Ostroeuropa wrote:Ashmoria wrote:
pregnancy is how you get to be a parent. it always falls on women whereas unwanted parenthood only falls on men sometimes.
That biology is not egalitarian is no reason for us not to be. There are plenty of biological inequalities that the law explicitly ignores in the service of equal rights, and i think this is a good thing.
If pregnancy is "How you get to be a parent." then clearly men aren't parents at all. I'll assume you just butchered the way you phrased that and move on.
no really. pregnancy is how you get to be a parent. it is as true for fathers as it is for mothers. without pregnancy you dont get a baby so you dont get to be a parent. its even true for adoptive parents and parents who use a surrogate.