NATION

PASSWORD

Your opinion of transgender people

For discussion and debate about anything. (Not a roleplay related forum; out-of-character commentary only.)

Advertisement

Remove ads

You are?

Cisgender, supportive of trans* people, recognize only two genders
112
21%
Cisgender, supportive of trans* people, recognize more than two genders
200
37%
Cisgender, unsupportive of trans* people
115
21%
Cisgender, indifferent
62
11%
Transgender, recognize only two genders
10
2%
Transgender, recognize more than two genders
47
9%
 
Total votes : 546

User avatar
Defensor
Ambassador
 
Posts: 1021
Founded: Oct 20, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Defensor » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:02 am

Grenartia wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:
1. If transexuals were proud of their true selves, they would not have changed themselves. 2. Your true self is how you were born. 3. You were conceived to be either male or female and it was never in the plan for your body to just suddenly change that with a scalpel. 4. When it comes down to it, you can't choose to change gender any more than you can choose to change race or species. 5. Society didn't force you to be born one way or another, your father's sperm did. That was out of your control.



6. Well then you're not really adding anything are you? If the post is so great, it should be able to stand on its own without you kissing up to it.


1. You don't get it. They're changing their bodies to match their true selves.

2. No. Its how you view yourself.

3. And that matters...why? :eyebrow: Also, I am the master of my body, not the other way around. I don't really give a fuck what blueprints my body "intended" to follow.

4. Its not changing gender. Its changing sex. There's a difference. We've explained this. And again, there is a difference between wanting to change sex, and wanting to change species.

5. I am not, nor will I ever be, a slave to my biology.

6. Pointless ad hominem is pointless.

In all of this, you just sound angry :(
Last edited by Defensor on Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:06 am, edited 2 times in total.
I get on NS when I'm bored. TG's are welcomed and replied to!
Spreewerke wrote:
Defensor wrote:I can argue from both sides of the fence, since I love and own a few of both platforms. A little bit of good in all of them :)

I like you.

San-Silvacian wrote:
Defensor wrote:Along with "High Powered Murder Weapon" (o.o)

I still that is the coolest fucking name ever.

"Introducing the BF-666 HIGH POWERED MURDER WEAPON. FUCK YOU LIBERALS!"

Christmahanikwanzikah wrote:
Beloyukto wrote:A punch of Jews

Is this what we call a group of Jews now?

Weird.

Defensor wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:Let me ask YOU something.

How come nobody ever asks confrontational, easy-to-look-up questions to Hindus?

We're people too, you know.

Haha! No you're not! *hands you a papertowel* Now wipe that dirt off your shoes and get back to work you silly midget :)

User avatar
Grenartia
Post Czar
 
Posts: 44623
Founded: Feb 14, 2010
Left-wing Utopia

Postby Grenartia » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:04 am

Defensor wrote:
Pillea wrote:
How you read any compliment within that is beyond me.

Wasn't he saying that you should be proud that you're a transgender?


No. He/she/they were saying we shouldn't be transgender, because we should be proud of how we're born.
Defensor wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
1. You don't get it. They're changing their bodies to match their true selves.

2. No. Its how you view yourself.

3. And that matters...why? :eyebrow: Also, I am the master of my body, not the other way around. I don't really give a fuck what blueprints my body "intended" to follow.

4. Its not changing gender. Its changing sex. There's a difference. We've explained this. And again, there is a difference between wanting to change sex, and wanting to change species.

5. I am not, nor will I ever be, a slave to my biology.

6. Pointless ad hominem is pointless.

In all of this, you just sound angry :(


Only mildly irritated.
Lib-left. Antifascist, antitankie, anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist (including the imperialism of non-western countries). Christian (Unitarian Universalist). Background in physics.
Mostly a girl. She or they pronouns, please. Unrepentant transbian.
Reject tradition, embrace modernity.
People who call themselves based NEVER are.
The truth about kids transitioning.

