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by The Yremia Corporate » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:39 pm
by Teniria » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:40 pm
by Femnipotent » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:40 pm
The Mindset Reborn wrote:Empirical evidence is not required for the position you are expousing. You state you have chosen lesbianism. Stating "you cannot choose to be lesbian" is irrelevant, because you clearly have.
If there is a biological component to sexuality it is unlikely that you can consciously choose to change that aspect, but by choosing to resocialise yourself as a lesbian you become indistinguishable from a biologically determined lesbian by the metrics of most empirical measurements. Attempting to "prove" you're wrong by claiming lesbianism is empirically a non-choice is logicially nonsensical when confronted by the fact that you have chosen lesbian.
Your choice invalidates all contrary arguments ipso facto.
by The Mindset Reborn » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:40 pm
Polruan wrote:The Mindset Reborn wrote:It is quite profoundly racist to claim these societies do not engage in socialisation. "Civilisation" has absolutely nothing to do with socialisation.
It's not racist and don't fucking call names like a commissar please? How can it be racist when primitive tribes come in all races? I didn't even claim they did not socialise their children I said that even tribes which are what we would call neglectful and abandoning to their children socialise them to some degree.
by The Yremia Corporate » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:40 pm
Polruan wrote:So choosing to be attracted to women, that's like "prison gay" is it?
by JustinusCaesar » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:40 pm
by The Yremia Corporate » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:41 pm
by Mourro » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:41 pm
Femnipotent wrote:Mourro wrote:
I think you're missing the point here..your thread is about 'choosing lesbianism', which I insist is not a choice, in my humble opinion. I'm not talking about shaven women or pornography...what does that have to do with 'choosing' a sexuality? My point was supposed to be that it IS NOT a conscious choice to dictate what you are naturally attracted to. Natural as in what is right for you, what is initial and instinctive to you. So yes, of course, we have over a million tastes. Because we do not and cannot conform 100% to an 'appropriate' sexuality. We can try, but it's not true to your personal nature. And again you're talking about domination of sexuality (your Greece argument). Maybe you should change your thread title to 'Forced Into Lesbianism' or something. And no, of course all Greek men would not have been naturally bisexual just because of that time period. As I said before, people of ALL sexualities existed, exist and will most likely continue to exist in ALL societies, cultures and so on. It's only the 'exposure', or the 'approval', or the 'liberalism' etc which varies across time and place. This is because, I believe, sexuality is nature! And also, many controlled social circles and clans like that of Ancient Greece were not constant to one sexuality, such as East Asian Buddhist communities where women were banned from monasteries, but that didn't stop some monks having sex with them. Also, many monks had sex and relationships with other men. So, nothing can ever truly control sexuality, so I would advise you not to do that to yourself either. If you're not attracted to men, that's fine. You can be a 'lesbian'. But if you are, then you can't 'choose' lesbianism. Sexuality doesn't just disappear.
I do fail to see the point of your argument. I am not being forced into anything. I am choosing lesbianism. Now some people will claim I was always a lesbian despite my own knowledge about my lack of attraction to women. Others will claim that even if I am attracted to women it means I am still heterosexual. It is as though people think these attractions we have are immutable and formed whole out of some sort of primordial 'cloth' and that cloth can never be tailored or traded in.
I do not understand why it is so important to remove the element of choice from the equation, as though it absolutely must be an inevitability or else it is wrong. The only reason I can think of for this very strange approach to the issue of sexual choice and the issue of choosing a sexual orientation, is that it quickly draws parallels in the minds of well-meaning LGBT allies of arguments used to condemn homosexuality. But to throw out the idea completely because of that is not critical minded.
by Hydesland » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:41 pm
The Mindset Reborn wrote:Empirical evidence is not required for the position you are expousing.
by Polruan » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:41 pm
The Mindset Reborn wrote:It is racist to imply "primitive" societies do not engage in socialisation. All societies engage in socialisation. It's in the name.
by The Yremia Corporate » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:42 pm
The Mindset Reborn wrote:Polruan wrote:
It's not racist and don't fucking call names like a commissar please? How can it be racist when primitive tribes come in all races? I didn't even claim they did not socialise their children I said that even tribes which are what we would call neglectful and abandoning to their children socialise them to some degree.
