Duetopia wrote:Hiddenrun wrote:
Unless the woman is actually seriously injured during the assault, you cannot claim that rape is so incredibly worse than what happens to someone who is falsely accused of rape. Men have lost their jobs, their livelihoods, their families, their standing in the community because of false allegations. You honestly think that rape is so much worse than that?
Sometimes. Rape is actually the only crime that in certain cases may be worse than murder. The point is that the crime does not stop once the sexual act is over. Its memory causes life-long trauma. And women are pre-programmed to experience that trauma more severely than almost anything else that happens to their body.
Think of it this way. When you hear a child scream, it's worse than just some loud noise. Why? Because your brain is wired to have that "extra" primal reaction to this. In much the same way, a woman's brain is programmed to have an extra primal reaction to this violent act. So they experience it as if it were a beating that keeps coming up again and again and its experience is more intense than any beating could be.
Just as being falsely accused of rape can cause life-long trauma. Frankly, I have to wonder if part of the trauma of such crimes might have more to do with society's response to such crimes than the crimes in and of themselves.
In any case, to insist that specific fates are worse than death is somewhat arbitrary; what could ruin one person's life might not seem as bad to another. At the very least, it's plausible that the extent of trauma might vary from individual to individual; so if the emotional victimization is the basis for the heinousness, would that suggest that it depends on the circumstances and targets?



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