Freiheit Reich wrote:Souseiseki wrote:indeed. otherwise i might kiss a transwoman and that might make me gay and i don't wanna be gay guys
What if a man was really bothered and killed himself because he felt that way? It would personally sicken me (although I would not kill myself). It is very unfair to the other person.
1. A tatoo should be required (a T on the forehead which could be covered with bangs) if somebody wishes for that surgery. 2. This might decrease people wishing to get the surgery and decrease transgenders. It will also decrease mistaken relationship gender misunderstandings.
3. Transgenders will not get murdered if they tell before any physical actions have taken place. Laughed at, yes but not murdered. 4. I would be happier if the shemale told me before I kissed it than after.
1. Fuck that shit. Why don't we just force all the anti-LGBT people to get a tattoo labelling them with a B (for bigot) on their foreheads? You wouldn't like that at all, would you? Neither do we.
2. No, it wouldn't, and its unethical any way you slice it.
3. You know nothing about violence against transgender people. Your 'solution' will solve NOTHING. Trans* people have been beaten and killed for simply EXISTING, by people they weren't making any sexual advances on.
4. Again, you're just proving you know nothing about this subject, by your use of slurs against trans* people, and referring to us as 'it'.
Freiheit Reich wrote:Grad Duchy of Luxembourg wrote:Absolutely agreed. I wonder what makes him so sure of his response when he finds out. I, for one, wouldn't be so sure.
These cases are on talk shows so I had the chance to ask myself how I would react. It would be very hurtful, especally if I had sex with it and was married.
Do you even comprehend how dehumanizing referring to somebody (much less an entire group of people) as an 'it' is?
And, in case you didn't see it the first time.
Grenartia wrote:Freiheit Reich wrote:Scary. Also a good reason for divorce. That is a HUGE secret your spouse kept from you. Transgender people should be honest before any kissing/intimate contact is made in the relationship (first date would be best) for obvious reasons.
If you haven't done so already, you might want to read the post I've quoted below.Lantianguo wrote:The "It's the deception of not being told beforehand that annoys me" mentality is dangerously ignorant and intolerant. Do you have any idea what it's like to live in a society where if people know who or what you are, you risk ostracisation at least and assault or murder at worst? "Oh no it turns out the girl/boy who I've been seeing and have had no problem thus far was once a male/female woe is me!" boo fucking hoo, your side of the deal is immensely ideal compared to our side. Most of us try to forever stealth it because of this bullshit mentality, so if we've actually told you at some point, that means a high level of trust, given that many of us die from doing that in many cases, and you should feel ashamed as an ethical human being for thinking you're the one who's being faulted more.
They aren't "its". Whatever gender they are defines the term you should use, "he" or "she", "him" or "her". Alternatively, you can use the unofficial gender-neutral pronouns.