
by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:13 pm

by Eine Heimat » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:16 pm

by Natapoc » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:18 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:I hope this topic doesn't degenerate into arguments about my view of sex.
Okay, I hold to feminism, but a very unconventional form of it. I have three positions were are all considered controversial in feminism, but none of them are universally rejected.
1. I do not think that sex is a good thing, and I do not think that women "empower" themselves through promiscuity. Women empower themselves through self-respect and through earning the respect of others.
2. I think that some degree of biological essentialism HAS TO BE true. It's absurd to suggest that there are no statistical psychological differences between the genders, given that sexual dimorphism is universal in mammals. Most men are better than most women at spatial reasoning, probably for fundamentally biological reasons. Most women are better at multitasking and verbal communication, also likely for biological reasons. Of course, these differences are STATISTICAL which means that we still have to evaluate people as individuals.
3. I don't like the language of "equality." I don't think we're all equal. We're not equal in ability. We're not equal in moral character. We're not equal in importance. I think the real way to oppose racism, sexism, and homophobia is not with the idea that we're all equal, because we're not. The real way to oppose prejudice is to hold that we should judge people as individuals, rather than according to the arbitrary demographics they happen to belong to.
What kind of feminist would you say that I am?
And no, I'm not female. I'm a heterosexual male. If that means I can't be a feminist, then what kind of feminist would I be if I held these views and was a woman?

by Magnificent Angkar » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:19 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:1. I do not think that sex is a good thing, and I do not think that women "empower" themselves through promiscuity.

by Mike the Progressive » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:20 pm

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:20 pm
Natapoc wrote:I need some clarification first on part 3. You say we're not all equal but then you say we should be judged as individuals.
Being judged as individuals is exactly what feminists mean when they speak of equality. Feminists are not saying that ever woman is as strong as the strongest man. Feminists are saying that some women are able to do things that some strong men can do. And that if you're dealing with a job that requires strength of a certain amount then you should evaluate strength. Not gender or sex and that no woman should be excluded from something because she is a woman.
Do you believe that?
Are you against laws and policies that discriminate on the basis of gender/sex rather than ability of the individual evaluated individuality?

by Odins Scandinavia » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:21 pm

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:21 pm
Eine Heimat wrote:Idk, individualist feminism? You sound like a pretty mainstream conservative honestly.

by Natapoc » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:22 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:Natapoc wrote:I need some clarification first on part 3. You say we're not all equal but then you say we should be judged as individuals.
Being judged as individuals is exactly what feminists mean when they speak of equality. Feminists are not saying that ever woman is as strong as the strongest man. Feminists are saying that some women are able to do things that some strong men can do. And that if you're dealing with a job that requires strength of a certain amount then you should evaluate strength. Not gender or sex and that no woman should be excluded from something because she is a woman.
Do you believe that?
Are you against laws and policies that discriminate on the basis of gender/sex rather than ability of the individual evaluated individuality?
Number three is a semantics thing. Yes, I agree with you. I just don't like the language of equality. I am better than some people. There are people out there who are better than me. I don't think "We're all equal."

by Imperial Parhe » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:22 pm

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:23 pm
Natapoc wrote:Can you answer the question: Are you against laws and policies that discriminate on the basis of gender/sex rather than ability of the individual evaluated individuality?
With yes or no?

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:24 pm
Imperial Parhe wrote:however, though you do mention judgement through individuals not statistics(which i take to also mean stereotypes and such), some of your posts do exactly that. Many times it seems as if you are alienating one gender completely from the other. On some of your posts on the prostitute legalization, you constantly seem to speak of how you believe men act and think, while also speaking as if women do not think or act similarly.

by Shnercropolis » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:24 pm

by Natapoc » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:25 pm

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:27 pm
Natapoc wrote:Then you are a feminist that does not subscribe to any particular style or movement. However, because of your insistence on using the word "equality" or "equal" in a different way then most feminists you will frequently encounter people who declare you anti feminist. They do this because they attach a different meaning to the word then you do and do not know that you do such.

by Korintar » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:27 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:I hope this topic doesn't degenerate into arguments about my view of sex.
Okay, I hold to feminism, but a very unconventional form of it. I have three positions were are all considered controversial in feminism, but none of them are universally rejected.
1. I do not think that sex is a good thing, and I do not think that women "empower" themselves through promiscuity. Women empower themselves through self-respect and through earning the respect of others.
2. I think that some degree of biological essentialism HAS TO BE true. It's absurd to suggest that there are no statistical psychological differences between the genders, given that sexual dimorphism is universal in mammals. Most men are better than most women at spatial reasoning, probably for fundamentally biological reasons. Most women are better at multitasking and verbal communication, also likely for biological reasons. Of course, these differences are STATISTICAL which means that we still have to evaluate people as individuals.
3. I don't like the language of "equality." I don't think we're all equal. We're not equal in ability. We're not equal in moral character. We're not equal in importance. I think the real way to oppose racism, sexism, and homophobia is not with the idea that we're all equal, because we're not. The real way to oppose prejudice is to hold that we should judge people as individuals, rather than according to the arbitrary demographics they happen to belong to.
What kind of feminist would you say that I am?
And no, I'm not female. I'm a heterosexual male. If that means I can't be a feminist, then what kind of feminist would I be if I held these views and was a woman?


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by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:28 pm
Natapoc wrote:You should also know that you may very well upset some people by using such terminology (people will assume you're calling them inferior)

by TableRase » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:30 pm

by Four-sided Triangles » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:31 pm
Korintar wrote:I addressed my opinions concerning your positions in the prostitution thread. I'd most certainly say that you are anti-sexual. Note, I did not say asexual, meaning you cannot feel sexual attraction, but anti-sexual because, though you are capable of feeling attraction, you have a negative, if not hostile, attitude towards human sexuality in general. I think that you could be considered a separatist feminist, if you were female, but the more radical feminist groups might not describe you as a feminist, but rather as a pro-feminist, simply because you have a penis. However, from what I've read, pro-feminists seem more moderate than feminists. So you are a heterosexual antisexual separatist feminist male![]()

by Korintar » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:34 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:Korintar wrote:I addressed my opinions concerning your positions in the prostitution thread. I'd most certainly say that you are anti-sexual. Note, I did not say asexual, meaning you cannot feel sexual attraction, but anti-sexual because, though you are capable of feeling attraction, you have a negative, if not hostile, attitude towards human sexuality in general. I think that you could be considered a separatist feminist, if you were female, but the more radical feminist groups might not describe you as a feminist, but rather as a pro-feminist, simply because you have a penis. However, from what I've read, pro-feminists seem more moderate than feminists. So you are a heterosexual antisexual separatist feminist male![]()
I'm kind of a weirdo. Heterosexual anti-sexual male radical feminist who accepts biological essentialism. Atheist. Physicist.
Oh well.


by Mushet » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:35 pm
Four-sided Triangles wrote:Imperial Parhe wrote:however, though you do mention judgement through individuals not statistics(which i take to also mean stereotypes and such), some of your posts do exactly that. Many times it seems as if you are alienating one gender completely from the other. On some of your posts on the prostitute legalization, you constantly seem to speak of how you believe men act and think, while also speaking as if women do not think or act similarly.
I have to generalize in order to quickly summarize my views on sex. They are so far from the mainstream that it's impossible to explain them without paragraphs and paragraphs of information.
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