illegal to enter into my property without my consent. Regardless of whether I have explicitly told you that you can't enter, or whether I have not explicitly told you that you can, entering without my consent is still trespassing.

Das-Bal's....nonsensical little tirade however, is more akin to saying "it's only trespassing if I SPECIFICALLY TELL you you can't come into my house, and you break down the door. If you just walk into my house while I'm sleeping and I don't know you're not there, it's not really trespassing!"

Yes, it's really that fucking stupid.


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Postby Neo Art » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:24 pm

Nadkor wrote:
Des-Bal wrote:
When I make complex arguments people start talking to strawmen


I refuse to believe that this has ever happened.


I mean, we just saw someone who spent the last several pages flail around like a dying fish on the boat exclaim "well, when I try to be smart you people just don't understand!"

This literally happened. You saw it. You can't unsee it.
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Postby Norstal » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:24 pm

Des-Bal wrote:
Neo Art wrote:I'm so sorry. Somewhere along the way, someone, most likely a teacher, or someone else responsible for explaing how to form complex arguments, failed you horribly.

I am so, so sorry for that.


When I make complex arguments people start talking to strawmen, I'm trying to hold their attention with a series of simple arguments.

Like I said, chloroform.

Apparently if they don't give consent, but doesn't outright deny it, it's not rape.
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Postby Arglorand » Wed Mar 20, 2013 1:24 pm

Neo Art wrote:
The Truth and Light wrote:Caveat: it's not trespassing, it's just something SIMILAR to trespassing.

Which makes it stupider.


It's not trespassing, and we shouldn't call it trespassing, and it's not as bad as ACTUAL trespassing, and we shouldn't punish it like we punish trespassing.

For....some reason.

Because it's just "not tresspassing".
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