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by Neohippies » Wed May 02, 2012 1:38 pm
by Conserative Morality » Wed May 02, 2012 1:38 pm
Astrolinium wrote:2.I haven't seen that movie, but I would say that a graphic rape scene was probably a poor choice. Most importantly, from a perspective of it being an unnecessary thing to do that might cause real distress to viewers.
Less importantly, from a cinematographic perspective, something more tasteful, perhaps even off camera with simply shadows shown, would like be much more dramatic and effective than violence, which is a thing we have been in a big way desensitized towards.
by Hardened Pyrokinetics » Wed May 02, 2012 1:38 pm
Pope Joan wrote:I had a client who stole the magnetic flashing light from the top of a police car.
It was parked in front of his house because they were asking his parents about his theft of 100 pounds of copper wire from the high school.
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by Norstal » Wed May 02, 2012 1:38 pm
Homosexy wrote:Norstal wrote:I'm curious as to where this happened, but if you don't want to talk about it, it's okay. I'm thinking it can happen everywhere, but I just want to confirm it.
It can happen anywhere. It does happen everywhere. For me, I was taken from right outside of my campus to a house in a neighboring town.
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by Former Wellboneland » Wed May 02, 2012 1:39 pm
Neohippies wrote:I'm very embarrassed and ashamed for living in a country where rapists get 2 or 3 months of parole. Not even prison. And even though they could get prison sentences, they are treated like some fucking kings. Guess what country. You guessed it folks, it's Finland!
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by Inkarzikan » Wed May 02, 2012 1:42 pm
by Homosexy » Wed May 02, 2012 1:43 pm
Shanix wrote:I apologize if it has been asked before Homosexy, but just because I'm wondering, you've contacted the police, ja?
by Cerberion » Wed May 02, 2012 1:47 pm
by Shanix » Wed May 02, 2012 1:53 pm
Homosexy wrote:Shanix wrote:I apologize if it has been asked before Homosexy, but just because I'm wondering, you've contacted the police, ja?
Oh yes. Absolutely. There's an investigation underway and everything. They've collected DNA, etc. I wouldn't be on here talking if there wasn't an investigation going on.
by 1000 Cats » Wed May 02, 2012 1:54 pm
Homosexy wrote:1000 Cats wrote:Rape is a rather complex phenomenon. The reason it's shameful for men is because it's rather emasculating. The reason it's shameful for women, I think, while similar, could be more complex. I hope I don't offend anyone here, but I mentioned in another thread the idea that women may be predisposed towards submitting in violent sexual situations. Simply a survival mechanism: we don't really have very good means of defending ourselves, so evolutionarily speaking it's better to survive and be raped than to die. However, this makes many women wonder if that involuntary submission means they really did "want it" on some level. That fear and confusion is what a lot of women who do not report a rape cite as their reason.
I think rape should become less of a taboo subject. As the OP stated, it's actually really prevalent, but we never know it because no one ever talks about it. It should be treated as the crime it is, with a very real perpetrator and victim, the same way as is murder.
You are not offending anyone. The survival mechanism that you spoke of is exactly how I survived, because had I viciously fought back, I am very confident that I would be dead.
While I understand why women don't report and don't say anything (my aunt actually said to my mother that she would be embarrassed and that she couldn't believe I was telling anyone), I disagree very much with that course of action. Victims blame themselves on some level. We always will. And I think that letting people know what has happened to us, is really hard.This thread was really difficult for me to make. Typing this brings tears to my eyes. It's really hard. But I think that every single one of us needs to come out as publicly as we can. Faces need to be attached to statistics so we're not just thinking about some girl that we don't know that this happened to a year ago, and instead it becomes about a girl that we know, who tries to be a good person, and who this happened to a week and a half ago. That's why I've come out so publicly to some of my friends and on here. I don't want this to happen to anyone else, ever because I can't even begin to explain how horrifying it is. And I think that girls who this has happened to need to understand that to stop this problem, we need to start coming out and talking about it, not just for our own wellbeing, but for the wellbeing of the other girls and guys around us who this happens to every day.
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by Homosexy » Wed May 02, 2012 2:00 pm
Cerberion wrote:I guess I can understand why rape victims find it hard to come forward. First off there is the event itself, where it has to be sickening to the victim to be invaded and dominated in such a way. I am sure there will be self recrimination aspects of whether they did something to trigger the event. Then there is the sheer knowledge that this creature had complete control of them and took away that which is most fundamentally private.
Then comes the added complexity when if they do report it, they have to undergo another invasive process to gather evidence. Even then it's not done when they have to face the perpetrator in court.
It's an inhuman act to perpatrate against another human being and I can not even conceive of how any human being could take the steps to perform a rape.
As for how to control the issue, rape awareness is of course important but I am not sure that it has any effect on the number of rapes that occur each year. I can't imagine just how many go unreported. I'm probably going to have to start prostate examinations this year and the idea of that is enough to make me nauseous.
