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Is gaydar real?

I'm gay (or bi) and I think gaydar is real.
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13%
I'm gay (or bi) and I think gaydar is a myth.
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I'm not gay and I think gaydar is real.
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31%
I'm not gay and I think gaydar is a myth.
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38%
 
Total votes : 84

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Gaydar:Is it real?

Postby Aquophia » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:44 pm

Is there really a way to spot a fabulous person from a crowd? Personally, I don't think there is any sure way to actually call someone on sexuality just by looking at them, especially with the rise of metrosexuality and whatnot. People mostly go on style and voice pitch when trying to guess a man's sexuality, but that's not very reliable.

Also relevant: http://news.yahoo.com/people-really-mig ... 06742.html
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Postby Tlaceceyaya » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:45 pm

There's no way for a straight person to not believe in it?
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Postby Aquophia » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:46 pm

Tlaceceyaya wrote:There's no way for a straight person to not believe in it?

Sorry. Ill fix it. :blush:

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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:49 pm

Does profiling exist? Yes. Does it work sometimes? Yes. Is it wrong? Yes.

Anyway, we already had this thread.
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Postby Kaleer » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:49 pm

I think there are some people you just know, or have a reallyreallyreally good guess. But over-all, you're not going to be right 100% of the time.

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Postby Euroslavia » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:54 pm

Aquophia wrote:Is there really a way to spot a fabulous person from a crowd? Personally, I don't think there is any sure way to actually call someone on sexuality just by looking at them, especially with the rise of metrosexuality and whatnot. People mostly go on style and voice pitch when trying to guess a man's sexuality, but that's not very reliable.

Also relevant: http://news.yahoo.com/people-really-mig ... 06742.html

It's not just look, it's body language, speech, and other reactions. Gaydar doesn't have to be just 'seeing someone in a crowd' and thinking "Oh, he/she's gay". It's interaction as well. My gaydar is pretty well tuned. 8)
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Postby Christian Democrats » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:55 pm

Scientific studies seem to have shown that people are pretty good at judging the sexual orientation of others.

Therefore, I'll say that gaydar is likely something real.

EDIT: I'm male and heterosexual.
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Postby Dashiopolis » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:55 pm

It rhymes so well with "radar." It has to be true.
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Postby Tiente Caelo » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:58 pm

The gaydar is a myth, at least how it is normally thought as. Granted there are genetic predispositions that can hint at someone being homosexual or not, though these studies often don't consider bisexuals, and these traits are all physical. The only trait I recall is that the homosexual person is more then likely the youngest sibling in a family, and something about hair being counter-clockwise, but I am bisexual and I am the eldest person in my family, my hair is counter-clockwise though.

Sorry if I don't exactly have the link to the counter-clockwise thing, but I do have this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYMjXucTFaM
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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:58 pm

Christian Democrats wrote:Scientific studies seem to have shown that people are pretty good at judging the sexual orientation of others.

You could provide those studies, you know.
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Postby Aquophia » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:01 pm

Tiente Caelo wrote:The gaydar is a myth, at least how it is normally thought as. Granted there are genetic predispositions that can hint at someone being homosexual or not, though these studies often don't consider bisexuals, and these traits are all physical. The only trait I recall is that the homosexual person is more then likely the youngest sibling in a family, and something about hair being counter-clockwise, but I am bisexual and I am the eldest person in my family, my hair is counter-clockwise though.

Sorry if I don't exactly have the link to the counter-clockwise thing, but I do have this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYMjXucTFaM
To add to the hair thing, I actually remember reading something that said a gay male's ring and middle finger are usually the same length as opposed to the ring finger being shorter. I'll see if I can find it again.

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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:04 pm

Aquophia wrote:
Tiente Caelo wrote:The gaydar is a myth, at least how it is normally thought as. Granted there are genetic predispositions that can hint at someone being homosexual or not, though these studies often don't consider bisexuals, and these traits are all physical. The only trait I recall is that the homosexual person is more then likely the youngest sibling in a family, and something about hair being counter-clockwise, but I am bisexual and I am the eldest person in my family, my hair is counter-clockwise though.

