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by Simon Cowell of the RR » Mon May 28, 2012 4:51 am
by The Jahistic Unified Republic » Mon May 28, 2012 4:52 am
The Emerald Dawn wrote:"Considering Officer Krupke was patently idiotic to charge these young men in the first place, we're dropping the charges in the interest of not wasting any more of the Judiciary's time with farcical charges brought by officers who require more training on basic legal principles."
by AiliailiA » Mon May 28, 2012 4:55 am
AbH Belxjander Draconis Serechai wrote:Distruzio wrote:A number of posts in the "What do you find unattractive?" thread peaked my curiosity....
Why shouldn't you raise your children to adhere to your faith?
Raising a child capable of critical thinking is a part of parenting. The relevance of faith in that act is not a limit upon that act, nor is it a facilitator. The unfaithful who claim that a child should be raised free of faith in order that he might decide for himself is, indeed, making the very same argument that they condemn the faithful for perpetuating. They proclaim a child is indoctrinated by faith to be faithful. Are they presuming that a child is somehow less indoctrinated by unfaith to be unfaithful?
Are they doubting their own abilities as parents? I'm honestly perplexed by the inconsistency in the anti-religion for children advocates.
Honestly, my own opinion is that neither faith nor unfaith affects the ability of a child to think for themself. Those children incapable of independent thought were not stymied by the prevalence of faith, or lack thereof, in their developing minds but were, rather, stymied by improper parenting. In other words, if you are a dumbass parent then the likelihood of having a dumbass child increases whether your dumbassedness is influenced by your faith or not. I think that those who doubt the value of religion in the developing years of a child and seek to replace it with science (as if the two were somehow contradictory) are themselves guilty of advocating a doctrine, a dogma - a religious perspective.
What say you NSG? Why shouldn't you raise your children to be faithful? Is religion so dominating a factor in reality (assuming that it is a mythos granted far to great a position in society) that a well developed child cannot escape its grasp? Are those condemning those of us who would/do teach our children to be faithful themselves guilty of being inconsistent and - ironically - dogmatic in their position on this matter?
Given "Critical Thinking" as a set of rules the child can actively learn to make judgements from as questioning what is given to them... it becomes a choice as to whether they are "faithful" in choosing a religious path for themselves or not.
Personally I found my own parents kept up with some religious views however my own choices on the same matters are profoundly different...
Making the assumption that whatever is taught will stay is not actually true...
It is what is taught with a strong emotional memory that is remembered...
I can still quite calmly describe events from *before* I went to school with enough recall to actually state with quite a significant accuracy as to events of the days remembered.
the only basis for any of these strong memories at the time are entirely emotional events attached to the memories.
If you or myself or any other parent gives the child a strong positive or negative emotional response to any situation to our children... THOSE are the days remembered.
So irrespective of faith or lack thereof, any parent or teacher has to provide a stable environment but also allow for events to have significant emotional value in a positive way with the children being taught.
I have developed this line of thinking *prior* to becoming a parent and I have actively been a teacher in a classroom for the experience of Assisting other teachers and being the primary teacher concerned for ESOL classes.
Don't sell the "dogmatic concept"s as being the primary focus for the children, a strong sense of fun and enjoyment will enhance the learning experience,
A strong negative feeling for any reason WILL affect the student equally the same as an overriding joy.
there is always a question of balancing these and a lot of critical thinking is based around rules that are defined and can be adhered to, Faith based rules can be considered abstractions of the same, so anyone saying science and faith have to be a dichotomy is restricting their worldview in as much the same way as any other dichotomous thought processes.
I have a personal hobby of computer programming and I enjoy it. However I have no consideration for the math behind it, I more enjoy that I can conceive an idea and make an expression of it to interact with... THAT is a power *anyone* can be capable of...
the only question is... how do you interact with and deal with the ideas?
Can you work in abstractions? or do you need what you sense to be "real"?
Faith or Athiest... some of the basic questions remain the same
Cannot think of a name wrote:"Where's my immortality?" will be the new "Where's my jetpack?"
Maineiacs wrote:"We're going to build a canal, and we're going to make Columbia pay for it!" -- Teddy Roosevelt
Ifreann wrote:That's not a Freudian slip. A Freudian slip is when you say one thing and mean your mother.
by Distruzio » Mon May 28, 2012 4:55 am
Simon Cowell of the RR wrote:So the OP says that brainwashing a child into a belief system will not affect their judgement?
I happen to disagree.
Have you ever interrogated a child? They confidently state beliefs, but when you pursue the reasoning, they have no idea. Because of how their parents raised them, they find controversial concepts axiomatic.
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 4:56 am
Divair wrote:Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 5:00 am
Simon Cowell of the RR wrote:So the OP says that brainwashing a child into a belief system will not affect their judgement?
I happen to disagree.
Have you ever interrogated a child? They confidently state beliefs, but when you pursue the reasoning, they have no idea. Because of how their parents raised them, they find controversial concepts axiomatic.
by AiliailiA » Mon May 28, 2012 5:01 am
NERVUN wrote:Divair wrote:Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
And so how do YOU plan to get your kids to choose good foods to eat?
