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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:02 pm

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Scomagia wrote:Yes, my brother. Not what I was saying good stuff to, obviously.

May I ask what happened?

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Postby New Heathera » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:07 pm

I'm a male who's thankfully never been involved in a situation like rape, but I will say this: I remember a while back we saw the presentation of T-shirts with stories and comments written on them about rape victims by rape victims, or in the case of deceased, loved ones of rape victims. After seeing all those stories and what those people felt about what happened, I have this desire now: To head down to the nearest prison, drag every rapist out of their cell, and incinerate them alive.

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Postby Tyhcoon » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:12 pm

im a guy and havn't been through this, but i will try to help w some support.

I am very sorry all of you have been through this; it must be a dark shadow cast over your life. Please, do not give up. As for the people who were twisted enough to do this to a person, curse them. Just pick up the peices; everyone has to do it sometimes. I won't try to relate to you, becuase i cant. You are alive though. Stronger. Harder. Better. KEEP GOING. BECUASE IT IS YOUR LIFE!!!!

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Postby Creative Vikings » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:14 pm

I dont think males get raped that often.

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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:14 pm

Tyhcoon wrote:im a guy and havn't been through this, but i will try to help w some support.

I am very sorry all of you have been through this; it must be a dark shadow cast over your life. Please, do not give up. As for the people who were twisted enough to do this to a person, curse them. Just pick up the peices; everyone has to do it sometimes. I won't try to relate to you, becuase i cant. You are alive though. Stronger. Harder. Better. KEEP GOING. BECUASE IT IS YOUR LIFE!!!!

3 in 10 people are you, 3 in 10 people are STRONGER!

I honestly wouldn't say that my experience has made me stronger, if anything it fucked up my wiring a little bit.
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Postby Tyhcoon » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:15 pm

Creative Vikings wrote:I dont think males get raped that often.


No. It doesn't. I know why, but its not important.
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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:15 pm

Creative Vikings wrote:I dont think males get raped that often.

It's hard to tell because when we do we don't come forward.
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Postby Person012345 » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:15 pm

Creative Vikings wrote:I dont think males get raped that often.

It happens.

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Postby Tyhcoon » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:16 pm

Scomagia wrote:
Tyhcoon wrote:im a guy and havn't been through this, but i will try to help w some support.

I am very sorry all of you have been through this; it must be a dark shadow cast over your life. Please, do not give up. As for the people who were twisted enough to do this to a person, curse them. Just pick up the peices; everyone has to do it sometimes. I won't try to relate to you, becuase i cant. You are alive though. Stronger. Harder. Better. KEEP GOING. BECUASE IT IS YOUR LIFE!!!!

3 in 10 people are you, 3 in 10 people are STRONGER!

I honestly wouldn't say that my experience has made me stronger, if anything it fucked up my wiring a little bit.


I'm sorry if my support wasn't taken in the right direction. :(
I just want to help.
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Postby Nahgallay » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:16 pm

I'm sorry for what happened to you. I am a survivor as well. I have been raped multiple times in my life. It is not spoken about enough. There are too many rapists out there! I never learned in school about rape, how wrong it is, or anything about the subject. We need to educate young men how wrong raping someone is and how damaging it is to that person! Not just physically, but all of the severe emotional trauma that develops afterwards. A lot of rapes are classified as "date rape". Fathers or a strong male role model in a boys life needs to sit down with them and teach them that when they are with a someone, whether it be a boy or a girl. That if they want to be intimate, if that individual says "no", it means exactly that! Do not hold them down and have sex with them.

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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:17 pm

Tyhcoon wrote:
Scomagia wrote:I honestly wouldn't say that my experience has made me stronger, if anything it fucked up my wiring a little bit.


I'm sorry if my support wasn't taken in the right direction. :(
I just want to help.

I know, I know. :hug:
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Postby Nanatsu no Tsuki » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:17 pm

Scomagia wrote:
Creative Vikings wrote:I dont think males get raped that often.

It's hard to tell because when we do we don't come forward.


I bet it's the same thing that happens when men are abused by their female spouses. They don't report it.
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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:18 pm

Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
Scomagia wrote:It's hard to tell because when we do we don't come forward.


I bet it's the same thing that happens when men are abused by their female spouses. They don't report it.