I can not even comprehend just what a rape victim has to go through mentally.
I don't know that capital punishment is the answer, but I think life without parole would be satisfactory.
I'd also like to in some way protect the victims from having to be exposed and the entire thing rehashed in the public eye.
I don't think that is possible however. All I can say is that I have massive respect for any rape victim that has the courage to speak out against the crime. That will empower other victims to have the strength to stand up to those that have performed this evil against them.
I suppose it just has to come down to individual strength and supporting other victims.
Ideally, I'd like to see the perpatrators castraded but I suspect that won't ever be allowed.
by Wazkyraque » Wed May 02, 2012 2:02 pm
by Former Wellboneland » Wed May 02, 2012 2:03 pm
Homosexy wrote:Cerberion wrote:I guess I can understand why rape victims find it hard to come forward. First off there is the event itself, where it has to be sickening to the victim to be invaded and dominated in such a way. I am sure there will be self recrimination aspects of whether they did something to trigger the event. Then there is the sheer knowledge that this creature had complete control of them and took away that which is most fundamentally private.
Then comes the added complexity when if they do report it, they have to undergo another invasive process to gather evidence. Even then it's not done when they have to face the perpetrator in court.
Amen. None of it's easy. There are no words for how hard it is.It's an inhuman act to perpatrate against another human being and I can not even conceive of how any human being could take the steps to perform a rape.
As for how to control the issue, rape awareness is of course important but I am not sure that it has any effect on the number of rapes that occur each year. I can't imagine just how many go unreported. I'm probably going to have to start prostate examinations this year and the idea of that is enough to make me nauseous.
I can not even comprehend just what a rape victim has to go through mentally.
Out of the victim's that I've talked to, and what I've gone through, pretty much we're angry for the rest of our lives, and we'll always blame ourselves to some extent. Just a glimpse into it all.I don't know that capital punishment is the answer, but I think life without parole would be satisfactory.
I'd also like to in some way protect the victims from having to be exposed and the entire thing rehashed in the public eye.
I don't think that is possible however. All I can say is that I have massive respect for any rape victim that has the courage to speak out against the crime. That will empower other victims to have the strength to stand up to those that have performed this evil against them.
I suppose it just has to come down to individual strength and supporting other victims.
Ideally, I'd like to see the perpatrators castraded but I suspect that won't ever be allowed.
In my opinion, rapists deserve capital punishment FAR more than murderers, and I think that they should all be castrated and burned, but... that's probably not going to happen either.
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by Gravlen » Wed May 02, 2012 2:15 pm
Homosexy wrote:Last Saturday, I became a victim and now a survivor of a rape.
Homosexy wrote:There's a scene in a version of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo where the rape scene is very graphic. Should it be allowed in there?
Homosexy wrote:Anything else that people want to throw in, go ahead.
by Shofercia » Wed May 02, 2012 2:15 pm
by Ecans » Wed May 02, 2012 2:16 pm
by Gauthier » Wed May 02, 2012 2:18 pm
Proloteriat wrote:Vaugania wrote:Solution = add rape to the list of capital crimes. Or at least severe cases.
This is something that is a bane to society and needs to stop.
Actualy it is proven that its not the punishment that's the best deterent its the risk of being caught. We have to make sure there's rape awareness and naturaly a good police to defend against it.
by Basking Turtles » Wed May 02, 2012 2:23 pm
It seems to me that taking someone's life is still worse than hurting someone.Homosexy wrote:In my opinion, rapists deserve capital punishment FAR more than murderers, and I think that they should all be castrated and burned, but... that's probably not going to happen either.
by Herskerstad » Wed May 02, 2012 2:23 pm
Homosexy wrote:Last Saturday, I became a victim and now a survivor of a rape. Before this, I did not know about this world that I would soon be thrown into where more than 3 out of the 10 people I told, replied with "me too".
by Hardened Pyrokinetics » Wed May 02, 2012 2:29 pm
Pope Joan wrote:I had a client who stole the magnetic flashing light from the top of a police car.
It was parked in front of his house because they were asking his parents about his theft of 100 pounds of copper wire from the high school.
Galloism wrote:I bet it takes a lot of weed to get stoned to death.
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greed and death wrote:It is a sad day when we criticize the President for honoring a solider who gave everything for his nation.
by The Blaatschapen » Wed May 02, 2012 2:31 pm
Hardened Pyrokinetics wrote:Just warning you now, OP, don't be surprised when trolls (and people who legitimately hold the beliefs) show up and start saying you deserved it or that you're lying, especially because of your Nation name.
by Homosexy » Wed May 02, 2012 2:32 pm
Former Wellboneland wrote:What? You are serious? They are equal to murderers.
by Soviet Russia Republic » Wed May 02, 2012 2:32 pm
Conserative Morality wrote:There's a scene in a version of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo where the rape scene is very graphic. Should it be allowed in there?
Yes.
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