Girls are weird, sometimes...

[Iuuvic]

The obvious solution would be to turn gay, and then blog about it.

Sound advice.

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Learn to play an instrument and form a mariachi band then stand outside her home, make sure it’s very late at night, and play her some sexy Mexican folk melodies.

This applies to anyone needing to win someone over.

If you lack musical talent, consider finding someone to play Cyrano for you.

That would work too or find an old, oversized 80's boombox, hold it over your head and blast the volume...Don't forget the Garbiel casset.

[Lordieth]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

[Misterfisher minions]

Here's a secret: girls like sex too. You haven't considered that, perhaps, she's perfectly happy using [him as a toy and continuing to have sex with him? Your assumption that he's the one using her and she's too dumb to realise is remarkably sexist.

1)Oh i didn't know about that

2)For fuck sake,I'm NOT sexist. I just heard many stories about the guy and i just can't get why the hell THIS is happening.

[Cassadaigua]

I'm not a great specialist of Female psychology... which means NS girls... HELP ME, Please !!!
I wonder if i have a chance with her...
Have you ever seen such a situation?
How can a girl put herself in such a sentimental clusterfuck ?
Do you have advices for me?

Don't even think about having a chance with her right now. Wanting to jump in and capitalize on the boyfriend's actions makes you no better, and perhaps worse; especially if she isn't too bothered with a "sex friend" situation.

[Oterro]

hint: girls enjoy sex and aren't always looking for close, meaningful relationships

[Misterfisher minions]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

Thanks for the advice, i'm probably going to take the first solution.

[Nadkor]

Here's a secret: girls like sex too. You haven't considered that, perhaps, she's perfectly happy using [him as a toy and continuing to have sex with him? Your assumption that he's the one using her and she's too dumb to realise is remarkably sexist.

1)Oh i didn't know about that

2)For fuck sake,I'm NOT sexist. I just heard many stories about the guy and i just can't get why the hell THIS is happening.

Because she's sexually attracted to him and is happy enough to continue fucking him even though they're no longer in a relationship? This, funnily enough, is probably the exact reason he's carrying on fucking her. Girls are people too.

This is not complicated.

[Bales Rant]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

Yep, tell her you love her. If she loves you back she'll forget the ex, if she doesn't you'll forget her (well, you won't if you truly love her but 'that's life').

[Ifreann]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

And that assumes this relationship is actually abusive. It could be that after breaking up they resolved their differences and have agreed to just fuck from time to time. The OP has a pretty considerable bias here.

[Misterfisher minions]

hint: girls enjoy sex and aren't always looking for close, meaningful relationships

She is the romantic type. Which is not helping me to understand the situation...
Well, in fact i should say " i'm gonna let her live her life " but sadly, seeing her in a so horrible situation makes me love her even moar.

[Ifreann]

Here's a secret: girls like sex too. You haven't considered that, perhaps, she's perfectly happy using [him as a toy and continuing to have sex with him? Your assumption that he's the one using her and she's too dumb to realise is remarkably sexist.

1)Oh i didn't know about that

2)For fuck sake,I'm NOT sexist. I just heard many stories about the guy and i just can't get why the hell THIS is happening.

PROTIP: The stories could be lies.

[Nadkor]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

And that assumes this relationship is actually abusive. It could be that after breaking up they resolved their differences and have agreed to just fuck from time to time. The OP has a pretty considerable bias here.

This is the problem with Nice Guys.

[Oterro]

hint: girls enjoy sex and aren't always looking for close, meaningful relationships

She is the romantic type. Which is not helping me to understand the situation...
Well, in fact i should say " i'm gonna let her live her life " but sadly, seeing her in a so horrible situation makes me love her even moar.

Well you've misjudged her if she's involved in a relationship which purely concerns sex.

Is she being hit? Does the guy verbally or physically abuse her? If not, then, well there's nothing you can do effendi. It hurts. I think most people have their hearts broken - I've been there - but there's nothing you can do. Even if it feels wrong, she's not an object to be fought over or a damsel in distress to be saved so. Maybe it's time to move on.

[Misterfisher minions]

Don't even think about having a chance with her right now. Wanting to jump in and capitalize on the boyfriend's actions makes you no better, and perhaps worse; especially if she isn't too bothered with a "sex friend" situation.

1) I don't want to "capitalize" on such a thing. I just want to drive her away from such a terrible situation that leads nowhere but in terrible sadness and depression.

2) Insulting bullshit.

[New Sheoth VI]

you need to kill him. Its the only way

I think i'm gonna take your advice!
I also think many people would love to see me killing him.

Do the black sacrament.

Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.
Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.
Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.
Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.
Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.
Sweet mother, Sweet mother send your child unto me for the sins of the wicked must be baptised in blood and fear.

[Yootwopia]

Do you have advices for me?

Yeah, don't be a jealous prick.

[Magnum Ultra]

go find another girl

[Yootwopia]

hint: girls enjoy sex and aren't always looking for close, meaningful relationships

She is the romantic type. Which is not helping me to understand the situation...
Well, in fact i should say " i'm gonna let her live her life " but sadly, seeing her in a so horrible situation makes me love her even moar.

Ah I see, condescending as well as jealous. Give it say five years and maybe come back to this one.

[Gigaverse]

hint: girls enjoy sex and aren't always looking for close, meaningful relationships

She is the romantic type. Which is not helping me to understand the situation...
Well, in fact i should say " i'm gonna let her live her life " but sadly, seeing her in a so horrible situation makes me love her even moar.

Oh, how romantic... Sadly, she's... Well, you know what I'm talking about.

[Pieman City]

If she's still sleeping with him then no, you have no chance, and even if you DID have a chance, you shouldn't go for her anyway because she's still sleeping with someone else.



How hard is that?

[Misterfisher minions]

PROTIP: The stories could be lies.

Yeah, same stories over and over again, never heard different versions.

Yeah, don't be a jealous prick.

This is the problem with Nice Guys.

Thanks * starts crying *

[EnragedMaldivians]

You're jealous that somone is fucking a girl that you like.

If I take your word for granted that this guy is an abusive asshole, it still seems more just like you're upset that she's not with you, rather than out of genuine concern for her well being.

In other words, you're jealous that someone else is fucking a girl that you like.

Grow up.

[Lordieth]

People will stay in abusive relationships, that's just a sad truth. If she can't see that she's in such an abusive relationship you aren't going to convince her. You may infact drive her away and closer to him. Either tell her how you feel or let her live with her own choices.

And that assumes this relationship is actually abusive. It could be that after breaking up they resolved their differences and have agreed to just fuck from time to time. The OP has a pretty considerable bias here.

True, but I can only go on the information the OP gave. If we assume that is the case then what I said at the end of my response could still apply. If it's a friends with benefits scenario, that may be what he wants and she's clinging on in the hope that they'll get back together. It's conjecture, but quite common.

[Yootwopia]

If she's still sleeping with him then no, you have no chance, and even if you DID have a chance, you shouldn't go for her anyway because she's still sleeping with someone else.

Nothing turns a woman on like imposed solitude outside of her current partner. Let me guess, if your partner goes out, you're not worried about her, you're worried about other guys?

[Misterfisher minions]

Ah I see, condescending as well as jealous. Give it say five years and maybe come back to this one.

Sir, i'm not going to answer these insults, i don't want to have a flaming warning.