So that's what they're calling it nowadays

by **Wilgrove** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:42 pm

Meet the sexual healer who has slept with 1,500 men

THIS woman has had sex with more than a thousand men - and most of them are the husbands or boyfriends of other women.

Mare Simone, 54, calls herself a "sex surrogate" and has devoted her working life to helping men, women and couples overcome problems in the bedroom....

Contiunes here

This woman helps couples by having sex with them, both female and male. It's interesting. I wonder if she ever got any threatening letters.

So, is this a valid practice? Would you go see a woman, and have sex with a woman to help your relationship problems?

by **Taeshan** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:43 pm

oh just call yourself a prostitute. Get over it.

"Skallvia" · by **Maurepas** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:44 pm

I dont see whats wrong with it...personally, going where so many men have gone before would irk me a bit, :lol2:

, but, whatever floats your boat...

by **Macindia** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:48 pm

Maurepas wrote:I dont see whats wrong with it...personally, going where so many men have gone before would irk me a bit, , but, whatever floats your boat...

by **Taeshan** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:50 pm

Macindia wrote:
Maurepas wrote:I dont see whats wrong with it...personally, going where so many men have gone before would irk me a bit, , but, whatever floats your boat...

Kindoff liket the opposite of space, or well the place you get diseases.

by **Cannot think of a name** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:55 pm

Taeshan wrote:oh just call yourself a prostitute. Get over it.

I don't think it's neccisarily the same, really. Actually doesn't seem like that bad an idea. To have someone who isn't afraid to say something or too insecure to say something about the way his or her lover is performing because they don't want to hurt their lover's feelings or don't know how to articulate it or just have hang ups that prevent them from saying something or from someone who got the money so as long as you're paid up you're a stud could actually be a good thing.

Someone who can impartially say, "Yeah, that thing you're doing there, not working. Stop it." Or just to get someone over their hang ups so that they can enjoy sex without worrying about this thing or that. It's not like sex is less intimate and meaningful if you don't have a bunch of hang ups and insecurities about it when doing it with your partner. And since it's not the 18th century I don't expect the woman I'm with to be pure as the driven snow, and hopefully she's learned what she likes and doesn't like with the men she's been with before me so that we can skip some of the preliminaries when we have sex and get to the good stuff quicker.

by **Port Arcana** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 3:12 pm

Well, at least she's being safe about it by having all her clients get STI checks.

And no, I'd never consider it.

by **Taeshan** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 3:14 pm

Port Arcana wrote:Well, at least she's being safe about it by having all her clients get STI checks.

And no, I'd never consider it.

at makes it okay right. (says yes in background)

by **Lackadaisical2** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 4:58 pm

It seems sound theoretically. Have sex with someone else (someone who is ready to help you cope) to get over your issues, then have a better sex life with future or current women in your life. I wouldn't do it cause the idea of that many guys... is just gross, plus I don't really have any such issues.

by **Buffett and Colbert** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 4:59 pm

Taeshan wrote:oh just call yourself a prostitute. Get over it.

^This^

by **Ryadn** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:12 pm

I don't think there's anything wrong with at all--but I do think that there's something wrong with blurring the lines of therapy. There are certified sex therapists in the U.S. They do not have sex with their clients (that is: not with the consent of the law and ethics of the board; I can't vouch for individuals). As she admitted in the article, most of the problems people encounter surrounding sex are mental and emotional, which is why therapy can be helpful, but that certainly doesn't require sex to take place.

If she wants to bill this as "tutoring", fine---not a bad idea! But calling herself a sex "therapist", especially holding a degree in sex therapy, gives a really conflicting and dangerous message. Therapists and counselors, like members of the clergy, are people who hold a lot of trust---to be effective, clients/parishioners need to be able to be open, honest and vulnerable with them, and to trust them to always do what's in the client's best interest, and always act ethically. Unfortunately, SOME therapists and clergy take advantage of this trust and breach ethical and legal boundaries, wrecking untold damage. I fear that promoting actual sexual contact in the setting of "therapy" will further erode these boundaries, to the detriment of those seeking psychological help.

by **OMGeverynameistaken** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:43 pm

She's...kinda scary looking.

by **Pevisopolis** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:45 pm

OMGeverynameistaken wrote:She's...kinda scary looking.

Name a professional Prostitute who isn't?

by **Grave_n_idle** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:47 pm

Wilgrove wrote:
Meet the sexual healer who has slept with 1,500 men

THIS woman has had sex with more than a thousand men - and most of them are the husbands or boyfriends of other women.

Mare Simone, 54, calls herself a "sex surrogate" and has devoted her working life to helping men, women and couples overcome problems in the bedroom....

Contiunes here

This woman helps couples by having sex with them, both female and male. It's interesting. I wonder if she ever got any threatening letters.

So, is this a valid practice? Would you go see a woman, and have sex with a woman to help your relationship problems?

You realise that "The Sun" is basically "My mate said..." but on paper, right?

by **OMGeverynameistaken** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:47 pm

Pevisopolis wrote:
OMGeverynameistaken wrote:She's...kinda scary looking.

Name a professional Prostitute who isn't?

It's not so much her physical appearance, but the sort of side-glance/open-mouth-grin thing. She looks like she's about to go for the throat. And not in the good way, if you take my meaning.

by **Pevisopolis** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:48 pm

OMGeverynameistaken wrote:And not in the good way, if you take my meaning.

by **Vetalia** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:48 pm

When I get this feeling, I need sexual healing...

by **Christmahanikwanzikah** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:49 pm

It's better than the "Sexual Rock Star" Penn & Teller devoted part of one episode of Bullshit! on...

by **Krytenia** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:50 pm

Vetalia wrote:When I get this feeling, I need sexual healing...

You stole my joke. Grr.

by **Wilgrove** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:57 pm

Grave_n_idle wrote:You realise that "The Sun" is basically "My mate said..." but on paper, right?

and that disqualifies it from being a valid topic to discuss....how?

by **Pevisopolis** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 5:58 pm

Wilgrove wrote:
Grave_n_idle wrote:You realise that "The Sun" is basically "My mate said..." but on paper, right?

and that disqualifies it from being a valid topic to discuss....how?

It doesn't disqualify it, it just does for this topic what FAUX does for New Mitanni or YGO's threads.

by **Rhodmhire** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:01 pm

It's called art.

That's what everything's called that isn't definitive these days, right?

by **Wilgrove** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:01 pm

Pevisopolis wrote:
Wilgrove wrote:
Grave_n_idle wrote:You realise that "The Sun" is basically "My mate said..." but on paper, right?

and that disqualifies it from being a valid topic to discuss....how?

It doesn't disqualify it, it just does for this topic what FAUX does for New Mitanni or YGO's threads.

Hey....I haven't posted any weird or strange news items in awhile.

by **Niur** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:04 pm

Ugh, yet another reason to ban fornication in humans. Period. [/thread]

by **Northern Delmarva** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 6:39 pm

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