User avatar
Marijuanalahara
Lobbyist
 
Posts: 13
Founded: Nov 12, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Marijuanalahara » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:04 am

I only know one he's really cool.

Oh did you mean in general? What is this 1939? Who cares.

User avatar
Pillea
Diplomat
 
Posts: 672
Founded: Oct 30, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Pillea » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:06 am

Defensor wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
1. You don't get it. They're changing their bodies to match their true selves.

2. No. Its how you view yourself.

3. And that matters...why? :eyebrow: Also, I am the master of my body, not the other way around. I don't really give a fuck what blueprints my body "intended" to follow.

4. Its not changing gender. Its changing sex. There's a difference. We've explained this. And again, there is a difference between wanting to change sex, and wanting to change species.

5. I am not, nor will I ever be, a slave to my biology.

6. Pointless ad hominem is pointless.

In all of this, you just sound angry :(


It's a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Transgender People".
If this was a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Black People", don't you think people would end up getting upset/annoyed with where that thread would go too? Especially after explaining the same thing OVER AND OVER AND OVER.
Trans*, polyamorous, atheist, vegan, pro-choice, pro-animal rights, pro-science, anti-rape culture, lesbian, feminist, far left wing

User avatar
Defensor
Ambassador
 
Posts: 1021
Founded: Oct 20, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Defensor » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:06 am

Pillea wrote:
Defensor wrote:In all of this, you just sound angry :(


It's a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Transgender People".
If this was a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Black People", don't you think people would end up getting upset/annoyed with where that thread would go too? Especially after explaining the same thing OVER AND OVER AND OVER.

So basically what you're saying is that our bodies are like sculptures, and we can make them however we want them because sometimes our gender and our sexuality accidently switch sometimes?

Is that the jist of everything?
I get on NS when I'm bored. TG's are welcomed and replied to!
Spreewerke wrote:
Defensor wrote:I can argue from both sides of the fence, since I love and own a few of both platforms. A little bit of good in all of them :)

I like you.

San-Silvacian wrote:
Defensor wrote:Along with "High Powered Murder Weapon" (o.o)

I still that is the coolest fucking name ever.

"Introducing the BF-666 HIGH POWERED MURDER WEAPON. FUCK YOU LIBERALS!"

Christmahanikwanzikah wrote:
Beloyukto wrote:A punch of Jews

Is this what we call a group of Jews now?

Weird.

Defensor wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:Let me ask YOU something.

How come nobody ever asks confrontational, easy-to-look-up questions to Hindus?

We're people too, you know.

Haha! No you're not! *hands you a papertowel* Now wipe that dirt off your shoes and get back to work you silly midget :)

User avatar
Rereumrari
Diplomat
 
Posts: 650
Founded: Dec 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Rereumrari » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:06 am

Grenartia wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:
1. If transexuals were proud of their true selves, they would not have changed themselves. 2. Your true self is how you were born. 3. You were conceived to be either male or female and it was never in the plan for your body to just suddenly change that with a scalpel. 4. When it comes down to it, you can't choose to change gender any more than you can choose to change race or species. 5. Society didn't force you to be born one way or another, your father's sperm did. That was out of your control.



6. Well then you're not really adding anything are you? If the post is so great, it should be able to stand on its own without you kissing up to it.


1. You don't get it. They're changing their bodies to match their true selves.

2. No. Its how you view yourself.

3. And that matters...why? :eyebrow: Also, I am the master of my body, not the other way around. I don't really give a fuck what blueprints my body "intended" to follow.

4. Its not changing gender. Its changing sex. There's a difference. We've explained this. And again, there is a difference between wanting to change sex, and wanting to change species.

