The Perfect Woman

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

What bothers me about this post is that you seem to see women as interchangeable objects for your use, differentiated primarily by physical characteristics such as body shape and hair color. You discriminate based on arbitrary aesthetic standards as though such trivial distinctions could accurately determine another human being's worth, or her compatibility as a partner. Women are not types of things to be selected because of slight physical deviations, the way you would go to a store and choose one brand of soda over another. Women are people, each with her own individual thoughts and feelings. It baffles me why any woman would knowingly choose to be with someone who thought of them in such a manner. I can only assume that they have either been conditioned to think that being treated that way in unavoidable, or they do not know that you are being superficial. Either way, it is disturbing to me that anyone would select a mate for the color of her hair or the shape of her body. Her hair will probably turn white someday, and when she gets older, she will probably gain weight. If you picked her for her body, what will you have left?

And men are not chosen by women on by how successful they are? Women want a nice car, a nice house, a shitton of money, a shit ton of jewels, and they kick the less successful men away.

Don'r pretend women are more oppressed than us.

You're placing all women in a rather greedy light.

Not all women want a shit ton of jewels. I can assure you that I, personally, could care less for jewels. All I want is a man who's good to me, who doesn't abuse me, who keeps me safe and makes me feel loved and respected.

If a nice car, a nice house and a lot of money are included in that, I would consider those a bonus, but I don't really care if they happen. That is not what relationships or love are based on. Or at least, they shouldn't be.

[Snail-land]

What bothers me about this post is that you seem to see women as interchangeable objects for your use, differentiated primarily by physical characteristics such as body shape and hair color. You discriminate based on arbitrary aesthetic standards as though such trivial distinctions could accurately determine another human being's worth, or her compatibility as a partner. Women are not types of things to be selected because of slight physical deviations, the way you would go to a store and choose one brand of soda over another. Women are people, each with her own individual thoughts and feelings. It baffles me why any woman would knowingly choose to be with someone who thought of them in such a manner. I can only assume that they have either been conditioned to think that being treated that way in unavoidable, or they do not know that you are being superficial. Either way, it is disturbing to me that anyone would select a mate for the color of her hair or the shape of her body. Her hair will probably turn white someday, and when she gets older, she will probably gain weight. If you picked her for her body, what will you have left?

And men are not chosen by women on by how successful they are? Women want a nice car, a nice house, a shitton of money, a shit ton of jewels, and they kick the less successful men away.

Don'r pretend women are more oppressed than us.

I wasn't pretending anything. This is not a competition to determine who is more oppressed. Many women are materialists just as there are many men who are sexually shallow, and when women select mates based on financial success, it is evil to the men they are treating as means to their selfish ends. No matter who is doing it, there is something wrong with it, and it shouldn't be treated as though it were acceptable behavior. It turns relationships into prostitution, where each partner is only interested in exploiting the other for his/her own use, without regard for the partner. The more it is challenged, in all of its forms, the less common it will be. I hope if enough people are willing to speak out against these problems, the world will change so that there will be an increase in deeply fulfilling relationships based on true compatibility and love.


My spouse and I did not exchange rings at our wedding. Neither of us would have chosen someone who cared at all about jewels or money, nor would we have married partners who chose us for our looks. I think if more people were willing to experience love instead of greed or lust, the world would be a better place.

[The God-Realm]

And men are not chosen by women on by how successful they are? Women want a nice car, a nice house, a shitton of money, a shit ton of jewels, and they kick the less successful men away.

Don'r pretend women are more oppressed than us.

You're placing all women in a rather greedy light.

Not all women want a shit ton of jewels. I can assure you that I, personally, could care less for jewels. All I want is a man who's good to me, who doesn't abuse me, who keeps me safe and makes me feel loved and respected.

If a nice car, a nice house and a lot of money are included in that, I would consider those a bonus, but I don't really care if they happen. That is not what relationships or love are based on. Or at least, they shouldn't be.

Not all women are like that, I know, but I hate the women who are like that alot because my mom was like that, and she cared more about precious metals and the latest fashions than me, and she was also a radical feminist, so yeah, i'm not over her treating me like a toy.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

You're placing all women in a rather greedy light.

Not all women want a shit ton of jewels. I can assure you that I, personally, could care less for jewels. All I want is a man who's good to me, who doesn't abuse me, who keeps me safe and makes me feel loved and respected.

If a nice car, a nice house and a lot of money are included in that, I would consider those a bonus, but I don't really care if they happen. That is not what relationships or love are based on. Or at least, they shouldn't be.

Not all women are like that, I know, but I hate the women who are like that alot because my mom was like that, and she cared more about precious metals and the latest fashions than me, and she was also a radical feminist, so yeah, i'm not over her treating me like a toy.

That your mother did those things to her child is unfortunate. I'm sorry. But the truth is that, historically, women have been more oppressed than men.

I'm not saying discrimination against men doesn't happen, mind you. It does. But it doesn't tend to be the norm.

[Farnhamia]

You're placing all women in a rather greedy light.

Not all women want a shit ton of jewels. I can assure you that I, personally, could care less for jewels. All I want is a man who's good to me, who doesn't abuse me, who keeps me safe and makes me feel loved and respected.

If a nice car, a nice house and a lot of money are included in that, I would consider those a bonus, but I don't really care if they happen. That is not what relationships or love are based on. Or at least, they shouldn't be.

