Men need to be trained to not rape.

[Tiltjuice]

Then thats the right to stop if you don't want to do it if the man still does it then thats rape even if before that you gave oral, right right?

Yes. If I told him "no anal" and he goes ahead and does it anyway despite my protests, that's rape, because I did not give consent to that activity. This is why it's always smart to ask whether it's okay to do <sexual act> before you actually do it.

This is what I was alluding to earlier.

[Transnapastain]

Repetition certainly can help simple concepts sink in.

To be honest I'm not surprised to hear shit like this from a filthy christian savage.

If this isn't flaming (which it is), it's certainly flamebaiting, with a side of trolling.

Rape is not a fucking feminist issue. Our culture demonizes rapists. Radical feminists are simply counterrevolutionary scum who will be executed after the socialist revolution.

This, combine with

Calling people on this forum scum and threatening to murder them will swiftly get you banned. Protip.

I'm not threatening to murder them. Marx proved socialist revolution is inevitable. Think of it as a friendly warning.

is really the issue I'm having here. Yes, you say you aren't going to murder them, but regardless, we take a very strong stance against wishing death upon any of our players, obliquely or expressly. You have made clear here, and in your comment in moderation, you believe many of our players are among those "Radical feminists" you spoke of.

Take a *** One day ban *** to think upon your posting habits and when you return, review the rules of the forum if you wish to make your stay with us long of duration and pleasurable in experience.

I will now unlock this thread, since everyone else seems to be debating with civility and tact.

Did I really just get to say that?

[Thafoo]

To be honest I'm not surprised to hear shit like this from a filthy christian savage.

If this isn't flaming (which it is), it's certainly flamebaiting, with a side of trolling.

Rape is not a fucking feminist issue. Our culture demonizes rapists. Radical feminists are simply counterrevolutionary scum who will be executed after the socialist revolution.

This, combine with

I'm not threatening to murder them. Marx proved socialist revolution is inevitable. Think of it as a friendly warning.

is really the issue I'm having here. Yes, you say you aren't going to murder them, but regardless, we take a very strong stance against wishing death upon any of our players, obliquely or expressly. You have made clear here, and in your comment in moderation, you believe many of our players are among those "Radical feminists" you spoke of.

Take a *** One day ban *** to think upon your posting habits and when you return, review the rules of the forum if you wish to make your stay with us long of duration and pleasurable in experience.

I will now unlock this thread, since everyone else seems to be debating with civility and tact.

Did I really just get to say that?

You sounded awesome

[Individuality-ness]

I will now unlock this thread, since everyone else seems to be debating with civility and tact.

Did I really just get to say that?

Apparently, yes.

[Ifreann]

I will now unlock this thread, since everyone else seems to be debating with civility and tact.

Did I really just get to say that?

Now you've gone and jinxed it.

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Consider that the vilifying of rapists and child molesters as evil monsters is directly connected in multiple ways to rape myths and a culture that excuses sexual violence. For example, the idea that rapists are monsters contributes to not believing someone who is "normal" or famous or known personally cannot be guilty of sexual violence. This is similar to the perception that rape is committed by strangers, happens in dark alleys or parks, or involves brutal violence. When sexual violence is alleged that does not match these stereotypes, people often do not consider what happened rape.

(I'm having trouble functioning at the moment. If this is not clear, perhaps I can clarify later.)

This is absolutely clear, and completely true.

Some rapists will fit into the "monster" category. Many do not. Some are even horrified when they realize that they've raped someone.

Rape is a very diverse type of crime.

Rape is kinda like the cancer of crime. A wide variety of things with a wide variety of causes, with effects ranging from "Bad, but entirely survivable" to "Inevitably fatal", but all falling under the umbrella of "cancer/rape".

Man, fuck cancer/rape.

[Herador]

I will now unlock this thread, since everyone else seems to be debating with civility and tact.

Did I really just get to say that?

Cherish the little things.

[The Steel Magnolia]

Rape is not a fucking feminist issue. Our culture demonizes rapists. Radical feminists are simply counterrevolutionary scum who will be executed after the socialist revolution.

You make me giggle.

[New England and The Maritimes]

Rape is not a fucking feminist issue. Our culture demonizes rapists. Radical feminists are simply counterrevolutionary scum who will be executed after the socialist revolution.

You make me giggle.

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

[The Steel Magnolia]

You make me giggle.

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

See I know I disagree with you on a few things, namely the role of social constructs and social identification. I still disagree with you.

But it's posts like these that gives me some modicum of hope for sane discussion on here.

[Xathranaar]

You make me giggle.

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

Which is why I am leading the charge on turning "slut" into a term of endearment.

[New England and The Maritimes]

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

See I know I disagree with you on a few things, namely the role of social constructs and social identification. I still disagree with you.

But it's posts like these that gives me some modicum of hope for sane discussion on here.

I just don't feel comfortable with the idea that broad labels should be some major fixture in a broader social spectrum when everyone is different in some way. Since you define whether or not you're a boy or a girl or anything else, it shouldn't be something people ask questions about or worry about.

I just think it's funny that people say "WELL EVERYONE HERE HATES RAPE WHEN I ASK THEM!" and it's like "NO SHIT!"

[YellowApple]

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

Which is why I am leading the charge on turning "slut" into a term of endearment.

You're such a slut

[The Steel Magnolia]

See I know I disagree with you on a few things, namely the role of social constructs and social identification. I still disagree with you.

But it's posts like these that gives me some modicum of hope for sane discussion on here.

I just don't feel comfortable with the idea that broad labels should be some major fixture in a broader social spectrum when everyone is different in some way. Since you define whether or not you're a boy or a girl or anything else, it shouldn't be something people ask questions about or worry about.