It is racist to imply "primitive" societies do not engage in socialisation. All societies engage in socialisation. It's in the name.
by Seibertron » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:42 pm
Polruan wrote:So choosing to be attracted to women, that's like "prison gay" is it?
by The Halseyist Faction » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:42 pm
by JustinusCaesar » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:43 pm
by Samozaryadnyastan » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:43 pm
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by Polruan » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:44 pm
by The Yremia Corporate » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:44 pm
Mourro wrote:Femnipotent wrote:
I do fail to see the point of your argument. I am not being forced into anything. I am choosing lesbianism. Now some people will claim I was always a lesbian despite my own knowledge about my lack of attraction to women. Others will claim that even if I am attracted to women it means I am still heterosexual. It is as though people think these attractions we have are immutable and formed whole out of some sort of primordial 'cloth' and that cloth can never be tailored or traded in.
I do not understand why it is so important to remove the element of choice from the equation, as though it absolutely must be an inevitability or else it is wrong. The only reason I can think of for this very strange approach to the issue of sexual choice and the issue of choosing a sexual orientation, is that it quickly draws parallels in the minds of well-meaning LGBT allies of arguments used to condemn homosexuality. But to throw out the idea completely because of that is not critical minded.
OK, so, being 'critical-minded', I will suppose that me, as a gay man, am to choose to like women. Because you seem to suggest that choice should be fine and that I can apparently just forget about my natural attraction to men. Suppose I try to have sexual relations with a woman. What do you think will happen? That is something that I have explored in my younger days, and something which fails miserably every time. I am just not naturally attracted to women - or I should say SEXUALLY. Therefore I believe that I cannot simply 'choose' to like women. It would repulse me and make me miserable. I love numerous women, but have never been sexually attracted to any one of them. It's just not in my nature. That is homosexuality, that is my nature. Really, honestly being able to choose and not mind smells like bisexuality to me. Or utter confusion.
by The Mindset Reborn » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:44 pm
Polruan wrote:The Mindset Reborn wrote:It is racist to imply "primitive" societies do not engage in socialisation. All societies engage in socialisation. It's in the name.
Not that I was implying that, only that the degree and type of socialisation is necessarily much more, well, primitive, but why would it be racist? Why not "fascist" or "communist", seeing as you're apparently engaged in calling things you don't like names that have nothing to do with them?
I just knocked my head on a doorframe, is that racism too?
by Celritannia » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:44 pm
The Yremia Corporate wrote:Femnipotent wrote:
Patently false. If I do not associate with men, how can my heart lead me regardless of what I choose? I choose to love women, not men. It's not as though my 'mind' is going to drag me out into the street to find a man.
And so, how many relationships with women have you had?
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by Femnipotent » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:44 pm
Mourro wrote:OK, so, being 'critical-minded', I will suppose that me, as a gay man, am to choose to like women. Because you seem to suggest that choice should be fine and that I can apparently just forget about my natural attraction to men. Suppose I try to have sexual relations with a woman. What do you think will happen? That is something that I have explored in my younger days, and something which fails miserably every time. I am just not naturally attracted to women - or I should say SEXUALLY. Therefore I believe that I cannot simply 'choose' to like women. It would repulse me and make me miserable. I love numerous women, but have never been sexually attracted to any one of them. It's just not in my nature. That is homosexuality, that is my nature. Really, honestly being able to choose and not mind smells like bisexuality to me. Or utter confusion.
by Samozaryadnyastan » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:45 pm
Polruan wrote:Seibertron wrote:
Prison rape?
Well inmates don't choose to be gay they get forced to partake in homosexual unless you talking about the rapist who may or may not have been gay.
No not rape I mean just choosing to use men as substitute women. It used to be quite common in British boarding schools too. And, of course, it doesn't necessarily mean you're choosing to be gay, just like the idea of choosing to be lesbian seems stupid!
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by Grand Westphalia » Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:46 pm
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