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Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:28 am**

I just started work at Mcdonalds. Had a few shifts. A few shifts in I met this girl. She was nice and pretty. I had an instant attraction to her. Anyway, On Friday I saw her again. It grew even stronger. Today I saw her. Even stronger still. However I am torn. I am attracted to a girl at my school and have been for about 2 years. What do I do? Do I ignore my attraction to this girl at work. Or ignore my attraction to this girl at school? What do you think NSG?

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:30 am**

Danielturner wrote:I just started work at Mcdonalds. Had a few shifts. A few shifts in I met this girl. She was nice and pretty. I had an instant attraction to her. Anyway, On Friday I saw her again. It grew even stronger. Today I saw her. Even stronger still. However I am torn. I am attracted to a girl at my school and have been for about 2 years. What do I do? Do I ignore my attraction to this girl at work. Or ignore my attraction to this girl at school? What do you think NSG?

Doesn't matter unless you are in a relationship or dating with either of them.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:30 am**

No I am not. I am single.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:30 am**

stop living in your head and ask one of them out.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:32 am**

I have only known the girl from work a couple of days.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:32 am**

Man the fuck up and ask both out for dates on different days, unless you think they know each other, in which case crash and burn with one before trying on the other.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:33 am**

Danielturner wrote:I just started work at Mcdonalds. Had a few shifts. A few shifts in I met this girl. She was nice and pretty. I had an instant attraction to her. Anyway, On Friday I saw her again. It grew even stronger. Today I saw her. Even stronger still. However I am torn. I am attracted to a girl at my school and have been for about 2 years. What do I do? Do I ignore my attraction to this girl at work. Or ignore my attraction to this girl at school? What do you think NSG?

Have them fight to the death. Ask out the winner. *nod*

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:33 am**

Date both.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:36 am**

Lunatic Goofballs wrote:
Danielturner wrote:I just started work at Mcdonalds. Had a few shifts. A few shifts in I met this girl. She was nice and pretty. I had an instant attraction to her. Anyway, On Friday I saw her again. It grew even stronger. Today I saw her. Even stronger still. However I am torn. I am attracted to a girl at my school and have been for about 2 years. What do I do? Do I ignore my attraction to this girl at work. Or ignore my attraction to this girl at school? What do you think NSG?

Have them fight to the death. Ask out the winner. *nod*

Obviously. Sheesh, are you and I always the ones who has to point it out?

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:37 am**

Lunatic Goofballs wrote:Have them fight to the death. Ask out the winner. *nod*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyhhFzE5O5U

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:40 am**

Danielturner wrote:What do you think NSG?

Do a barrel roll.

EDIT: Seriously, though, the fact that the girl at work isn't "the one" makes it easier to ask her out. Just invite her for coffee so the two of you can get to know each other. If she says she's not interested then that's that, if she's keen then you can meet up and you can work out whether you want to have a relationship once you know a bit more about her.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:42 am**

Yep ask them both out. Try before you buy sorta deal.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:45 am**

Not that easy:( The girl from work is a very nice girl and the girl from school is nice too. They are both really hot I might add and I want them both but obviously I can't have them both. I actually love both of them. I really don't know what to do. I haven't seen the girl from school for a week because it's school holidays. I really don't know what to do.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:47 am**

Danielturner wrote:Not that easy:( The girl from work is a very nice girl and the girl from school is nice too. They are both really hot I might add and I want them both but obviously I can't have them both. I actually love both of them. I really don't know what to do. I haven't seen the girl from school for a week because it's school holidays. I really don't know what to do.

Heh and can i ask how old you are?

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:47 am**

Shit--I'm attracted to a hell of a lot more than two girls.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:48 am**

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:50 am**

Danielturner wrote:Not that easy:( The girl from work is a very nice girl and the girl from school is nice too. They are both really hot I might add and I want them both but obviously I can't have them both. I actually love both of them. I really don't know what to do. I haven't seen the girl from school for a week because it's school holidays. I really don't know what to do.

No, you're in like with them. You're a kid. You've got a lot of growing and maturing to do, so have fun while you're doing it. Simple answer - ask one out. See how it goes. You may very well be fretting over nothing. One might not be keen on the idea. Hell, neither one might. You've known one only a few days? Yeesh. Not enough time to luuuuuurve someone to the point of distraction the way you seem to be making it out to be.

As others have said - first step is to go up and ask one out. Then you take it from there. One date does not a relationship make, no reason you can't take each of them out and see how things go for that one evening. Not much of a real decision to make until you've got more info to work with.

I swear. Some men tend to make the simplest things more difficult than they really need be.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:51 am**

Try asking the one you've known longer on a date. If she says "no", then ask the other. It'll solve your issue. After all, there is no harm in asking.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:52 am**

Dread Lady Nathicana wrote:
Danielturner wrote:Not that easy:( The girl from work is a very nice girl and the girl from school is nice too. They are both really hot I might add and I want them both but obviously I can't have them both. I actually love both of them. I really don't know what to do. I haven't seen the girl from school for a week because it's school holidays. I really don't know what to do.

No, you're in like with them. You're a kid. You've got a lot of growing and maturing to do, so have fun while you're doing it. Simple answer - ask one out. See how it goes. You may very well be fretting over nothing. One might not be keen on the idea. Hell, neither one might. You've known one only a few days? Yeesh. Not enough time to luuuuuurve someone to the point of distraction the way you seem to be making it out to be.

As others have said - first step is to go up and ask one out. Then you take it from there. One date does not a relationship make, no reason you can't take each of them out and see how things go for that one evening. Not much of a real decision to make until you've got more info to work with.

I swear. Some men tend to make the simplest things more difficult than they really need be.

Ha, Yeah, I guess. But I was really distracted tonight at work. I mean it. I hope I'm not on Friday. Because that is the busiest day of the week and she is working too.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:53 am**

Fuck 'em both.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:55 am**

Buffett and Colbert wrote:Fuck 'em both.

lol

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:56 am**

Are they dating anyone?

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:57 am**

Slip roofies into her burger.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:57 am**

Buffett and Colbert wrote:Fuck 'em both.

At the same time.

Posted: **Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:58 am**

It took me three years to ask my best friend (girl) out on a date and i know it's hard b/c i am also 15 but you got to try (If you fail try try again) and if you need any advice i know i that i am not i dating expert but i can try to help you Good luck
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