I just think it's funny that people say "WELL EVERYONE HERE HATES RAPE WHEN I ASK THEM!" and it's like "NO SHIT!"

I don't disagree with anything you said there specifically.

On topic however, jesus this was a tiring topic.

[The Steel Magnolia]

Which is why I am leading the charge on turning "slut" into a term of endearment.

You're such a slut

Bitch I'm the Whore of Babylon and I'm proud of it .

[Xathranaar]

Which is why I am leading the charge on turning "slut" into a term of endearment.

You're such a slut

I really am.

[YellowApple]

You're such a slut

Bitch I'm the Whore of Babylon and I'm proud of it .

Whore of Babylon? I don't imagine being an Iraqi prostitute to be a very pleasant occupational experience

[Saint Jade IV]

You make me giggle.

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

That's the thing that frustrates me the most. Everyone agrees in principle that they hate rape. But they are working from their own ideas about what rape is, and exempting every kind of rape that doesn't fit their narrow definition. As we've seen repeatedly on these recent threads.

[New England and The Maritimes]

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

That's the thing that frustrates me the most. Everyone agrees in principle that they hate rape. But they are working from their own ideas about what rape is, and exempting every kind of rape that doesn't fit their narrow definition. As we've seen repeatedly on these recent threads.

"WHEN I ASKED MY FRIEND HE SAID HE REALLY DIDN'T APPROVE OF RAPE!" "Oh, really? I guess nobody has ever once condoned rape then."

[Oceania-Eurasia-Eastasia]

It's weird how people just can't seem to understand that when people say "RAH RAH I HATE RAPISTS" they're not actually talking about >90% of actual rapists. Just because one particular KIND of rape is roundly denounced does not mean rape as an issue is. It's clearly not, with all the people using terms like "tease" and "led me on" and "slut" and "asking for it". People are ignorant, hence the continuation of rape culture.

That's the thing that frustrates me the most. Everyone agrees in principle that they hate rape. But they are working from their own ideas about what rape is, and exempting every kind of rape that doesn't fit their narrow definition. As we've seen repeatedly on these recent threads.

I'm pretty sure coal mining isn't rape.

[Cannot think of a name]

That's the thing that frustrates me the most. Everyone agrees in principle that they hate rape. But they are working from their own ideas about what rape is, and exempting every kind of rape that doesn't fit their narrow definition. As we've seen repeatedly on these recent threads.

I'm pretty sure coal mining isn't rape.

Ask the mine.

[Ifreann]

I'm pretty sure coal mining isn't rape.

Ask the mine.

Ask first? That'd be all awkward and shit.

[Cannot think of a name]

Bitch I'm the Whore of Babylon and I'm proud of it .

Whore of Babylon? I don't imagine being an Iraqi prostitute to be a very pleasant occupational experience

Perhaps...sex goddess?

I am THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE
so don't mess with me
I've got a big bag full of SEX TOYS
and you can't have any
'cause they're all mine
'cause I'm
the SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE.

"Hey," you may say to yourself,
"who the hell's she tryin' to kid,
she's no sex goddess,"
But trust me,
I am
if only for the fact that I have
the unabashed gall
to call
myself a SEX GODDESS,
I mean, after all,
it's what so many of us have at some point thought,
we've all had someone
who worshipped our filthy socks
and barked like a dog when we were near
giving us cause
to pause and think: You know, I may not look like much
but deep inside, I am a SEX GODDESS.

Only
we'd never come out and admit it publicly
well, you wouldn't admit it publicly
but I will
because I am
THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE.

I haven't always been
a SEX GODDESS
I used to be just a mere mortal woman
but I grew tired of sexuality being repressed
then manifest
in late night 900 number ads
where 3 bodacious bimbettes
heave cleavage into the camera's winking lens and sigh:


"Big Girls oooh, Bad Girls oooh, Blonde Girls oooh,
you know what to do, call 1-900-UNMITIGATED BIMBO ooooh."

Yeah
I got fed up with the oooh oooh oooh oooh oooh
I got fed up with it all
so I put on my combat boots
and hit the road with my bag full of SEX TOYS
that were a vital part of my SEX GODDESS image
even though I would never actually use
my SEX TOYS
'cause my being a SEX GODDESS
it isn't a SEXUAL thing
it's a POLITICAL thing
I don't actually have SEX, no
I'm too busy taking care of
important SEX GODDESS BUSINESS,
yeah,
I gotta go on The Charlie Rose Show
and MTV and become a parody
of myself and make
buckets full of money off my own inane brand
of self-righteous POP PSYCHOLOGY
because my pain is different
because I am a SEX GODDESS
and when I talk,
people listen
why ?
Because, you guessed it,
I AM THE SEX GODDESS OF THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE
and you're not.

[Individuality-ness]

Ask the mine.

Ask first? That'd be all awkward and shit.

"Hey mine, is it okay if I mine you? No answer? Fuck, where can I find a mine willing to let me mine it?!"

[Grumpy Cat Tard]

Ask first? That'd be all awkward and shit.

"Hey mine, is it okay if I mine you? No answer? Fuck, where can I find a mine willing to let me mine it?!"

If I were a mine, I would feel raped every time someone sticks a hammer into me, or whatever those things are, or blasts me for my precious cargo.

[Cannot think of a name]

"Hey mine, is it okay if I mine you? No answer? Fuck, where can I find a mine willing to let me mine it?!"

If I were a mine, I would feel raped every time someone sticks a hammer into me, or whatever those things are, or blasts me for my precious cargo.

You might be asking for it, what with all that sparkling diamonds all up in you and all, how can we resist that siren call?