5. I am not, nor will I ever be, a slave to my biology.

6. Pointless ad hominem is pointless.
There are certain things you just don't get to decide. I don't like cetain things about myself. If I had the choice, I would be 6 foot 5, have a deep voice, dark hair, and blue eyes. Save for the hair, I can't change any of these things. As a human being, you're free to make choices and be free, but how you were born is largely unchangeable. How you "feel" you should be isn't always how you are. You may not have liked how you were conceived, but trying to change that is like trying to change the tides. You're a fool to try and in denial if you think you can.
The political compass is a lie.

User avatar
Xathranaar
Minister
 
Posts: 3384
Founded: Jul 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Xathranaar » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:08 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Xathranaar wrote:Why be skeptical? Because the man underwent repeated plastic surgery operations to alter his appearance?

The underlined is also relevant.
He only altered his nose. His skin was actually patchy in appearance, but he used makeup to cover it. Not to mention, if he really did change his race through surgery, the doctor that did it would have stepped up for the free publicity. All gossip, no evidence.

Because nothing bad happens to doctors when they gossip about their patients.
My views summarized.
The Gospel According to Queen.
It is possible that some of my posts may not be completely serious.

User avatar
Grenartia
Post Czar
 
Posts: 44623
Founded: Feb 14, 2010
Left-wing Utopia

Postby Grenartia » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:09 am

Marijuanalahara wrote:I only know one he's really cool.

Oh did you mean in general? What is this 1939? Who cares.


I'm having a hard time coming up with a short, appropriate thread title. If you can think of a better one, I'd consider it.
Lib-left. Antifascist, antitankie, anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist (including the imperialism of non-western countries). Christian (Unitarian Universalist). Background in physics.
Mostly a girl. She or they pronouns, please. Unrepentant transbian.
Reject tradition, embrace modernity.
People who call themselves based NEVER are.
The truth about kids transitioning.

User avatar
Rereumrari
Diplomat
 
Posts: 650
Founded: Dec 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Rereumrari » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:09 am

Xathranaar wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:He only altered his nose. His skin was actually patchy in appearance, but he used makeup to cover it. Not to mention, if he really did change his race through surgery, the doctor that did it would have stepped up for the free publicity. All gossip, no evidence.

Because nothing bad happens to doctors when they gossip about their patients.
Not after death. Doctor-patient confidentiality stops post-mortem as evidenced by the fact that none of the doctors are in jail.
The political compass is a lie.

User avatar
Xathranaar
Minister
 
Posts: 3384
Founded: Jul 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Xathranaar » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:10 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Xathranaar wrote:Because nothing bad happens to doctors when they gossip about their patients.
Not after death. Doctor-patient confidentiality stops post-mortem as evidenced by the fact that none of the doctors are in jail.

Let me ask my doctor friends...

Nope, you're wrong.
My views summarized.
The Gospel According to Queen.
It is possible that some of my posts may not be completely serious.

User avatar
Grenartia
Post Czar
 
Posts: 44623
Founded: Feb 14, 2010
Left-wing Utopia

Postby Grenartia » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:11 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
1. You don't get it. They're changing their bodies to match their true selves.

2. No. Its how you view yourself.

3. And that matters...why? :eyebrow: Also, I am the master of my body, not the other way around. I don't really give a fuck what blueprints my body "intended" to follow.

4. Its not changing gender. Its changing sex. There's a difference. We've explained this. And again, there is a difference between wanting to change sex, and wanting to change species.

5. I am not, nor will I ever be, a slave to my biology.

6. Pointless ad hominem is pointless.


There are certain things you just don't get to decide. I don't like cetain things about myself. If I had the choice, I would be 6 foot 5, have a deep voice, dark hair, and blue eyes. Save for the hair, I can't change any of these things. As a human being, you're free to make choices and be free, but how you were born is largely unchangeable. How you "feel" you should be isn't always how you are. You may not have liked how you were conceived, but trying to change that is like trying to change the tides. You're a fool to try and in denial if you think you can.


