UED wrote:I actually hoped that society could change by having more reason and compassion. We have made progress but this isn't far enough
Yeah, and this is the heart of the problem. There also seems to be a huge backlash against trying to change society, and completely black and white thinking on everything.
For example, consent is either something we cannot ever ask for, or it's a 30 page contract that has to be witnessed and signed by a lawyer. Too many people pretend there's no middle ground.
Ostroeuropa wrote:We need to start teaching consent ethics at an early stage of development.
A lot of rapes are "entitlement"-rapes, which accounts for the somebody they know is more likely thing.
It also explains how so many people seem to regard people as "asking for it" in various ways, and things like steubenvilles public reaction.
That's probably the simplest and most effective solution, to be honest.
The extra bonus this yields is that consent ethics has multiple societal applications, not just rape.
I agree with this. It should be simple too. But, if we work to change the ethics of society, we might not like what those ethics say about us.
To use Steubenville as an example, a lot of people weren't really defending those boys, they were actually defending their own actions. I saw a lot of "I don't get what the big deal is, back in my day, that's what cheerleaders were for! It's just kids having fun."
That's even true with more mundane examples. I read a cracked article recently about jokes customer service people hate to hear. The comments had so many nasty comments directed towards the customer service folks that find repetitive, somewhat demeaning jokes, unfunny. People were seriously flying into rages about employees not liking to hear, "You missed a spot." So, it's really not surprising that changing attitudes about rape is met with such hostility.
If we could all just get over ourselves, realise that we've all been assholes at some point in time or another, we might be able to actually improve society.