I have a little experience with that also, and yes it's very similar.
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Postby The Daktanese Technocracy » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:18 pm

Nahgallay wrote:I'm sorry for what happened to you. I am a survivor as well. I have been raped multiple times in my life. It is not spoken about enough. There are too many rapists out there! I never learned in school about rape, how wrong it is, or anything about the subject. We need to educate young men how wrong raping someone is and how damaging it is to that person! Not just physically, but all of the severe emotional trauma that develops afterwards. A lot of rapes are classified as "date rape". Fathers or a strong male role model in a boys life needs to sit down with them and teach them that when they are with a someone, whether it be a boy or a girl. That if they want to be intimate, if that individual says "no", it means exactly that! Do not hold them down and have sex with them.

Women rape people too.
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Postby Creative Vikings » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:22 pm

Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
Scomagia wrote:It's hard to tell because when we do we don't come forward.


I bet it's the same thing that happens when men are abused by their female spouses. They don't report it.

In NZ one man was told to "harden the f*ck up".

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Postby Nanatsu no Tsuki » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:22 pm

Scomagia wrote:
Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
I bet it's the same thing that happens when men are abused by their female spouses. They don't report it.

I have a little experience with that also, and yes it's very similar.


Which is sad, because they suffer just as much.
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Postby Goodclark » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:23 pm

Person012345 wrote:
Creative Vikings wrote:I dont think males get raped that often.

It happens.

definitely not as much as females
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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:25 pm

Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
Scomagia wrote:I have a little experience with that also, and yes it's very similar.


Which is sad, because they suffer just as much.

Quite.
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Postby Galborg » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:27 pm

I signed the petition. I hope it helps.

There's a scene in a version of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo where the rape scene is very graphic. Should it be allowed in there?

depends. if it serves to move the story forward, is done tastefully, yes. if it's just a scene that the director felt would be fun to watch and was done with all the care given to killing a cockroach... then no.


Tasteful rape scenes??? That's illogical, captain.

A rape scene so that the Audience knows who the bad guys are makes sense.

A rape scene where the Survivor falls in love with the rapist should be banned.
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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:29 pm

Galborg wrote:I signed the petition. I hope it helps.

There's a scene in a version of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo where the rape scene is very graphic. Should it be allowed in there?

depends. if it serves to move the story forward, is done tastefully, yes. if it's just a scene that the director felt would be fun to watch and was done with all the care given to killing a cockroach... then no.


Tasteful rape scenes??? That's illogical, captain.

A rape scene so that the Audience knows who the bad guys are makes sense.

A rape scene where the Survivor falls in love with the rapist should be discouraged.

Fixed.

Don't censor art just because it might be tasteless.
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Postby The Daktanese Technocracy » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:31 pm

Galborg wrote:I signed the petition. I hope it helps.

There's a scene in a version of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo where the rape scene is very graphic. Should it be allowed in there?

depends. if it serves to move the story forward, is done tastefully, yes. if it's just a scene that the director felt would be fun to watch and was done with all the care given to killing a cockroach... then no.


Tasteful rape scenes??? That's illogical, captain.

A rape scene so that the Audience knows who the bad guys are makes sense.

A rape scene where the Survivor falls in love with the rapist should be banned.

Why? There is absolutely no reason
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Postby Nanatsu no Tsuki » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:31 pm

Both petitions signed.
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Postby Wikipedia and Universe » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:36 pm

Scomagia wrote:
Tyhcoon wrote:im a guy and havn't been through this, but i will try to help w some support.

I am very sorry all of you have been through this; it must be a dark shadow cast over your life. Please, do not give up. As for the people who were twisted enough to do this to a person, curse them. Just pick up the peices; everyone has to do it sometimes. I won't try to relate to you, becuase i cant. You are alive though. Stronger. Harder. Better. KEEP GOING. BECUASE IT IS YOUR LIFE!!!!

3 in 10 people are you, 3 in 10 people are STRONGER!
I honestly wouldn't say that my experience has made me stronger, if anything it fucked up my wiring a little bit.
I don't think he meant that the experience itself made you stronger, but rather that it just happened and then you made yourself stronger. ;)
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Postby Scomagia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:38 pm

Wikipedia and Universe wrote:
Scomagia wrote:I honestly wouldn't say that my experience has made me stronger, if anything it fucked up my wiring a little bit.
I don't think he meant that the experience itself made you stronger, but rather that it just happened and then you made yourself stronger. ;)

Maybe...
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Postby Tothia » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:45 pm

Did you know that before 1960 (I beleive) rape wasn't illegal. That sucks, I can't relate to your problem though since 1. I'm a male and 2. It never happend to me.
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