Sorry if I don't exactly have the link to the counter-clockwise thing, but I do have this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYMjXucTFaM
To add to the hair thing, I actually remember reading something that said a gay male's ring and middle finger are usually the same length as opposed to the ring finger being shorter. I'll see if I can find it again.

And I heard that straight people tend to have five freckles on their left arm.
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Buffett and Colbert wrote:Clever, but your Jedi mind tricks don't work on me.

His Jedi mind tricks are insignificant compared to the power of Buffy's sex appeal.
Keronians wrote:
Buffett and Colbert wrote:My law class took my virginity. And it was 100% consensual.

I accuse your precious law class of statutory rape.

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Postby Ceannairceach » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:04 pm

Gaydar is bogus.

Hetdar, though... Thgat is obviously true. More than nine out of ten times, you'll get the right answer.

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Postby Ceannairceach » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:06 pm

Buffett and Colbert wrote:
Aquophia wrote:To add to the hair thing, I actually remember reading something that said a gay male's ring and middle finger are usually the same length as opposed to the ring finger being shorter. I'll see if I can find it again.

And I heard that straight people tend to have five freckles on their left arm.

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Postby Sentinel XV » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:07 pm

I'd like to think that I can spot the fahbulous people. So I guess that my gaydar is pretty accurate, yes.
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Postby Aquophia » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:07 pm

Buffett and Colbert wrote:
Aquophia wrote:To add to the hair thing, I actually remember reading something that said a gay male's ring and middle finger are usually the same length as opposed to the ring finger being shorter. I'll see if I can find it again.

And I heard that straight people tend to have five freckles on their left arm.
Found it. Ring and index same size=gay most likely. has to do with testosterone during fetal development and stuff like that.
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Postby Sierra Lobo » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:08 pm

Gaydar : It takes one to know one. And it is real. :)
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Postby Bontivate » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:09 pm

I tried to patent my mental gaydar and ended up in a fist fight with some obstructive bureaucrat asshole.
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Postby Gideus » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:09 pm

Some people are better at identifying certain things about other people than other people are at it. I personally am very good at telling when someone is lying in person.
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Postby Mad hatters in jeans » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:09 pm

You tell me
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Postby Sierra Lobo » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:11 pm

Mad hatters in jeans wrote:You tell me


ohhh nice .... i have a hunch the big one is .... Bi
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Postby Ameriganastan » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:11 pm

I've always believed I had pretty good gaydar. I've been right 4 out of 6 times.
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Postby Daihan » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:13 pm

Euroslavia wrote:
Aquophia wrote:Is there really a way to spot a fabulous person from a crowd? Personally, I don't think there is any sure way to actually call someone on sexuality just by looking at them, especially with the rise of metrosexuality and whatnot. People mostly go on style and voice pitch when trying to guess a man's sexuality, but that's not very reliable.

Also relevant: http://news.yahoo.com/people-really-mig ... 06742.html

It's not just look, it's body language, speech, and other reactions. Gaydar doesn't have to be just 'seeing someone in a crowd' and thinking "Oh, he/she's gay". It's interaction as well. My gaydar is pretty well tuned. 8)


This. Spend enough time around LGBTQ types and you develop a kind of sixth sense....of course, it's not always accurate, and your mileage may vary, but it is a real phenomenon. Mine is decent.
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Postby Mad hatters in jeans » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:16 pm

Sierra Lobo wrote:
Mad hatters in jeans wrote:You tell me


ohhh nice .... i have a hunch the big one is .... Bi

Idk i figure the big one might be all the way gay, i mean that big compared to his friends i bet he gets lonely.

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Postby Wazkyraque » Sun Jun 03, 2012 6:17 pm

Gaydar though correct a portion of the time, determines sexuality by profiling, and profiling is typically an awful way to determine anything about anyone.
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