Not all women are like that, I know, but I hate the women who are like that alot because my mom was like that, and she cared more about precious metals and the latest fashions than me, and she was also a radical feminist, so yeah, i'm not over her treating me like a toy.

A radical feminist fashionista with shiny-object collector tendencies? Goodness.

[BluSkyy]

Someone compassionate, smart, and with similar ideologies to me.

[The God-Realm]

Not all women are like that, I know, but I hate the women who are like that alot because my mom was like that, and she cared more about precious metals and the latest fashions than me, and she was also a radical feminist, so yeah, i'm not over her treating me like a toy.

That your mother did those things to her child is unfortunate. I'm sorry. But the truth is that, historically, women have been more oppressed than men.

I'm not saying discrimination against men doesn't happen, mind you. It does. But it doesn't tend to be the norm.

That is a true fact really, but i'm saying now that now it is not as bad.

Not all women are like that, I know, but I hate the women who are like that alot because my mom was like that, and she cared more about precious metals and the latest fashions than me, and she was also a radical feminist, so yeah, i'm not over her treating me like a toy.

A radical feminist fashionista with shiny-object collector tendencies? Goodness.

She thought men were supposed to be slaves to women.

Which is fine, as long as it is agreed upon by both parties and it only involves sex, not buying jewels and dresses.

And men are not chosen by women on by how successful they are? Women want a nice car, a nice house, a shitton of money, a shit ton of jewels, and they kick the less successful men away.

Don'r pretend women are more oppressed than us.

I wasn't pretending anything. This is not a competition to determine who is more oppressed. Many women are materialists just as there are many men who are sexually shallow, and when women select mates based on financial success, it is evil to the men they are treating as means to their selfish ends. No matter who is doing it, there is something wrong with it, and it shouldn't be treated as though it were acceptable behavior. It turns relationships into prostitution, where each partner is only interested in exploiting the other for his/her own use, without regard for the partner. The more it is challenged, in all of its forms, the less common it will be. I hope if enough people are willing to speak out against these problems, the world will change so that there will be an increase in deeply fulfilling relationships based on true compatibility and love.


My spouse and I did not exchange rings at our wedding. Neither of us would have chosen someone who cared at all about jewels or money, nor would we have married partners who chose us for our looks. I think if more people were willing to experience love instead of greed or lust, the world would be a better place.

Sadly the majority of the human race are narrow minded, take the nation of my birth, South Africa as the example. My people can't live in harmony with the Africans for the most part.

[Death Metal]

She thought men were supposed to be slaves to women.

Which is fine, as long as it is agreed upon by both parties and it only involves sex, not buying jewels and dresses.

Agreed

[The God-Realm]

She thought men were supposed to be slaves to women.

Which is fine, as long as it is agreed upon by both parties and it only involves sex, not buying jewels and dresses.

Agreed

My girlfriend says I have to cosplay as Alucard.

I would refuse but I do it so well.

[Death Metal]

If it were me, I'd ask if she could return the favor by cosplaying as Mokoto Kusanagi... or Balalaika... or Revy... or maybe Baiken from Guilty Gear...

[The God-Realm]

If it were me, I'd ask if she could return the favor by cosplaying as Mokoto Kusanagi... or Balalaika... or Revy... or maybe Baiken from Guilty Gear...

My girlfriend is a good Chun Li, but the Russian accent kinda ruins it.

[Gidgetisms]

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[The God-Realm]

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What?

[Norstal]

If it were me, I'd ask if she could return the favor by cosplaying as Mokoto Kusanagi... or Balalaika... or Revy... or maybe Baiken from Guilty Gear...

Ask her to dress up like Bridget.

*nods*

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

That your mother did those things to her child is unfortunate. I'm sorry. But the truth is that, historically, women have been more oppressed than men.

I'm not saying discrimination against men doesn't happen, mind you. It does. But it doesn't tend to be the norm.

That is a true fact really, but i'm saying now that now it is not as bad.

In all honesty, it really depends where in the world you're at.

[Gidgetisms]

what is cosplay?

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

what is cosplay?

Dressing up as say, a character from an anime (mainly, but you can do so from other things like movies or books), and RPing scenes from said anime.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cosplay

[Gidgetisms]

what is cosplay?

Dressing up as say, a character from an anime (mainly, but you can do so from other things like movies or books), and RPing scenes from said anime.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cosplay

That sounds fun!

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Dressing up as say, a character from an anime (mainly, but you can do so from other things like movies or books), and RPing scenes from said anime.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cosplay

That sounds fun!

It can be. People tend to do a lot of it when they go to anime cons.

And some of the costumes are amazingly good.

[The God-Realm]

what is cosplay?

What we no life weeaboos do.

[Gaveo]

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[Death Metal]

If it were me, I'd ask if she could return the favor by cosplaying as Mokoto Kusanagi... or Balalaika... or Revy... or maybe Baiken from Guilty Gear...

My girlfriend is a good Chun Li, but the Russian accent kinda ruins it.

She'd be a great Balalaika then I'd wager.

[Gidgetisms]

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gentle, gav

[Mizrah]

She shouldn't talk too much.

[Death Metal]

Dressing up as say, a character from an anime (mainly, but you can do so from other things like movies or books), and RPing scenes from said anime.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cosplay

That sounds fun!

*Hands a shrimp and avacado sammich, on brown, cut diagonally*