I can change everything except chromosomes. And I fail to see of what relevance chromosomes are to how I live my life.
Lib-left. Antifascist, antitankie, anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist (including the imperialism of non-western countries). Christian (Unitarian Universalist). Background in physics.
Mostly a girl. She or they pronouns, please. Unrepentant transbian.
Reject tradition, embrace modernity.
People who call themselves based NEVER are.
The truth about kids transitioning.

User avatar
Rereumrari
Diplomat
 
Posts: 650
Founded: Dec 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Rereumrari » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:12 am

Xathranaar wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:Not after death. Doctor-patient confidentiality stops post-mortem as evidenced by the fact that none of the doctors are in jail.

Let me ask my doctor friends...

Nope, you're wrong.
Get over yourself. The evidence for your claim is simply not there. MJ was never a trans-race patient. He was a pedophile, though. 8)
The political compass is a lie.

User avatar
Grenartia
Post Czar
 
Posts: 44623
Founded: Feb 14, 2010
Left-wing Utopia

Postby Grenartia » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:12 am

Defensor wrote:
Pillea wrote:
It's a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Transgender People".
If this was a thread entitled "Your Opinion of Black People", don't you think people would end up getting upset/annoyed with where that thread would go too? Especially after explaining the same thing OVER AND OVER AND OVER.

So basically what you're saying is that our bodies are like sculptures, and we can make them however we want them because sometimes our gender and our sexuality accidently switch sometimes?

Is that the jist of everything?


More or less.
Lib-left. Antifascist, antitankie, anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist (including the imperialism of non-western countries). Christian (Unitarian Universalist). Background in physics.
Mostly a girl. She or they pronouns, please. Unrepentant transbian.
Reject tradition, embrace modernity.
People who call themselves based NEVER are.
The truth about kids transitioning.

User avatar
Defensor
Ambassador
 
Posts: 1021
Founded: Oct 20, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Defensor » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:14 am

Grenartia wrote:
Defensor wrote:So basically what you're saying is that our bodies are like sculptures, and we can make them however we want them because sometimes our gender and our sexuality accidently switch sometimes?

Is that the jist of everything?


More or less.

God, that's literally all I wanted to hear. Why does everyone make it so difficult and personal?
I get on NS when I'm bored. TG's are welcomed and replied to!
Spreewerke wrote:
Defensor wrote:I can argue from both sides of the fence, since I love and own a few of both platforms. A little bit of good in all of them :)

I like you.

San-Silvacian wrote:
Defensor wrote:Along with "High Powered Murder Weapon" (o.o)

I still that is the coolest fucking name ever.

"Introducing the BF-666 HIGH POWERED MURDER WEAPON. FUCK YOU LIBERALS!"

Christmahanikwanzikah wrote:
Beloyukto wrote:A punch of Jews

Is this what we call a group of Jews now?

Weird.

Defensor wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:Let me ask YOU something.

How come nobody ever asks confrontational, easy-to-look-up questions to Hindus?

We're people too, you know.

Haha! No you're not! *hands you a papertowel* Now wipe that dirt off your shoes and get back to work you silly midget :)

User avatar
Suicune
Diplomat
 
Posts: 634
Founded: Jan 18, 2012
Civil Rights Lovefest

Postby Suicune » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:15 am

By the way, NASCAR is far worse than high-fives.
Blank canvas

User avatar
Pillea
Diplomat
 
Posts: 672
Founded: Oct 30, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Pillea » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:15 am

Defensor wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
More or less.

God, that's literally all I wanted to hear. Why does everyone make it so difficult and personal?


People tend to take being told their life is unnatural personally.
Trans*, polyamorous, atheist, vegan, pro-choice, pro-animal rights, pro-science, anti-rape culture, lesbian, feminist, far left wing

User avatar
Immoren
Khan of Spam
 
Posts: 65565
Founded: Mar 20, 2010
Democratic Socialists

Postby Immoren » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:16 am

Defensor wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
More or less.

God, that's literally all I wanted to hear. Why does everyone make it so difficult and personal?

