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New Sheoth VI wrote:

Isolated China wrote:Thats some misplaced vision you have there. Some people do die alone. Not everyone finds this thing called 'love'.

He nor I ever said that everyone finds love. I said everyone has a girlfriend/boyfriend atleast once.

Meh. Some people don't.

LoL island wrote:

Isolated China wrote:Love is where you deeply care for someone and never want them to leave you. At least thats what my friends tell me.

hmmm... if that is true, then i have yet to feel it at all, even upon considering parents or other close relatives... i think they love me though, so at-least there's that

Don't worry. Isolation is much better than that silly 'love' others talk about. In Isolation, there's no stupid people, and WICE!

17

Nothing yet *forever alone

I was 7. Girl named Chandler. Gave her this special valentine day card. Didn't work so well, because she tore it up in my face and threw it in the trash. A simple no would have sufficed.

Isolated China wrote:

LoL island wrote:
hmmm... if that is true, then i have yet to feel it at all, even upon considering parents or other close relatives... i think they love me though, so at-least there's that

Don't worry. Isolation is much better than that silly 'love' others talk about. In Isolation, there's no stupid people, and WICE!

Aye, and to steal from many other NSers, I'll drink to that... with a bowl of Wice

*Official Hermit

Drekka wrote:17

Nothing yet *forever alone

Then become Isolated. Thats what I did!

I think I was...11. I was in love with her, then we lost touch, and I fell in love with a different girl named Alice. She rejected me, which broke my heart, but fortunately, my original love and I reconnected, and now I love her again.

I guess I would say 17, though I'm rather certain if it was love and by all accounts I'm probably still am in the same situation right now, suffice to say I've never had love reciprocated; or for that matter directed towards me. She was, to go into detail, quite a bit too much to forget, but a friend... or should I say a "friend" ruined it for me.

Which if you'll allow me to rant, bothers the hell out of me. I think I might feel more solace in the whole thing if I were ugly or unintelligent, rude, unhygienic, or literally anything that makes sense for me to explain. As it stands, I've been described as handsome, confident, funny, intelligent and kind so what kind of fresh hell is this?

At worst I'm vain, but I can't really imagine that overshadowing my other positive personality features. I shouldn't sound so ungrateful, I'm certainly lucky, but I guess it's all the more difficult when you know people less attractive, less intelligent and much crueller can find someone to love them but no one for yourself. I'm by no means one of those caddish nice guys. I don't think women only go for jerks, I don't think being polite or holding doors open should make women fall at my feet, but all that just leaves me more confused...

LoL island wrote:I do not understand what love is, for i have no idea how to define it.

Love is a dopamine-induced stimulation of the right ventral tegmental area and right caudate nucleus.

http://www.helenfisher.com/downloads/ar ... mpNeur.pdf

RandomGuyNation wrote:I think I was...11. I was in love with her, then we lost touch, and I fell in love with a different girl named Alice. She rejected me, which broke my heart, but fortunately, my original love and I reconnected, and now I love her again.

I think that's what would have happened between me and my first love Kylie, had I seen her alive again.

I was 18. It was totally one-sided and ended abruptly when that person (I use that word in the loosest sense) gave me a glimpse of the true colors covered up to that point.

Four-sided Triangles wrote:

LoL island wrote:I do not understand what love is, for i have no idea how to define it.

Love is a dopamine-induced stimulation of the right ventral tegmental area and right caudate nucleus.

http://www.helenfisher.com/downloads/ar ... mpNeur.pdf

And I'm guessing you score with the ladies all the time.

LoL island wrote:

Isolated China wrote:Don't worry. Isolation is much better than that silly 'love' others talk about. In Isolation, there's no stupid people, and WICE!

Aye, and to steal from many other NSers, I'll drink to that... with a bowl of Wice

*Official Hermit

Its Isolation for the win, man.

*Hands you Diploma of Official Isolation and Hermitness.

14, pretty much knew everything about each other, and told each other what we have never told anybody else before. Thought we had something fantastic, then i realized what a popularity concerned bitch she was when she said we couldn't be together because her friends didn't like me and said she didn't want to jump into things any way. Month later, she starts going out with some guy shes known for two hours at a Rollerblade. Worst year of my life have to say.

