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Girls are weird, sometimes...

Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:34 am

Hey NS Gamers!
I need your help to understand a weird situation: I fell in love with a girl ( to be honest, she HAUNTS me and i just can't get her outta my mind ) but she's in such a bad situation.
So, her ex-boyfriend let her down because she had put on some weight * screams bloody motherfucker *, but he still currently use her as a sex-friend ( which drives me mad borderline crazy ).
I'm not a great specialist of Female psychology... which means NS girls... HELP ME, Please !!!
I wonder if i have a chance with her...
Have you ever seen such a situation?
How can a girl put herself in such a sentimental clusterfuck ? :unsure:
Do you have advices for me?
One of my friend recently told her he was in love... but he failed, badly.
I feel sad for him, he's one of my best friends.

Thank you for answering :)

Nic
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I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
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Postby Gigaverse » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:38 am

Your name is Nic?

I'm a guy, and I feel weird of this part: He still uses her as... what-you-know-friend??? HOW DARE HIM???
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Postby Ifreann » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:39 am

Step 1: Get a blog
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Postby Lenehen » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:39 am

you need to kill him. Its the only way
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:40 am

Gigaverse wrote:Your name is Nic?

I'm a guy, and I feel weird of this part: He still uses her as... what-you-know-friend??? HOW DARE HIM???


1) a nickname i like

2)You are right, it is a holy load of retarded shit... >:(
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
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Postby Ifreann » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:40 am

Gigaverse wrote:Your name is Nic?

I'm a guy, and I feel weird of this part: He still uses her as... what-you-know-friend??? HOW DARE HIM???

Welcome to the grown-up world. Many people here are assholes.
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Postby Eggy216 » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:40 am

Gigaverse wrote:Your name is Nic?

I'm a guy, and I feel weird of this part: He still uses her as... what-you-know-friend??? HOW DARE HIM???


Yeah same here. . .I'm trying to answer you're question but I keep getting hung up on that part. What is with him????
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:41 am

Lenehen wrote:you need to kill him. Its the only way


I think i'm gonna take your advice!
I also think many people would love to see me killing him.
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
"Run for your life from any man who tells you that money is evil. That sentence is the leper's bell of an approaching looter".Ayn Rand
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Postby Mesoland » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:41 am

Sorry, but NS isn't a dating/blog site/advice site. It's a political simulation game. I'd expect this to be locked, so I'd advise investing in a blog elsewhere, on a site dedicated to this sort of problem. Hopefully you'll get your answer there.

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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:43 am

Mesoland wrote:Sorry, but NS isn't a dating/blog site/advice site. It's a political simulation game. I'd expect this to be locked, so I'd advise investing in a blog elsewhere, on a site dedicated to this sort of problem. Hopefully you'll get your answer there.

Mesoland


No, it's the "general discussion" forum.
NS is made of young gamers, and i need some help.
Sorry, Mesoland.
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
"Run for your life from any man who tells you that money is evil. That sentence is the leper's bell of an approaching looter".Ayn Rand
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Postby Nadkor » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:47 am

Yeah, girls aren't some kind of mystical, magical creature operating in a totally different way to guys, and all connected into one hive mind from which we can dispense advice.
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:47 am

Ifreann wrote:Welcome to the grown-up world. Many people here are assholes.


Yes, but this level of assholism is unbelievable and makes me freaking sick.
So as anyone already seen a similar situation?
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
"Run for your life from any man who tells you that money is evil. That sentence is the leper's bell of an approaching looter".Ayn Rand
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Postby Nadkor » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:48 am

Misterfisher minions wrote:
Ifreann wrote:Welcome to the grown-up world. Many people here are assholes.


Yes, but this level of assholism is unbelievable and makes me freaking sick.
So as anyone already seen a similar situation?


No, this level of assholism is precisely standard for real life. Good luck.
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thekidswhopoptodaywillrocktomorrow

I think we need more post-coital and less post-rock
Feels like the build-up takes forever but you never get me off

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Postby Ifreann » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:48 am

Misterfisher minions wrote:
Lenehen wrote:you need to kill him. Its the only way


I think i'm gonna take your advice!
I also think many people would love to see me killing him.

I trust you both know that it's against the rules to call for people's deaths here, and the mods don't tend to make exceptions for jokes.....


Misterfisher minions wrote:
Mesoland wrote:Sorry, but NS isn't a dating/blog site/advice site. It's a political simulation game. I'd expect this to be locked, so I'd advise investing in a blog elsewhere, on a site dedicated to this sort of problem. Hopefully you'll get your answer there.

Mesoland


No, it's the "general discussion" forum.
NS is made of young gamers, and i need some help.
Sorry, Mesoland.