Body is sculture and I am Venus de Milo. :P
IC Flag Is a Pope Principia
discoursedrome wrote:everyone knows that quote, "I know not what weapons World War Three will be fought, but World War Four will be fought with sticks and stones," but in a way it's optimistic and inspiring because it suggests that even after destroying civilization and returning to the stone age we'll still be sufficiently globalized and bellicose to have another world war right then and there

User avatar
Rereumrari
Diplomat
 
Posts: 650
Founded: Dec 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Rereumrari » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:16 am

Grenartia wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:
There are certain things you just don't get to decide. I don't like cetain things about myself. If I had the choice, I would be 6 foot 5, have a deep voice, dark hair, and blue eyes. Save for the hair, I can't change any of these things. As a human being, you're free to make choices and be free, but how you were born is largely unchangeable. How you "feel" you should be isn't always how you are. You may not have liked how you were conceived, but trying to change that is like trying to change the tides. You're a fool to try and in denial if you think you can.


I can change everything except chromosomes. And I fail to see of what relevance chromosomes are to how I live my life.
They contain your dna, which is the building block that determined your species, race, sex, hair color, eye color, and height. I don't see why you're so intent on telling your dna that it's wrong.
The political compass is a lie.

User avatar
Xathranaar
Minister
 
Posts: 3384
Founded: Jul 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Xathranaar » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:16 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Xathranaar wrote:Let me ask my doctor friends...

Nope, you're wrong.
Get over yourself. The evidence for your claim is simply not there. MJ was never a trans-race patient. He was a pedophile, though. 8)

Find me the statute that says doctor-patient confidentiality disappears postmortem, and I'll gladly admit I'm wrong.

In the meantime try not to let that cognitive dissonance overwhelm you.
My views summarized.
The Gospel According to Queen.
It is possible that some of my posts may not be completely serious.

User avatar
Defensor
Ambassador
 
Posts: 1021
Founded: Oct 20, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Defensor » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:17 am

Pillea wrote:
Defensor wrote:God, that's literally all I wanted to hear. Why does everyone make it so difficult and personal?


People tend to take being told their life is unnatural personally.

Sorry, but please for God's sakes put yourself in other people's shoes. I have no fucking clue what your thought process is, and that's part of the learning process is you talking to me about it. When I say things like "unnatural", it's be cause to me it is. So is processed meat, that doesn't mean it's bad, I just don't understand. Summing it up like that helped, but being all pissed off and defensive didn't help at all. It just made others mad that you were mad. Ugh! :o
Last edited by Defensor on Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:18 am, edited 1 time in total.
I get on NS when I'm bored. TG's are welcomed and replied to!
Spreewerke wrote:
Defensor wrote:I can argue from both sides of the fence, since I love and own a few of both platforms. A little bit of good in all of them :)

I like you.

San-Silvacian wrote:
Defensor wrote:Along with "High Powered Murder Weapon" (o.o)

I still that is the coolest fucking name ever.

"Introducing the BF-666 HIGH POWERED MURDER WEAPON. FUCK YOU LIBERALS!"

Christmahanikwanzikah wrote:
Beloyukto wrote:A punch of Jews

Is this what we call a group of Jews now?

Weird.

Defensor wrote:
The Rich Port wrote:Let me ask YOU something.

How come nobody ever asks confrontational, easy-to-look-up questions to Hindus?

We're people too, you know.

Haha! No you're not! *hands you a papertowel* Now wipe that dirt off your shoes and get back to work you silly midget :)

User avatar
Xathranaar
Minister
 
Posts: 3384
Founded: Jul 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Xathranaar » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:18 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
I can change everything except chromosomes. And I fail to see of what relevance chromosomes are to how I live my life.
They contain your dna, which is the building block that determined your species, race, sex, hair color, eye color, and height. I don't see why you're so intent on telling your dna that it's wrong.