Isolated China wrote:

LoL island wrote:
Aye, and to steal from many other NSers, I'll drink to that... with a bowl of Wice

*Official Hermit

Its Isolation for the win, man.

*Hands you Diploma of Official Isolation and Hermitness.

Oh, you don't know how long i have already gone into being isolated, when unstructured? I become nocturnal and simply refuse to leave my house, but thanks for the physical representation, i needed one of those

The Greater Afghan Republic wrote:14, pretty much knew everything about each other, and told each other what we have never told anybody else before. Thought we had something fantastic, then i realized what a popularity concerned bitch she was when she said we couldn't be together because her friends didn't like me and said she didn't want to jump into things any way. Month later, she starts going out with some guy shes known for two hours at a Rollerblade. Worst year of my life have to say.

Ouch. Now thats harsh, my friend.

Alexlantis wrote:And I'm guessing you score with the ladies all the time.

1. No, and I've never even tried.

2. Just trying to "score" with women is disgraceful. I have no desire for one night stands.

The Mechanan Race wrote:

Threlizdun wrote:I was 14. Words of the wise, make sure the person you love is actually attracted to your gender before you say anything.

I don't mean to be cruel or anything, but that must have sucked.

Happened to me. Ruined a friendship

Isolated China wrote:

The Greater Afghan Republic wrote:14, pretty much knew everything about each other, and told each other what we have never told anybody else before. Thought we had something fantastic, then i realized what a popularity concerned bitch she was when she said we couldn't be together because her friends didn't like me and said she didn't want to jump into things any way. Month later, she starts going out with some guy shes known for two hours at a Rollerblade. Worst year of my life have to say.

Ouch. Now thats harsh, my friend.

That's the short version, the whole thing is FAR worse lol

The Greater Afghan Republic wrote:14, pretty much knew everything about each other, and told each other what we have never told anybody else before. Thought we had something fantastic, then i realized what a popularity concerned bitch she was when she said we couldn't be together because her friends didn't like me and said she didn't want to jump into things any way. Month later, she starts going out with some guy shes known for two hours at a Rollerblade. Worst year of my life have to say.

I suprisingly have never had that problem.

Not sure if id call it "love", but i have had several crushes. The first one... didnt go so well and im leaving it at that.

LoL island wrote:

Isolated China wrote:Its Isolation for the win, man.

*Hands you Diploma of Official Isolation and Hermitness.

Oh, you don't know how long i have already gone into being isolated, when unstructured? I become nocturnal and simply refuse to leave my house, but thanks for the physical representation, i needed one of those

Don't worry. I've been Isolated since the beginning of time. After a while, you become Master of Isolationism. Then get to help other people become Pada-Hermits. But Physical Representation of Isolation is always useful. Especially for those people who accuse you of interaction with the outside world. Now those people just need to try Isolation!

Four-sided Triangles wrote:

Alexlantis wrote:And I'm guessing you score with the ladies all the time.

1. No, and I've never even tried.

2. Just trying to "score" with women is disgraceful. I have no desire for one night stands.

The score bit was a joke, my friend.

One night stands aren't any good, really. Long term relationships are ideal. "Scoring" as a system pretty much sucks unless you happen to be a douche.

Lazssia wrote:

Dakini wrote:Madam is fine.

Look at the poll, if you will. Look how many people didn't find their first loves until after 15.

You'll do fine.

Not so sure. I'm not particularly smart, funny, nor handsome. Dating me would probably be some form of cruel community service.

You and every other fifteen year old. You'll grow out of the emo self hate phase in a year or two.

Derscon wrote:

Lazssia wrote:Not so sure. I'm not particularly smart, funny, nor handsome. Dating me would probably be some form of cruel community service.

You and every other fifteen year old. You'll grow out of the emo self hate phase in a year or two.

Or become like me, all depressed and lonely. Sometimes that phase just never, ever, ever.....EVER passes.

Over a year now, which is a record in my school I was 13 when it started, still going strong