When did you choose to be straight?

by **Condunum** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:27 am

Raeyh wrote:
Just as he made me bisexual.

If you are bisexual, you are capable of being straight as anyone else. I could understand people who don't find women attractive, such as homosexuals, but why wouldn't you chose a monogamous relationship with a woman?

Not true. He is capable of acting straight, but the attraction to males is still there.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:28 am

Condunum wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
If you are bisexual, you are capable of being straight as anyone else. I could understand people who don't find women attractive, such as homosexuals, but why wouldn't you chose a monogamous relationship with a woman?

Not true. He is capable of acting straight, but the attraction to males is still there.

Much like heterosexual men still have an attraction to women other than their wife, but if you are faithful, who really cares?

by **Ifreann** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:31 am

Raeyh wrote:
Just as he made me bisexual.

If you are bisexual, you are capable of being straight as anyone else.

Bisexuals can stop being attracted to members of their own sex? Since when?

I could understand people who don't find women attractive, such as homosexuals, but why wouldn't you chose a monogamous relationship with a woman?

Bisexuality has what to do with monogamy?

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:34 am

Bisexuals can stop being attracted to members of their own sex? Since when?

If you are married to a member of the opposite sex and don't have sex with your own, that's enough for most people to consider you straight.

by **Condunum** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:36 am

Raeyh wrote:
Condunum wrote:Not true. He is capable of acting straight, but the attraction to males is still there.

Much like heterosexual men still have an attraction to women other than their wife, but if you are faithful, who really cares?

Well obviously the bisexual man/woman will care.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:37 am

Condunum wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
Much like heterosexual men still have an attraction to women other than their wife, but if you are faithful, who really cares?

Well obviously the bisexual man/woman will care.

That you are attracted to men or women that you really shouldn't be having sex with anyway because you are married? That's an odd thing to care about.

by **Tmutarakhan** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:38 am

Raeyh wrote:
Condunum wrote:Not true. He is capable of acting straight, but the attraction to males is still there.

Much like heterosexual men still have an attraction to women other than their wife, but if you are faithful, who really cares?

Exactly. Asking them when they CHOSE to be attracted to more than one woman would be analogous.

by **Ifreann** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:39 am

Raeyh wrote:
Bisexuals can stop being attracted to members of their own sex? Since when?

If you are married to a member of the opposite sex and don't have sex with your own, that's enough for most people to consider you straight.

One's sexuality isn't a matter of public perception.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:42 am

Ifreann wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
If you are married to a member of the opposite sex and don't have sex with your own, that's enough for most people to consider you straight.

One's sexuality isn't a matter of public perception.

It's enough that you should consider yourself to be straight, too. Straight as an arrow.

by **Condunum** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:43 am

Raeyh wrote:
Condunum wrote:Well obviously the bisexual man/woman will care.

That you are attracted to men or women that you really shouldn't be having sex with anyway because you are married? That's an odd thing to care about.

I'm not sure what you're saying. It sounds like you're saying that sexual attraction to someone else when you are married is a bad thing.

by **Ifreann** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:44 am

Raeyh wrote:
Ifreann wrote:One's sexuality isn't a matter of public perception.

It's enough that you should consider yourself to be straight, too. Straight as an arrow.

It's not anything.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:45 am

Condunum wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
That you are attracted to men or women that you really shouldn't be having sex with anyway because you are married? That's an odd thing to care about.

I'm not sure what you're saying. It sounds like you're saying that sexual attraction to someone else when you are married is a bad thing.

Of course it is. People tend to look down on adultery and sexual attraction is the first step towards that.

It's not anything.

Well, you have ridiculous standards for being sexually straight.

by **Ceannairceach** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:45 am

Raeyh wrote:
Ifreann wrote:One's sexuality isn't a matter of public perception.

It's enough that you should consider yourself to be straight, too. Straight as an arrow.

Except that it isn't.

How people see you has fuck all to do with one's sexuality.

by **Mavorpen** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:48 am

Raeyh wrote:
Condunum wrote:I'm not sure what you're saying. It sounds like you're saying that sexual attraction to someone else when you are married is a bad thing.

Of course it is. People tend to look down on adultery and sexual attraction is the first step towards that.

I don't.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:48 am

Mavorpen wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
Of course it is. People tend to look down on adultery and sexual attraction is the first step towards that.

I don't.

You will find that adultery is often listed for as grounds for divorce.

by **Teotan** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:50 am

I didn't choose to be straight. Really, I didn't. My dick did it for me.

by **Mavorpen** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:51 am

Raeyh wrote:
Mavorpen wrote:
I don't.

You will find that adultery is often listed for as grounds for divorce.

That's nice. My point flew over your head didn't it.

by **Jezland** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:52 am

I chose to be straight on 22nd of June, 1998. I recall it was a damp day with a slight hint of horse manure in the air...

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:53 am

Mavorpen wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
You will find that adultery is often listed for as grounds for divorce.

That's nice. My point flew over your head didn't it.

Pretty much. Even if you are fine with adultery, it's likely your partner isn't.

by **Xenoglade Plugins** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:53 am

Raeyh wrote:If you are bisexual, you are capable of being straight as anyone else. I could understand people who don't find women attractive, such as homosexuals, but why wouldn't you chose a monogamous relationship with a woman?

Hey look, an anti-sexual that doesn't understand human sexuality, how uncommon and unexpected! All sarcasm aside, I think your ignorance of basic biology is kinda cute. It's quaint, in a sense.

by **Mavorpen** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:54 am

Raeyh wrote:
Mavorpen wrote:
That's nice. My point flew over your head didn't it.

Pretty much. Even if you are fine with adultery, it's likely your partner isn't.

When did I say they would...?

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:55 am

Mavorpen wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
Pretty much. Even if you are fine with adultery, it's likely your partner isn't.

When did I say they would...?

I don't know, I'm trying to make sense of what you are saying, but you are being too confusing and it's going over my head, like you said.

by **Condunum** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:55 am

Raeyh wrote:
Condunum wrote:I'm not sure what you're saying. It sounds like you're saying that sexual attraction to someone else when you are married is a bad thing.

Of course it is. People tend to look down on adultery and sexual attraction is the first step towards that.

It's not anything.

Well, you have ridiculous standards for being sexually straight.

That doesn't make it bad.

by **Raeyh** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:57 am

Condunum wrote:
Raeyh wrote:
Of course it is. People tend to look down on adultery and sexual attraction is the first step towards that.

Well, you have ridiculous standards for being sexually straight.

That doesn't make it bad.

Well, it certainly isn't good. I doubt your partner would be pleased about it.

by **Mavorpen** » Sat May 12, 2012 9:57 am

Raeyh wrote:
Mavorpen wrote:
When did I say they would...?

I don't know, I'm trying to make sense of what you are saying, but you are being too confusing and it's going over my head, like you said.

Adultery is not bad. What is bad is adultery without consent of your wife/husband.

When did you choose to be straight?

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