There's very little scope for debate or discussion about the sex life of some girl you have the hots for.
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:51 am

In fact, that was a joke. I don't think i deserve a warning for that.

Sorry if i offended you.
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I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
"Run for your life from any man who tells you that money is evil. That sentence is the leper's bell of an approaching looter".Ayn Rand
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Postby Ifreann » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:52 am

Nadkor wrote:Yeah, girls aren't some kind of mystical, magical creature operating in a totally different way to guys, and all connected into one hive mind from which we can dispense advice.

I'm not even seeing where the confusion is coming from. "This girl I know is having sex with a guy she's sexually attracted to, OMG WAI WIMMIN SO WEIRD?!". Seriously?


Misterfisher minions wrote:
Ifreann wrote:Welcome to the grown-up world. Many people here are assholes.


Yes, but this level of assholism is unbelievable and makes me freaking sick.
So as anyone already seen a similar situation?

Sounds like the plot of a vast number of films and TV series.
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Postby Iuuvic » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:52 am

Learn to play an instrument and form a mariachi band then stand outside her home, make sure it’s very late at night, and play her some sexy Mexican folk melodies.

This applies to anyone needing to win someone over.
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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:54 am

The obvious solution would be to turn gay, and then blog about it.
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Postby Nadkor » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:55 am

Ifreann wrote:
Nadkor wrote:Yeah, girls aren't some kind of mystical, magical creature operating in a totally different way to guys, and all connected into one hive mind from which we can dispense advice.

I'm not even seeing where the confusion is coming from. "This girl I know is having sex with a guy she's sexually attracted to, OMG WAI WIMMIN SO WEIRD?!". Seriously?


Well, yeah, exactly. Not sure why this is confusing in any way.
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Postby Ifreann » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:57 am

Buffett and Colbert wrote:The obvious solution would be to turn gay, and then blog about it.

Sound advice.


Iuuvic wrote:Learn to play an instrument and form a mariachi band then stand outside her home, make sure it’s very late at night, and play her some sexy Mexican folk melodies.

This applies to anyone needing to win someone over.

If you lack musical talent, consider finding someone to play Cyrano for you.
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:57 am

Ifreann wrote:
Nadkor wrote:Yeah, girls aren't some kind of mystical, magical creature operating in a totally different way to guys, and all connected into one hive mind from which we can dispense advice.

I'm not even seeing where the confusion is coming from. "This girl I know is having sex with a guy she's sexually attracted to, OMG WAI WIMMIN SO WEIRD?!". Seriously?




1)Are you sure :eyebrow:

2)The guy we're speaking about obviously has no respect for her. That's pretty weird: she knows he is a terrible asshole that uses her as a toy, but still... That is not confusing, at all... :palm:
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
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Postby Tim-Opolis » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:58 am

Misterfisher minions wrote:
Lenehen wrote:you need to kill him. Its the only way


I think i'm gonna take your advice!
I also think many people would love to see me killing him.


And then you would go to jail and your butthole would double in size.

I don't suggest killing anyone. Nasty business..
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Postby Gigaverse » Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:00 am

Ifreann wrote:
Gigaverse wrote:Your name is Nic?

I'm a guy, and I feel weird of this part: He still uses her as... what-you-know-friend??? HOW DARE HIM???

Welcome to the grown-up world. Many people here are assholes.


You don't have to welcome me. I know this "holy-crap" more than I know about this Earth :rofl: .
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Postby Misterfisher minions » Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:00 am

Buffett and Colbert wrote:The obvious solution would be to turn gay, and then blog about it.


I'm laughing my ass off, because something on your flag is pretty much dick-designed :lol2:
Seriously, what a great advice...
I'm a french classical liberal/Randian objectivist, to be fair I'm pretty much the local extraterrestrial.
I'm an atheist. i support economic liberalism and social libertarianism( free market and civil rights! ).
I'm a centrist in France, while americans call me a far right-winger and while polish people call me a center-leftist.
"Run for your life from any man who tells you that money is evil. That sentence is the leper's bell of an approaching looter".Ayn Rand
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Postby Nadkor » Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:00 am

Misterfisher minions wrote:
Ifreann wrote:I'm not even seeing where the confusion is coming from. "This girl I know is having sex with a guy she's sexually attracted to, OMG WAI WIMMIN SO WEIRD?!". Seriously?




1)Are you sure :eyebrow:

2)The guy we're speaking about obviously has no respect for her. That's pretty weird: she knows he is a terrible asshole that uses her as a toy, but still... That is not confusing, at all... :palm:


Here's a secret: girls like sex too. You haven't considered that, perhaps, she's perfectly happy using him as a toy and continuing to have sex with him? Your assumption that he's the one using her and she's too dumb to realise is remarkably sexist.
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