Cannot think of a name wrote:"Where's my immortality?" will be the new "Where's my jetpack?"
Maineiacs wrote:"We're going to build a canal, and we're going to make Columbia pay for it!" -- Teddy Roosevelt
Ifreann wrote:That's not a Freudian slip. A Freudian slip is when you say one thing and mean your mother.
by Divair » Mon May 28, 2012 5:01 am
NERVUN wrote:Divair wrote:Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
And so how do YOU plan to get your kids to choose good foods to eat?
by Rubiconic Crossings V2 rev 1f » Mon May 28, 2012 5:03 am
NERVUN wrote:Divair wrote:Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
And so how do YOU plan to get your kids to choose good foods to eat?
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 5:03 am
Divair wrote:Educate them about each type of food. Once that is done, I let them choose.
by Divair » Mon May 28, 2012 5:05 am
NERVUN wrote:Ailiailia wrote:
Wait until they're hungry, then put it on their plate.
I'm being ironical. That may be OK for food, but it is not OK for knowledge.
Oh... so you plan to not SPEAK to your child in order to allow them to decide what language to take up?Divair wrote:Educate them about each type of food. Once that is done, I let them choose.
I really, really, REALLY want to see you do this. Please, I really want to see this in action with a child starting solid foods. This would be fabulous.
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 5:05 am
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 5:07 am
Divair wrote:NERVUN wrote:Oh... so you plan to not SPEAK to your child in order to allow them to decide what language to take up?
I really, really, REALLY want to see you do this. Please, I really want to see this in action with a child starting solid foods. This would be fabulous.
A child starting solid foods? No, nosense. Try a bit later on in life, when they can eat what they want (physically, of course)
Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
by Rubiconic Crossings V2 rev 1f » Mon May 28, 2012 5:08 am
by Divair » Mon May 28, 2012 5:09 am
NERVUN wrote:Divair wrote:A child starting solid foods? No, nosense. Try a bit later on in life, when they can eat what they want (physically, of course)
No, no, no my friend. You stated:Beyond the fact that shoving your views down someone else's throat isn't very moral, there is one biological fact that makes it completely morally wrong:
They aren't mentally developed yet. This makes kids very susceptible to brainwashing.
So you're shoving your views about good food, literally, down your child's throat. You are laying patterns as to what foods they will develop a taste for, brainwashing them.
How unmoral of you.
by Corilias » Mon May 28, 2012 5:10 am
by AiliailiA » Mon May 28, 2012 5:11 am
NERVUN wrote:Simon Cowell of the RR wrote:So the OP says that brainwashing a child into a belief system will not affect their judgement?
I happen to disagree.
Have you ever interrogated a child? They confidently state beliefs, but when you pursue the reasoning, they have no idea. Because of how their parents raised them, they find controversial concepts axiomatic.
Yes, and when I ask my 4-year-old about why we shouldn't hit his brother, he will tell me that it's wrong, but not why.
He is just starting to grasp the concept of empathy and understanding that people outside of him have their own worth and lead separate lives.
I think I'll keep impressing upon him to not hit his brother though. I'd rather not have to worry about him hurting his sibling instead of presenting a logical argument about it to him that he is incapable of understanding.
Cannot think of a name wrote:"Where's my immortality?" will be the new "Where's my jetpack?"
Maineiacs wrote:"We're going to build a canal, and we're going to make Columbia pay for it!" -- Teddy Roosevelt
Ifreann wrote:That's not a Freudian slip. A Freudian slip is when you say one thing and mean your mother.
by AiliailiA » Mon May 28, 2012 5:13 am
Cannot think of a name wrote:"Where's my immortality?" will be the new "Where's my jetpack?"
Maineiacs wrote:"We're going to build a canal, and we're going to make Columbia pay for it!" -- Teddy Roosevelt
Ifreann wrote:That's not a Freudian slip. A Freudian slip is when you say one thing and mean your mother.
by NERVUN » Mon May 28, 2012 5:17 am
Divair wrote:NERVUN wrote:No, no, no my friend. You stated:
So you're shoving your views about good food, literally, down your child's throat. You are laying patterns as to what foods they will develop a taste for, brainwashing them.
How unmoral of you.
Until they're six or seven. There is no choice. They need food to survive. Last I checked, you do not need religion to survive.
by Corilias » Mon May 28, 2012 5:20 am
NERVUN wrote:And I wonder just when you think parents start teaching their children their values.
by Divair » Mon May 28, 2012 5:20 am
NERVUN wrote:Divair wrote:Until they're six or seven. There is no choice. They need food to survive. Last I checked, you do not need religion to survive.
A 6-year-old is not known for their knowledge of nutrition.
And I wonder just when you think parents start teaching their children their values.
Oh, as for the mini-poll, I'm the father of two.
by Samuraikoku » Mon May 28, 2012 5:27 am
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