Yeah, because nobody would ever have DNA for a given trait, and not have that trait expressed in their appearance. That would never happen.
My views summarized.
The Gospel According to Queen.
It is possible that some of my posts may not be completely serious.

User avatar
Rereumrari
Diplomat
 
Posts: 650
Founded: Dec 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Rereumrari » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:19 am

Xathranaar wrote:
Rereumrari wrote:Get over yourself. The evidence for your claim is simply not there. MJ was never a trans-race patient. He was a pedophile, though. 8)

Find me the statute that says doctor-patient confidentiality disappears postmortem, and I'll gladly admit I'm wrong.

In the meantime try not to let that cognitive dissonance overwhelm you.
How can a dead man sue his doctor? Why aren't the doctors in jail? These are the questions you should ask.
The political compass is a lie.

User avatar
Immoren
Khan of Spam
 
Posts: 65565
Founded: Mar 20, 2010
Democratic Socialists

Postby Immoren » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:19 am

Rereumrari wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
I can change everything except chromosomes. And I fail to see of what relevance chromosomes are to how I live my life.
They contain your dna, which is the building block that determined your species, race, sex, hair color, eye color, and height. I don't see why you're so intent on telling your dna that it's wrong.


I never read instruction manuals.
Until something breaks that is. :D
IC Flag Is a Pope Principia
discoursedrome wrote:everyone knows that quote, "I know not what weapons World War Three will be fought, but World War Four will be fought with sticks and stones," but in a way it's optimistic and inspiring because it suggests that even after destroying civilization and returning to the stone age we'll still be sufficiently globalized and bellicose to have another world war right then and there

User avatar
Xathranaar
Minister
 
Posts: 3384
Founded: Jul 25, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Xathranaar » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:20 am

Defensor wrote:
Pillea wrote:
People tend to take being told their life is unnatural personally.

Sorry, but please for God's sakes put yourself in other people's shoes. I have no fucking clue what your thought process is, and that's part of the learning process is you talking to me about it. When I say things like "unnatural", it's be cause to me it is. So is processed meat, that doesn't mean it's bad, I just don't understand. Summing it up like that helped, but being all pissed off and defensive didn't help at all. It just made others mad that you were mad. Ugh! :o

"Why are you so upset that I implied you to be an abomination!? Stop picking on me!"
My views summarized.
The Gospel According to Queen.
It is possible that some of my posts may not be completely serious.

User avatar
Pillea
Diplomat
 
Posts: 672
Founded: Oct 30, 2012
Ex-Nation

Postby Pillea » Tue Mar 05, 2013 3:22 am

Defensor wrote:
Pillea wrote:
People tend to take being told their life is unnatural personally.

Sorry, but please for God's sakes put yourself in other people's shoes. I have no fucking clue what your thought process is, and that's part of the learning process is you talking to me about it. When I say things like "unnatural", it's be cause to me it is. So is processed meat, that doesn't mean it's bad, I just don't understand. Summing it up like that helped, but being all pissed off and defensive didn't help at all.


Take your own advice. How do you think it feels to live your life constantly at the scrutiny of others who say things like "it's a phase", "you can't be a man/woman, you're a woman/man", "you're lying to yourself/others", etc.

Now take into account that someone on the internet, who could easily avoid words like "unnatural" which harbor negative connotations, or could easily use this magical thing called Google to learn about issues before stating a blind and uninformed opinion, comes around and says you shouldn't be annoyed/defensive.

Now that's the annoying thing.
Trans*, polyamorous, atheist, vegan, pro-choice, pro-animal rights, pro-science, anti-rape culture, lesbian, feminist, far left wing

PreviousNext

Advertisement

Remove ads

Return to General

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: Ancientania, BEEstreetz, Foxyshire, Kubra, Neo-Hermitius, Port Carverton, San Lumen, The Wyrese Empire, Tiami, Uiiop, Volrantium

Advertisement

Remove ads